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I would like to address a few concerns of mine. The "proper etiquette" of a sales person. You do see them encourage you to buy - it's their job. But you will find the technique isn't "Are you interested?" It's talking up the benefits and advantages of a product, telling you the current promotion (i.e 20% off, BOGO, 50 off 100, etc), thanking you for coming in, etc.

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toolegit @criss459 I LOVE THIS!!! 2 of the most annoying things, "what's your lowest", and thanks for sharing "interested"!!! So happy so done posted this! :)

Oct 05Reply

jennifer128 So true!!!!!! :)

Oct 06Reply

kimmiedee AMEN!❤️😊

Oct 06Reply

spadoni57 @criss459 Here, here!!! Thank goodness other people find that annoying... drives me nuts!!!

Oct 06Reply

myiabee Exactly ! 👏👏👏

Oct 06Reply

chajesi @criss459 yes!!!😍💕💖

Oct 06Reply

desidooo @criss459 lol AND if I'm "interested?" I'll say I am without you having to ask me.

Oct 06Reply

susansupernova Another AMEN from me! Hate those things. I've gotten to the point where I will unlike items I've liked if someone asks if I am "interested?" If someone thanks me, that's one thing. 😊

Oct 07Reply

nugget_love 👏👏👏👏AMEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Oct 07Reply

sellis1001 AGREED!!!!!

Oct 07Reply

jaylynnfinds That question is quite annoying. I couldn't agree more!

Oct 07Reply

hmbowling 👏👏👏👏👏

Oct 08Reply

andinella @criss459 so agree!! Although I must say I've been lucky and have only gotten one or two "interested?" after a share. Happens all the time after a like, which is why I hardly ever like anything because I feel bad that I am getting a person's hopes up!! I think postings like this will help. It happens so much that newbies think they should do it. My teenage daughter got me into Posh and SHE did it and reprimanded me when I didn't! She has a lot to learn about selling! LOL!!

Oct 08Reply

lilmunk Yes! I've been answering with, "What's your highest?"

Oct 08Reply

ellebee206 ☔️😘😍 very true!

Oct 11Reply

lovekriscloset @criss459 THANK YOU... I COMPLETELY AGREE! How very ANNOYING!!!!!

Oct 11Reply

cmjla Well said!!👏👏👏👍✌❤👍

Oct 11Reply

ktrn777 @criss459 👍👏👏My pet peeves also Oh and this one: trade? Thanx for posting 😊

Oct 11Reply

poco Ditto!! :-)

Oct 12Reply

keepcalmandshop Thanks for the share Hun! Totally agree with you on this!!👏👏👏😊😊😊👍👍👍

Oct 12Reply

cherie_candice I couldn't agree with you more!

Oct 12Reply

yourcouturela This is too perfect! I'm going to tag every person here that gives me a "what's your lowest" from now on. 😉

Oct 13Reply

jijifashion I love this! Many of my items are on sale and all are marked with "SALE!!", I don't think making the price any lower is just. I see a lot of people making ridiculous offers on here, trying to pay $10 for an item that's marked at $50. Oh well, I guess! :)

Oct 13Reply

jijifashion @ktrn777 for the folks that post "trade?" on My listings I provide them with a link to a posting I have that says " no trades, no holds, no PayPal". It comes off a little mean but I have that I don't trade at the front of my closet.

Oct 13Reply

angel10 I LOVE THIS! I wish there was a repost option!

Oct 13Reply

ktrn777 @jijifashion 👍😊I like that Thanks for sharing

Oct 13Reply

mdlxh Thx for all the shares! Your closet is super cute btw 😄♥️

Oct 13Reply

ingwhit Well said!!!!!

Oct 13Reply

vintagecutie Amen!

Oct 15Reply

jbatino @criss459 just one more addition- stop calling everyone hun!!

Oct 15Reply

thesocialite 😂😂😂😂

Oct 16Reply

mzfloyd97 @criss459, it's about time someone addressed this! Thank you! It drives me crazy and I have always thought it is VERY RUDE!! I'm definately sharing this post!!! Take Care!!

Oct 17Reply

imsunshine13 @criss459 Thank you!! Very well said!,, I find those two questions very annoying. May I copy this and share it????

