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After hearing on the news about the 14 yr old girls who cyber bullied a little girl till she lost it I'm frankly shocked at some if the language and posts I see here! Get a grip girls. Save the negativity and foul language and enjoy the experience and the clothes .... Remember playing dress up with your girlfriends that's basically what we are doing.... Raiding friends closets for goodies . You wanna strike at someone go to the gym!! For gods sakes stop being mean such a waste of time.....

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adriennesweattHello. I don't know when this was posted but I am just seeing it for the first time I am new at selling on PM. I have been on for 5 months. Today was a bad day. I don't understand. I had two women today yelling at me and being so rude. One of them had a complete breakdown because I used a dryer sheet in my dryer. It has gone on for days now. Long awful messages. I get it....I refunded her money but it still is going on. I am in the South and we are snowed in..I had a woman yell at me because I didn't get back to her right away but I did tell her I didn't know when it would sent because we are snowed in...She went on and on and I blocked her. and she came under her sisters account. blocked her and she made 3 more accounts with different names. I had one woman bully me so badly I ended up giving her everything and she still is stalking me. I dont get it. I try my hardest to be kind..I am just so confused and I thought..is it just me thats getting harassed and then I saw your post and the others post. Thanks for posting. I think it is so important for women to support women. And thats what I am looking for on PM. There are so many great women here it makes me sad that we are talking about these bullies.

Feb 26Reply

gordomomAgreed! Thanks for sharing this! 💝

Oct 20Reply

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laurany2013Hey girl! ☺️☺️☺️I love this and I'm gonna share it often ☺️☺️☺️

Oct 23Reply

subfashionista@laurany2013 thanks honey and I tried to keep it clean and nice.... Could've unloaded I was so angry it's so petty it's sad to see women treating women so badly..... I see it at work I even see it at my daughters soccer game..... Not the 13 yr old girls the 45 yr old mothers! It's nuts. Lots of love SUSY

Oct 23Reply

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Oct 28Reply

chicandclassic@subfashionista this is so true! Some people are so mean to others. :-(

Oct 28Reply

subfashionista@chicandclassic I know it's like truly warped bullying it's scary wonder what goes on in their lives

Oct 28Reply

tressibles@subfashionista Some parents are not parents anymore, values are gone, respect out the window, punishment is neglect, teachers are not into it, reality shows are the must see, THE ABNORMAL IS THE NEW NORMAL, the only time God is mentioned is when something bad happens. The news makes stars and breaks stars, rappers can curse your kids to hell and they will dance to their music. Poshmark is just another place for those miserats to vent. They go from site to site

Oct 29Reply

subfashionista@tressibles well it renews my faith in women that you not only took the time to write that but did it with such grace. It's people like us that need to impress that upon our children and insure that we can at least know we have taken the time and effort to do what's right and yes it's a shame that it's not the norm that respect is overlooked as a trait in this world. My mother would be shocked

Oct 29Reply

subfashionista@tressibles you're in virginia I'm in Maryland two like girls

Oct 29Reply

tressibles@subfashionista yes I am in we should have a Poshfest here😊

Oct 29Reply

tressibles@subfashionista or in between or there

Oct 29Reply

subfashionista@tressibles Poshfest DC SOUNDS GREAT I'm all over it!!!! I'm emailing Posh!!! Maybe a listing begging💥😎😎

Oct 29Reply

tressibles@subfashionista Sounds Good to me💖😊👍 I am behind you and will constantly share.

Oct 29Reply

subfashionista@tressibles thanks neighbor!!!

Oct 29Reply

subfashionista@luckyc95 thanks for sharing doll

Nov 02Reply

maidmarianSo true! Love that!

Nov 04Reply

subfashionista@tonjab thanks for sharing sweets you're the best!!!!👯👯

Nov 06Reply

fashionchicazAMEN! I'm so glad someone said it. I happen to come across these "scammer" posts and am appalled at the behavior, language, classless and sheer bullying that exists. I always wonder why they don't post to the person they're ripping to shreds. Just their username minus the @ symbol. Thank you for putting this post on. You're one classy lady😘💃

Nov 07Reply

subfashionista@fashionchicaz as are you and thank you for such a lovely response👼👸💐💐

Nov 07Reply

subfashionista@deatreaj :) :)

Nov 07Reply

ykkonyozippaPreach🙌

Nov 07Reply

subfashionista@oliversgirl29 thanks for the shares 👏👏🌺🌺👯

Nov 07Reply

subfashionista@heartmykids thanks doll❤️

Nov 13Reply

subfashionista@quichei thanks for sharing doll👯

Nov 13Reply

jbearWomen should empower each other, not break each other down. My Aunt and Mother tell me stories from when they were little girls. This stuff has been going on forever - it just wasn't brought up As much bc kids didn't tell their parents everything like they do today. I know there are still great ppl out there but the internet gives the weak a voice and with moms and dads not being able to be at home as much and the socially "accepted" evils of the world, it just getting worse and worse. Even my grand mom has mean girl stories, but like the old saying goes "children were seen, not heard" and they wouldn't "rat" or the parents did have as much opportunity to find out what their kids were up to. Now you can track them on their phones and do FaceTime to make sure they are at home when ur on vaca - but it also keeps everyone connected so bullying crap can follow kids home from school and even over the summer. I love technology - almost too much, but there needs to be some type guidance 😔

