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๐ท If I take the time to snap a picture for you, because ๐YOU asked for it, it's RUDE TO NOT RESPOND BACK. Even if it's a "no thanks" I don't care just say SOMETHING. This also applies to measurements and other miscellaneous questions about items. It's not that hard and it doesn't take any more time than it did for me to take the picture or to answer your questions for you. Thanks! Happy poshing!๐
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beautifulbutton
@stephanyy lol that pic is super cute. You are 100% right
stephanyy
@beautifulbutton isn't it? Haha such a cutie๐ถ
beautifulbutton
@stephanyy he is lol.
stephanyy
@jblacombe I have! .. Currently waiting!โบ๐
bleushoegirl
So true! Such a cute way to get the point across. :-)
parabuds
Cute photo!
stephanyy
@bleushoegirl I tried to be nice about it hahA
stephanyy
@parabuds thanksโบ
krimmer
I just took a billion pictures and no response to them...lame!
stephanyy
@krimmer isn't it insulting? You do them a favor and they don't even have the decency to respond๐
krimmer
Totally insulting! Especially when they aren't specific about what they want pictures of or what they are looking for in them!
subfashionista
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instinct
hahahaha awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww
margo97
Drives me nuts! Also, giving measurements and then all you hear is crickets!
stephanyy
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stephanyy
@margo97 exactly! I'm sorry were you too busy to respond after I was busy and took these pictures and measurements for you!? LOL ๐
chloeche
This JUST happened to me...
ediza
OMG!! I know right?!
stephanyy
@edizarodriguez lol RIGHT!๐
threebeez
So true!
ellienor
This is SO true!! I'm new to Posh, and I've already noticed this is an issue!! Totally random, but could you please tell me what app you used for the text/heart on this pic? I love it!! Thanks! Great closet!!
stephanyy
@ellienor thanks! I use snappee!โบ
stephanyy
@ellienor I'm sorry it's spelled Snapeee ๐
thekogs
this happened to me last week! It took me so long to find my prom pictures and get them transferred onto a listing- specifically for her! then no response...ever. SOoooooo rude and frustrating!
stephanyy
@thekogs ugh that's the worst.. It's such a waste your time!๐
thekogs
I KNOW! Plus- it totally gets your hopes up!
hmbowling
I love this! ๐๐๐๐๐
treannesfrocks
Amen!!!!
devinest3
@stephanyy Amen sister!
gfiorante50
@stephanyy I love this! Would you mind if copied it? This is one of my pet peeves!!
stephanyy
@gfiorante50 sure! If you could use your own picture that's fine! I made this one myself๐ lol but I hear ya it's so inconsiderate!
gfiorante50
Yes! Of course I will use my own picture. I really like the words you used. Right to the point! And thank you so much for sharing so many items from my closet. I'll be very happy to return the favor and share your closet!
stephanyy
@gfiorante50 haha I was trying to still be nice, but to the point! It's so aggravating! And of course your closet is amazing!๐๐๐
gfiorante50
@stephanyyYes! Of course I will use my own picture. I really like the words you used. Right to the point! And thank you so much for sharing so many items from my closet. I'll be very happy to return the favor and share your closet!
sdshopper
Thank you!!!!!๐๐๐
shellhead
"Posh manners" I love it! This totally drives me nuts too :) but whatever, lots of cool ladies on here!!
hessdog6603
Agree
dollface86
Urg!! Soo true!๐๐๐
raidergirl
So true ... ๐๐๐
mimibunny8
RIGHT ON @stephanyy ! ๐
justbecauseiam
@stephanyy Thank you. You are so right. Stay blessed
cosmicpixie
@stephanyy Ah, so true and well said. How about when someone wants to buy 5 items and you work out pricing for them all to bundle, then they just disappear into nowhere without purchasing?? Good times on Posh. ๐๐๐
stephanyy
@cosmicpixie omg I just had a girl bundle 12 f*****g items yesterday totaling to like $250 and then just disappear I almost freaked out lol it took me foreverrrrr to put that bundle together!๐๐
methodclothe
Agreed!
crystaljos
Omg I love this. So cute!
carenlovesgucci
@stephanyy Stephanny .. I know you are sharing your host picks! I am sharing all you HOSTS themed items to your party, then my C & C items.. Then your picks! WHEN DUST SETTLES AND YIUR FEED RETURNS TO NORMAL... Favor???? May I borrow this listing???????????
neelug
LOL if you go to the "first look" sections in the parties you'll find all sorts of interesting stuff...and some hidden gems of new poshers with great closets but also a lot of items not allowed on PM.
stephanyy
@neelug haha oh I'm sure! Wow I gotta check it out.
isa_wine_lover
Ok darling, I have a few questions! Please tag me on a listing where we can talk about the psrtaaaayyyy ๐
ediza
Thank you for helping share my new blog!!! I appreciate you!!!