Oct 19Reply

criss459 @imsunshine13 sure go ahead :)

Oct 19Reply

incognito13 @criss459 I LOVE this and you have a gorgeous closet!

Oct 20Reply

kathrav @criss459 Well said! Your closet is great. Thank you for sharing my listing :)

Oct 21Reply

salrae Just about everything that has been written is on my list of things I dislike but I have one more. Someone states that they want you to say drop your price from $50 to $20 because they saw the same on someone else site for that price. When I ask her tell me were so I could go by it she told me a site, well it was not there and when I sent her a tag and told her that, she talked ugly and told she was going to tell all my followers how terrible I was. I thanked her for sharing and she really got upset with me then. I have had these types of things happen a number of times and it really upsets me. Why do people have to try and stir things up. It makes me sad.

Oct 26Reply

thrifted4youbyk WORD!!

Oct 26Reply

lifeinstiches ❤️❤️❤️❤️👍this so many just don't get it!!

Oct 27Reply

insatiablegypsy amen :)) I hate being asked the question "you interested" EVEN when I do "like" an item! It's kinda silly to me! Of course I'm interested, I "Liked" it didn't I? And it's listed in my likes, so when I get a chance, I will message/comment when I'm ready to wheel & deal! hahahahaha Some nights I shop and "like" items then go back later to see what I want the most! Having to answer to 15 people asking me if "I'm interested" gets to me, and sometimes I don't even answer. I try no to attack people right away when they like my items. If I see they like several, I let them know I will bundle for them, I DON'T say "you interested"? I already know they are! LOL!! And I TRY to share when someone shares my stuff! But I'm sure I miss some :'( Tonight I'm catching up on New followers and sharers :)) Happy poshing!!!

Oct 28Reply

lostandfawned Sing it sister!

Oct 29Reply

sassysuzzy Ya know, I guess we are all different. Having been a business woman for years even owning my own Boutique, I always believed some business is better then no business. You are not obligated to answer the questions that appear so stressful to you. I totally respect your right to feel the way you do as obviously you have others who feel the same. As for me, I've learned not to sweat the small stuff in life. I realize of all the thousands of Poshers there are probably a thousand different thoughts on this issue. Please indulge me in this one point. Your "Welcome" page projects a person who is fun & warm. I was attracted to it right away. Then I see this post that say's, "LET'S GET ONE THING STRAIGHT!" It sounds a bit hostile to me. Here's an old saying, "You can catch more bees with honey than with vinegar." Just a thought. Happy POSHING!

Oct 29Reply

tessturbo I can't stand being asked if I'm interested simply because I like an item. I often 'like' things that are super-cool, though not my size; or gorgeous but for which I presently have no need. (Prom dress?!) When I'm seriously interested, I'll let a seller know. Don't we all?

Oct 29Reply

jhall @criss459 Thanks for all the shares 😍

Oct 29Reply

chicandclassic @criss459 THIS IS THE BEST THING I'VE READ SINCE JOINING POSH A FEW MONTHS AGO!!!

Oct 31Reply

beckstraub @criss459 AMEN!!!!

Oct 31Reply

salrae You can have I do not trade at the top and 12 people could have asked you "do you share" and it is all over the site and someone will come right back and ask again. If I am interested in a item I read all the comments to see what history the items has because some of your questions might have already been asked. I always thank someone for their likes but unless they have liked more than one thing I do say anymore. If they have liked a couple of items I offer to give them a good discount for bundles. I have met so many nice people on Posh, just love it. Shirley

Oct 31Reply

mslang I'm with you here, and thanks for sharing👠👠

Nov 02Reply

love2travel I thought it was just me that found it so annoying, thanks for writing this. 😃😃

Nov 02Reply

mckitti119 @criss459 Exactly! Thank you!!! @robinbird17 you'll enjoy this!

Nov 03Reply

robinbird17 Prefect!!!!

Nov 03Reply

abcdamier THANK YOU! Ugh this is so annoying...I'm glad I'm not the only one who feels this way :)

Nov 07Reply

crystals_resale I hate the what's your lowest price comment! Like you said give me an offer then we will see if it's good enough... Some people!

Nov 07Reply

lorlordeluxe I would LOOOOVE to copy this, if you dont mind.