Nov 16Reply

subfashionista@jbear and let me tell you I had the greatest mom and aunt and grandmother that ever lived and taught me kindness and humility and compassion and yet my daughter age 12 whom I love more than life itself and is sooo beautiful and kind can be pulled into the ugly before she knows it She's starting to weed out her friends and has one more year of dreaded middle school after this before the games begin as a senior. I have 3 boys that are grown or close to it and it's a much different animal. But the mere fact that you wrote so beautifully and thoughtfully shows that nice girls still exist and yeah looking back on it there were bully's in my childhood you're right and social media exacerbates this but you'd think that seeing what they've written would shock them and make them regret it. Your mother and grandmother should be very proud of you honey you're a lovely girl and we need more if you

Nov 16Reply

subfashionista@elicia202 thanks for reading doll👏👏👏👯❤️

Nov 25Reply

kimraThis is soooo nice to see! I have a lady stalking and trashing me on PM. Weird how she wronged me but then trashes me. I bought a large bundle from her of like new items... Yet from the day of purchase she turned ugly.... I didn't understand why (tho she did tell me she was on medication for mental disorders and even had her children taken due to problems)...when the bundle arrived several items were missing, everything was heavily infused by cigarette smoke (even leather purse the professional cleaner cannot get the smell out) and the jewelry items were heavily worn and aged. But because of her confessed disorders (and since I lost a bipolar son to suicide) I decided to just let it go and chalk it off. But she then went on a cussing rampage at me and a tirade of ramblings that made no sense. So I blocked her .... She then began contacting anyone that shopped in my closet and trashing me. It was the strangest thing I've ever seen. I even had to contact posh and have them ask her to desist. They did and it's decreased but she still shows up on occasion bashing me. It still baffles me. I spent $1200 with her and $400 of the package never came. I've never mentioned her name to others, never wrote her to say how she shorted me...I simply thanked her for her shipment. But she decides I'm a horrible person for some reason yet to be defined. Sorry for taking up your space here... But this is the first I've seen someone say what I've been thinking. I've even said to my husband "I never played these games in Jr High and I'm not going start now". Its so refreshing to find someone who notices the same ridiculous behaviors and called it out! THANK YOU!!

Dec 02Reply

subfashionista@kimra oh my goddddd I'm so sorry for your loss I lost my sister to suicide bright beautiful 25 just married attorney ..... When I say bright ...... 2nd in her law class at GW to David Rockefeller.......I understand mental illness but having struggled with alcoholism myself for years I understand addiction..... This sounds like a classic case..... Now sober I understand the RIDICULOUS things you do and say soooo unlike yourself and impulsively harming..... I'm so sorry this generation has a vehicle for taking mind games to a whole new level on line and it's horrible ...... And to not trivialize the mind games adding insult to injury the cash......I have found that buying from closets where I have struck up conversations and have made previous purchases or been recommended to is safest ...... I bought a pair of Fendi sunglasses authentic that came soooo plastic and fake it was highway robbery and I was uber disappointed ......the cheapest buys have been the best Prada boots for a steal I mean criminal looooove them!!! Don't give up and you sound like a very strong person .... I wake up every day and tell myself to b happy ..... 9 months sober and I look and feel like the old Susie ...... You'd never believe how impossible that was to believe ...... Don't give in to the mean girls or boys out there just thank god you're not one if them .... Such a waste of time and life to b miserable.

Dec 02Reply

kimraThank you for your kind words!! Your sis sounds amazing and such a tragic loss. And congrats on your 9 months!!! So close to your year! Yes the hurtful words and money were both a huge bummer but after losing a child these things are not nearly as hurtful as they would have been. All else pales in comparison. I am just more wary and cautious. Nice to have met someone like you! 😊

Dec 03Reply

kimberfoxWell aaid

Feb 14Reply

alwaysannieThank you for putting this post out! You said what I have been thinking the entire time I've been on this site! I am amazed at the language, attitude and rudeness of some. Of course these are the same ones who would never have the nerve to say anything remotely like this when face to face. Further proof that "bully's really are cowards" is so true.

Feb 15Reply

lwilkeI love that you posted this! I've not yet experienced this issue on here, but I'm pretty new... However, it does not surprise me at all given how little society seems to value respect and kindness. I have an 18mo son and it scares the heck out of me what the norm will be as he gets older and (yikes!) during his teenage years! Just gotta keep instilling good values and the importance of being kind and understanding... And pray that it sticks!

Mar 13Reply

littlemisslilyHi, I shared this thinking it was such a nice sentiment and then read through the comments. And wow this is what it is ALL about! Women supporting women!!! I am in recovery too, 9 months sober too! My date is the 6th :))) made my heart sing to have that sort of connection. A while ago I purchased a jewelry box from you and there was a mix up with the mail and I wanted to check in with your closet :))) thanks for making me smile :)) and congrats on your sobriety. It's hard work but worth it. I made it 11 months before my relapse last November but just for today!! 🎀🎀🎀💋💋💋

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Feb 26Reply

gordomomAgreed! Thanks for sharing this! 💝

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