Nov 07Reply

birdboxcreative Get it, girrrrll! 👍👍👍

Nov 07Reply

fmomansky Well said! Thank you got stating so perfectly what so many of us Posh girls are thinking. Sharing is NOT liking and asking "what's your lowest" IS highly offensive especially when prices are reasonable to start with, as yours are. Thank you💞💕👍👏👏👏

Nov 07Reply

peachyjourney Love this!!!

Nov 08Reply

xitsbritt AMEN... hallelujah... thank youuu!

Nov 08Reply

mocha4u @criss459 Well stated!!! 👍😄

Nov 08Reply

sangyayc Hit the points straight on!!😄👍

Nov 08Reply

2flowers @criss459 thank you so very much for your shares! So nice of you :) and i love love love this! The whats your lowest price questions are so rude, drives me bananas.

Nov 08Reply

annaconda Ok I like you your funny!

Nov 09Reply

lindsaylookah Totely agree!!! 👍👍👏

Nov 09Reply

alyssa250 I know you made the effort to make these pictures yourself but would you mind if I screen shotted them and did just what you did here and I can credit you in the listing I create? You said it so perfectly!

Nov 09Reply

criss459 @alyssa250 sure go ahead, I don't mind

Nov 09Reply

rebeca3 Love this , that is so true...

Nov 12Reply

jm_evans I need to make something like this. Love it ❤️

Nov 12Reply

bluelagoon Wow! I have worked with the public in the healthcare going into 30 years... Two things I have learned that the public just will NOT handle well or abide by... And I quote: READING & REGULATIONS...

Nov 13Reply

lilbitsofpau I detest when they ask what's ur lowest and then u tell them and they never respond! So I have learned to ignore the question, but I might just say "give me a counter"

Nov 14Reply

br00keyy 👏👏👏

Nov 15Reply

leesaash 👍😊

Nov 16Reply

maple_avenue 😊I have the same pet peeves!!

Nov 26Reply

iamblessed What really bothers me is when they advertise on my items in my closet. But that's it.

Nov 26Reply

criss459 @ezwright you're right, you do get approached when you're shopping. However I am not talking about people who go out with the intention to buy. This is when all I want to do is share an item of yours. I have no intention of buying. It most likely doesn't fit, not my color, not a style I would wear but it's cute, out of my price range.. It could be any number of reasons why I am sharing someone else's item. There's not any time I am even hitting the like button. People need to know the difference between the two. Sorry if you don't like it, it's your opinion. My opinion is I find it rude and annoying that they constantly ask. And this isn't I get "interested?" on a item once in a blue moon. This happens everyday where I am being asked (when all I did was hit the share button) and it happens about 20 times or more. If someone is interested, they can ask questions, negotiate price, etc on their own. Asking people that question doesn't guarantee a sale. And asking someone who clearly shared an item isn't looking to buy, it's only to share. They should ask only the people hitting that like button and nothing more.

Dec 03Reply

criss459 @ezwright yes, we are all entitled to our opinions which is why I wrote this post to begin with. 😌 I understand letting people know about extra discounts that the seller would love to apply however Posh etiquette states that it's not entirely appropriate to ask "are you interested" so I'm just clarifying that statement in my own way

Dec 04Reply

mida87 I don't mind the question of what's my lowest.. But seriously don't waste my time asking when you're not even going to purchase because "shipping costs" if you didn't intend to purchase DO NOT ask. The are you interested I am guilty of, but having been asked myself I understand why it's inappropriate. If I liked your item clearly.. I'm interested and may return

Dec 18Reply

samjoyfay amen!

Dec 18Reply

msbsboutique @ezwright and @sassysuzzy I agree with asking someone if they're "interested" if they "like" your listing. I get side tracked & forget about items I "liked". When the seller asks if I'm "interested", I usually go back & look again. I don't "like" if I'm not interested. However, I completely agree with "HUN" & "what's your lowest price" or "do you PP" or "TRADE" or complaining about shipping. You already know its against the rules to use PP & you know what the shipping is & it specifically states that I don't trade! Why ask? Thanks for allowing us to use your space to vent & to exercise our right to freedom of speech! Haha! Had to throw that in there!

Dec 27Reply

sassysuzzy @mslorrieb @ezwright FINALLY IVE FOUND MY SISTERHOOD!! Two people out of ? agree. LOL! I never have understood the Hun business. Sounds condescending to me but I do try to give people the benefit of the doubt. Posh language I guess! I have not had too many issues but a few so I choose to focus on the majority & breathe thru the rest. @ezwright I read it the way you did. If someone likes, I usually thank them for browsing my closet & yes they are out browsing. I don't ask if they are interested usually I say thanks & if I can assist you LMK. I don't mind folks asking me my lowest price. I am always up for negotiating a price which seems better then letting an item sit there. I also will say if it's my lowest price. As I said, some business is better then no business in my view but that's just me & two others!LOL I REALLY DO HAVE TO SAY AGAIN, THAT THE SIGN, "Let's Get One Thing Straight", is offensive to me. If I was going into a store & saw that sign, I would NOT go in. I have run two very successful Businesses & I was successful because I made everyone who came into my place of business feel like family. If you are going to work with the public you are going to find that some people are just obnoxious but I've found that humor & a smile wins most of them over. You never know what that person is going thru. So ladies just relax the next time someone asks you if your interested or another pet peeve. Trust me at the age of 61 there is a lot worse things to stress about. I say that in a loving way not snobby. Have fun & Posh On!!

Dec 28Reply

laurany2013 Heck yeah! What's your lowest makes me want to punch you in the face!!!

Dec 28Reply

longtimeposher Amen!! I couldn't have said it better!

Dec 29Reply

cindyyr THANK YOU for this. Love this post. What I hate more than anything is that when I do share items from someone's closet, they comment ON MY LISTINGS about a sale they're having or for even MORE shares. I can see from their listings that they're having a sale, and they really should not be using my closet as a platform to sell THEIR clothes. Fail lmao. and then we can't delete their comments

Dec 30Reply

tinalalinaa Thanks for your shares!! Interested?! Hahhaaaa JK I love this post. ❤️😄

Dec 30Reply

reny1 I'm so glad more and more people are posting things like this. 👍

Dec 30Reply

sisterhearts I like and shared..love this

Jan 02Reply

closet_finds I agree!! I also can't stand "Trade?", when it is clearly plastered all over that I don't.

Jan 04Reply

xitsbritt oh my goodness--THANK YOU! my sentiments exactly 😩

Jan 06Reply

susanrosenberg Good for you for posting this! I completely agree and didn't find this offensive at all. "What's your lowest?" is just rude. I usually ask "What's your highest?" If it's a serious buyer, they will respond. If I've listed something for x, it's because that's what I think it is worth. To offer half is just ridiculous. If wanted to sell it for half, I'd have listed it at that price. And nowhere does it say Posh is a thrift shop. Many of us are not selling junky items. The expectation should not be that everything should sell for $10 or less. The "Hun" and "Girly" also drive me nuts. And don't get me started on "Doll." A doll is an empty headed plaything. I'm a grown-up with a brain.

Jan 10Reply

kimmiedee LOL! you are so right chicky :)

Jan 11Reply

stphoffman I love this!! But let me ask you this question, when I get a like, I respond "thanks for the like, let me know if I can help in any way". I don't want to be pushy, but I did want to acknowledge the like. What's your take? Still trying to learn the Posh etiquette:/). Btw, thank you for sharing, much appreciated!!

Jan 19Reply

criss459 @stphoffman that is fine. If someone likes an item and you just want to thank them for the like or let them know what your discounts are when they bundle more than one item for example that's perfectly fine. What irks people is when they only ask "Interested?" I mean, the answer is obvious. It's a yes otherwise no one would hit the like button. But there are times when I hit the like button even if it's not my size. I do it so I may hopefully find it. Or maybe doesn't hit my budget at the time. I find that one word very pushy. Or when someone shares an item (and only shares, no like button is pushed) and they still asked "Interested?" A share and a like are not the same. I share in hopes that they return the favor, not to buy an item. I hope that helps. I don't mean to sound grouchy or anything. It's just informative. I am sharing items constantly so I have people asking me "Interested?" more than a dozen times a day. It's good for people to know the difference.

Jan 19Reply

stphoffman No, I get it, I think twice about liking something for that reason. Thanks for sharing ur wisdom:/).

Jan 19Reply

cestlavie5 Thank you! As I put my "lowest" and then get no reply the next interested party gets that price. Not good business!! May I use this? Well said!! :)

Jan 21Reply

lpaiges @criss459 I'm new to Posh and have liked a ton of things. Now every time I get on here I have a billion "interested?" comments. It is so rude-- if I'm interested I'll let you know! Wish everyone got this!!!

Jan 22Reply

amassarat Ha ha. I love this. I just got a "what is your rock bottom price" and when I responded with "what is your offer" she low balled me and said, "i have to consider the shipping cost." I simply responded that what she was offering was too low for the piece and that I had to consider the fact that she was asking for a 30% discount and the 20% PM fee. I felt a little rude after sending it ... but I think her lowball offer and shipping cost justification was more rude.

Jan 25Reply

letys_fashion_s SO TRUE!

Jan 26Reply

dgirl115 Thank you so much for all of the shares!

Jan 26Reply

kguerriero @criss459 thanks so much for sharing some of my stuff :) what app did you use to create these if you don't mind me asking? :)

Jan 27Reply

criss459 @kguerriero I use two. I use PicLab and Instatext

Jan 28Reply

kguerriero @criss459 thank you :)

Jan 28Reply

crystobar 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 LOVE IT!!!!! I MUST STEAL AND REPOST (with your permission)😍😘

Feb 02Reply

criss459 @crystobar sure go ahead

Feb 02Reply

karap_03 👏🙏agreed!!

Feb 02Reply

inanci Can I borrow these posts?? I love them!!!

Feb 03Reply

criss459 @inanci sure you can use it

Feb 03Reply

inanci Thanks !!!😘

Feb 03Reply

phoenixvintage @criss459 Big AMEN to that , then they donot follow up when you give them a response !

Feb 08Reply

flip241 This is awesome! Lol so true

Feb 09Reply

kathrav @criss459 Well said! Thanks for sharing my items!

Feb 09Reply

gzavala19 @criss459 thanks for shares😄😄😄

Feb 09Reply

akee1213 Couldn't agree more!

Feb 09Reply

open love this ! The counteroffering ,.I might have to us that !!! Great way to put it !! Care if I use it on my own picture?

Feb 12Reply

dollface86 👏👏👏 sooo true!

Feb 12Reply

mdgonzales @criss459 AMEN!!! I'm SO SICK of "what's your lowest"!!!!

Feb 12Reply

ladyqstuff @criss459 this is so true. Can I borrow this?

Feb 20Reply

criss459 @ladyqstuff sure, go ahead

Feb 20Reply

tammysbeachwear So true! And so annoying! Thanks for posting:)

Feb 20Reply

ladyqstuff @criss459 thanks

Feb 20Reply

badjad I love this also. Well put. I use the like button as a bookmark either for reference of future purchase. I can't stand when I am asked if I am interested because I share or like an item.

Feb 22Reply

mommid WELL SAID, AMEN I APPLAUD YOU👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏😘💕💕💕

Feb 22Reply

tdgrable24 Amen to this!!! Lol!! I just had to post closets rules today after almost a year here on posh!! So tired of getting the lowballers and the pp/trade questions!! I honestly don't think people read the descriptions!! If I say final reduction that means my FINAL reduction lol! Some people!!! Ugh!!

Feb 23Reply

fabmello This is great!!!

Feb 24Reply

juliebaer Right on, sista! 👍💃

Feb 24Reply

ritzyy Do you mind if I use your "are you interested" image?? I will credit you in the listing!! Thanks for the words of advice!

Feb 26Reply

criss459 @ritzyy sure go right ahead :)

Feb 26Reply

liquelle27 Amazing closet!!! Love your clothes. :)

Feb 28Reply

essenceflorida I've only been here two months and this drives me insane!!!!!!!

Mar 05Reply

saalormun Truth!

Mar 09Reply

lilmisskimmy amen sister!

Mar 19Reply

jewelry_party Amen

Mar 21Reply

mandy1965 @criss459 I am reading all of your advice, thanks:) thanks also for sharing! Have a great night:)

Mar 25Reply

bluevirgo Omg can i just say I LOVE THIS!!!

Mar 25Reply

sarahposhposh And what about 'Hun'?? I am from the South and we call each other all kinds of things but what is it w Posh ladies and this interested 'Hun'?!!!! I am not your HUN!!!!! This is so weird to me!!!

Mar 28Reply

lukaloveless @criss459 , as a new posher, this info is really great. If anyone knows out to sort their items in their closet, will you please help me out? My friend gave me a ton of small clothes and shoes. I am a plus sized girl. I would like to seperate them into six categories, etc. Love your closet!

Apr 12Reply

criss459 The way to organize your closet is to share it. Weird advice right? lol But so far it's the only way to do it. Whatever you want clustered together in your categories, you need to share it at the same time. So if you want all your shoes to be together, you just share all your shoes. And then everything you share moves up to the top of your closet. So when you share your shoes, you will now see them at the top of all your listings when you refresh your closet page. So keep that in mind if you always want your closet to be organized by your categories because you will have to share all your items in one category first before you move on to the next one or it will disorganize your category sections. Poshmark has made some really nice updates to their app and their website. I've been a member since February 2013 so it's neat to see them grow! Just a couple weeks ago Poshmark made an update where you can now go to someone's closet and search for what you would like to see! You know that little tab right under your profile information? It's the answer to everything! :) You can look at just shoes if you like, only look at a certain brand, see only the items under a certain price range and even an option to only show the items available for sale. Even look only at your size! It's great! So if you didn't organize your closet, that's fine, people still have an option to filter through what they would like to see as well when they browse your closet. :) Hope this helps. Sorry it's a book. @lukaloveless

Apr 12Reply

lukaloveless @criss459 , thank you so much! That is priceless information! You are awesome. ! :)

Apr 12Reply

sarahdleigh Totally agree👏💙

Apr 14Reply

tracy_36 @criss459 Very well, said, Crystal!

Apr 16Reply

joanneva Can I borrow for my closet?🐾🐾🐾

Apr 18Reply

criss459 @joanneva sure go ahead

Apr 18Reply

riverflo19 @criss459 🎀 took words right out of my mouth🎀 love it thanks I can share

Apr 25Reply

thriftedtaylord This is great, I used to work in retail and would never treat a customer the way some people do on here! If someone likes one of my items, I thank them for stopping by, let them know I'd be happy to answer any questions they have and that I offer discounts on bundles. Just as I would to a customer in my store, no pressure just offering customer service! So well said!

Apr 30Reply

xobowtiquexo @criss459 this is awesome! Would you mind if I use it on my page?

Apr 30Reply

criss459 @xobowtiquexo sure, go ahead and use it

Apr 30Reply

xobowtiquexo @criss459 Thanks so much!! I put ur name in the description 😊

Apr 30Reply

moonbunnytoo Can I borrow this for my closet? "What's your lowest??" Has been driving me nuts! Even newbies are using this!

May 11Reply

criss459 @moonbunnytoo sure go ahead :)

May 11Reply

criss459 @genie7x oh no I don't think allowing them to know your sales or letting them know how much off they get if they bundle is bad. In fact, I think that is perfect! I worked a couple years in retail and I'm the same way.. I love to hear the sales and specials in stores that I absolutely love. I always made sure customers I had always knew of any coupons we had. Even let them use the one that was just the desk copy. I couldn't hand it out but it gave them the special. I do what I would want to happen to me if I was the one buying the item. It's just when the only thing a seller says to you is "Are you interested?!" To me, that question is unnecessary because hitting the like button has already answered that question in some form -- whether they can afford it, wrong size, contemplating the purchase, waiting on other Poshmark funds from a previous sale, etc. To me, this question sounds too pushy and too eager for a sale. I'm not saying that wanting a sale is horrible. I know I get excited knowing I can have a little extra cash. But this is what I think of it: it's kind if like when you go in a store and you're trying things on and you have an employee or two that are hanging around and giving their opinions when you come out of the dressing room to show them or your shopping companion. And all they have to say is "THAT LOOKS GREAT ON YOU!" But they say that about everything you try on that it starts to come off as fake? Especially when they are the only ones saying it looks good and your friend/boyfriend/mom (or whoever it is) are all saying nooooo. Lol it doesn't sound sincere. It sounds like they just want you to purchase everything you piled in the fitting room with you without ever giving their true opinion. When I shop, I want an honest answer if I ask people their opinions about clothing. Or can find other suggestions if I find what I'm trying on isn't really working for me. If they want to say "Are you interested?" it just makes me think of retail associates who only think of the number of products or amount of the purchase they can get from you instead of you as a person. I know some retail stores have a goal and you have to meet a certain dollar amount for your shift. I had a job exactly like that. But I never took that goal too seriously. I cared more about what my customer needed and gave any suggestions if they wanted any help finding anything. I never pushed people to buy something. It never felt right to be that way.

May 20Reply

bkimh @kristennico Krosten, just sharing a few tips for you. I hope you don't mind. This will help with a lot of questions that you may have.😏🌺🌺🌺 kim

May 31Reply

eliteapplause @criss459 WELL SAID!!!🎉🎉🎉

Jun 08Reply

dutchydeals @criss459 thank you so much for posting this!!👏👏 I'm going to use this as my template, if been wanting to say this FOREVER!! You've worded it so eloquently; firm, yet not to abrasive. 👍

Jun 24Reply

mswhite56 @criss459 Crystal, you stated these concerns better than I've ever seen them stated! Well done!! And THANK You! 👏👏👏! It baffles me that the very women that sell clothing on one end and complain about this behavior, have NO problem contributing to the bad behavior on the other end! I shake my head! 😤. May I use this in my closet?

Jun 24Reply

criss459 @mswhite56 sure 😊 feel free to use it

Jun 24Reply

kristy1985 😂😂😂😂😂 so true and annoying I hate when people tag me and ask if im interested. But I do ask whats ur lowest. Lmbo forgive me im new to this lol

Jul 17Reply

jamiemommy @msdwb I'm new to this didn't know it was that deep

Oct 01Reply

citichic2311 Sooo true 👏👏👏

Dec 13Reply

noahsmama04 So true!! Finally someone said it before me lol I get "are you interested" atleast 5 times a day.. Makes me not want to like anything anymore LOL BTW Great Closet!! 😄👍

Dec 13Reply

rubydi @criss459 LOVE THIS!!!! 👍 Very nicely put 😊

Dec 17Reply

jcarr1212 @rachellewittek thought you might enjoy this

Jan 11Reply

aprilaries @criss459 Amen !!! Love this lol ! 💃🙏👍👏👏👏

Feb 19Reply

thefunkyroyals WELL SAID MY FRIEND!!! My sentiments exactly! I try very hard to share as much as I can for the connection to fellow Poshers & to make friends, which I've met some really wonderful people! I like things all the time in people's closets to show luv, because I do genuinely like the item but as you said, it may not be my size, within my price range or fit my needs period. I've always thought it was so "bad form" to pester people for liking an item. I'm not a pushy person & I can't imagine hounding every single person who's shown me some love in my closet. I do however say thank you, if we've never spoke before I say hi & introduce my self or will say something nice, funny or in tune with their posting. Like I'm doing with you now. You are spot on with the lowballing business! I try very hard to list my items that are all new, nice, some cost me a lot of $$, to price my items at what I feel is reasonable, especially considering not only do I list an item for far less than what I paid for it but Posh takes their 20% off the top of the sale. It boggles my mind that some people don't have enough foresight to even think about that. I don't mind negotiating but I'm not just going to take almost nothing for an item when all is said & done. Like right now I have a promo sale listing in my closet clearly spelling out the different discounts & other things people can get depending on number of items bought. If someone buys 1 item sure I'll knock a little off if it's reasonable. Now if more than 1 item is bought the discounts just get better & I see many good sellers do similar things. I've made friends with some people who have really awesome items listed for so much lower than they could. For instance 1 gal has this great closet, all her items very nice, used but maybe only 1 time & you'd never know because the items look brand new still. Anyhow this one gal had a really nice vest from Bebe, made w/expensive materials, lined, very well made & she listed it for only $6! You know she prob paid $80-$100 for it because of how nice it was. She could've easily listed it for $20! Well while we were chatting someone asks her if she'll take $4 for it! I just about fell over. I made a comment that I hope she does not even entertain that because she was already practically giving it away. She said I thought I was being reasonable. I said more than reasonable, if it were my size Id have that snapped up in a second for that price! This is not GoodWill! In fact I've seen so many people list gorgeous items for almost nothing that GoodWill would most likely have priced higher! Anyhow sorry for the rant, I just don't get some things and your post was perfectly said! Congratulations by the way, I hope you enjoy every minute! Have a great night!👑

Feb 21Reply

ricecake You couldn't have said it better!

Feb 24Reply

crazyw5 I just want to share this all day, 😃😃😃

Mar 03Reply

mizzchele Thank you. Yesterday I had a lady told me my $12 buttoned down shirt was too high and if I could lower it to $7. I'm not trying to sound like an ass but if it's too high, why bother saying that in a comment, why not put an offer to see if i accept it. Sad thing was she was a seller with her own closet. I thought it was rude.

Mar 26Reply

cariaz Word!....couldn't have said it better!!

Mar 31Reply

stephxred Thank you!! I want to share this every day! Haha. Spot on.

Oct 29Reply

nemointhemiddle OMG YES! you're the best for this. I will be sharing this

Oct 29Reply

lar81372 AWESOME! May I share in my closet?

Nov 04Reply

criss459 @lar81372 sure go ahead 🙂

Nov 04Reply

pokeepsi Awesome

Nov 07Reply

epicstorm 👌@trudivany & @sburns1223

Nov 08Reply

primandpropernj Oh my goodness! THISSSSS!!! So. TRUE! Can I share this everyday!? LOL! Love your closet by the way! And your absolutely GORGEOUS!!! Stay fabulous doll! 🌹❤️

Nov 11Reply

daughter14 @criss459 well written 😊

Nov 14Reply

stacyscutestuff 👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾

Nov 15Reply

summerruby86 Yesssssss

Nov 18Reply

sueellenmcgoey Totally! Always annoying when i recieve " are you interested" If i was that interested i would have bought!!!!

Feb 26Reply

thedressingroom True!

Feb 27Reply

katiekat40 @criss459 Love it! Thank you so much..I get annoyed as well...I usually ignore it..I don't like it...Thanks again❤❤

Feb 29Reply

gramscloset @nlinehan

Mar 07Reply

leesha_33 AMEN!! 👏👍

Mar 21Reply

vikkimr AMMMMMEN!!! Thank you, sharing this as well. I have had quite the few rude Poshers lately. I've received more 60% off listing offers than I can count.. And then they insult you when you decline!

Mar 22Reply

ostrovska18 Oh my gosh I HATE "lowest"! I do NOT price my items high on purpose, I price mine based on what I expect to get out of them! I may be flexible, more on some items less on others, but I have no lowest. It's almost offensive to me!

Apr 09Reply

alluck1210 Well said 👍

Apr 10Reply

sarahalexa Love this and your closet!

Apr 11Reply

bloomingbrands Right there with ya on this!!!

Apr 15Reply

exwolfe love your post!! wish i could have thought of this

Jun 01Reply

thrifty_grammy @lilmunk That's funny! Great idea!😆

Jun 15Reply

shansfitness This is positively BRILLIANT! I don't know how hold you are but wise beyond your years ;)

Jun 24Reply

shansfitness And, you have a darling closet to boot!!

Jun 24Reply

cococandy ❤️❤️❤️I LOVE THIS POST!❤️❤️❤️

Jul 04Reply

jennas_world A. M. E. N. !!!❤️

Jul 06Reply

tenerduende @criss459 I actually read some asked "Are you interesting", over and over again to everyone who liked her item, that's comical😃 Yet it makes me realize all type of people we encounter here😳

Jul 11Reply

cmalette93 @criss459 thanks for the shares! And totally love this 100%! I get "interested?" all the time. Drives me nuts. And lowball offers 😒 i have a few VS pink bras i never got to wear. Paid full price for them $45 listed for $20. I think that's a very generous amount off for brand new. I did a 4th sale and dropped the price to $17 for the news and i got 3 offers and a comment for $10! Brand spanking NWOT grabbed the wrong bra but lost the receipt

Jul 11Reply

lynda721 @criss459 I absolutely love this! You said what we all are thinking when we get asked these questions; and you communicated it eloquently. Thank you for putting this out there in our community. Let's hope it makes people think twice before they ask obvious questions. 😉💕💕💕

Jul 18Reply

lynda721 @hrachal I thought to tag you on this because I was just admiring the Grey Michael Kors cardigan and I noticed your comment back to them said something about how her offer was 90% lower than the item is worth! We all deal with it. Thought you'd appreciate this listing. 😉💕💕

Jul 18Reply