brianas87
I hate when people negotiate a price with me then just up and disappear!!! Grrrrr๐ก
stephanyy
@brianas87 I've had 2 girls have me put together bundles for them recently and they both just disappeared band never responded back to me. It's so rude.
brianas87
I wish I could call them out over it but I guess I'm more polite than they are. I also hate when someone lists an item, then tons of people comment over a period of a few months, and the person never answers back if the item is still available. I wish you could report people for bad manners!!!
stephanyy
@brianas87 most of those people are no longer active.. Which is a whole other issue itself๐
salenalu
This is SO true! And I just love the photo! Lol ๐
stephanyy
@salenalu lol thank you!๐
rdesigns85
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roxybeach
Lol. And so trueeee
stephanyy
@roxybeach right!?๐๐
roxybeach
Lol . I love the pic makes me laugh . ๐๐. And YES !! Omg people forgot about manners . How hard is to write back "thanks" ๐.
I might post something like this in my closet ๐
stephanyy
@roxybeach I know I don't get it, some people are just rude๐ great closet btw!๐
roxybeach
Thank you ! I love yoursโค๏ธ. I'm keeping an eye on it ๐
stephanyy
@roxybeach awesome thank you! :)
adelajael
Ugh... I hate it when this happens! Seems like manners even show through in the virtual world, or lack of... Glad you put it out there and aren't shy of letting people know ha๐
tribalsister
I agree!!!!๐๐๐
manij
๐๐๐so true!
redtozjen
@stephanyy - Exactly! Liked and shared your post! I swear, some people's children have the manners of a billy goat. Well done, You!
stephanyy
@redtozjen lol that made me laugh, thanks๐๐
itslove
Exactly girl!!!
clarissascloset
OH MY GOSH YESS
sangyayc
You are soooo right! Well said!๐ญ๐๐โค๏ธ
moreforyou
@stephanyy OMG! I couldn't agree more! I drop everything to do this and have been feeling so discouraged lately with people not responding. Great job Stephany!
stephanyy
@moorepatrice aw thanks! At first it use to pisss me off so much.. Lol but it happens so often I forget about it now๐ some people are just rude and lack manners!
love_danica
hey steph!! do you have vinted?
stephanyy
@anika27 no I don't.. Not sure I could keep up with 2 sites lol
love_danica
i just wanted you to see this,
http://www.vinted.com/forum/real-talk-dot-dot-dot-vent-and-let-it-out-girl/113173-haha-oh-poshmark
stephanyy
@anika27 it won't let me click on the link ๐ lol
stephanyy
@anika27 oh my god. I typed it in. Wow. I'm done.
love_danica
it was pretty immature, i was really annoyed when i saw it
stephanyy
@anika27 I wrote to her on the listing. I'm so pissed.
love_danica
awe im sorry i hope i didnt ruin your day
stephanyy
@anika27 no I'm glad you told me. Just so irritating! Thought we were out of high school .. I guess not. I deleted the listing though cause I didn't want it on there. BUT I hope she saw what I wrote and I reported all of her listings that had PayPal inquiries on them!๐
love_danica
it was, i couldn't get myself to ignore it. thats good that you reported her, some girls just really need to grow up
rinsgirl
So true! Manners are awesome! :-D
stephanyy
@rinsgirl yes!๐
thenewera
Well said.๐๐๐
ediamond
This is so frustrating. I'm with you
gpalo
I love this lol ๐ถ
gaa1726
I โค๏ธthis!!
dmenzel
@stephanyy ๐๐
chantydelauzzz
I had someone do this to me yesterday and I was livid! I woke up early to take pics of several items and she never responded. RUDE!! ๐๐พ
stephanyy
@chantydelauzzz soo RUDE.
laurenlunaltd
Amen!!!
donnasaur_
Yes I agree!
tams
๐WOW@stephanyy I agree totally. I'm gonna say hi to@beautifulbutton Hi sweets what up? I got to come over and see whatcha got to check out!! Love Tams๐โ๏ธPEACE
theletterk
@stephanyy Don't fret over this girl. If they really want something they'll keep close tabs on it. Can't force anyone. Sucks to wait on someone, but I myself refuse to get upset over "nonresponsive" poshers. Just have fun and do what you can. Good luck!
stephanyy
@theletterk im not upset, just pointing out an issue thats big on posh. If enough people see it, maybe less will do it, thats all.
hoot350915
I seriously LOVE this because it's just too true! What I say to women who don't have the decency to respond is "So you have enough time to share your own listings but not to to give me feedback?" Lol!
stephanyy
@hoot350915 I literally just went through your entire closet.. LOVE IT๐ I love your Do's and Dont's ๐๐ your cover shots are great too! Mind if I ask what filter/app you use for the tiny hearts/bubbles?
hoot350915
You've got a beautiful closet too! I use the app Filterzilla for most of my bubbles and filters. another app I use is Piclab which has a bunch of sweet textures and cut out shapes as well as great light effects. I'm pretty sure for Piclab you have to pay to unlock some of the really cool ones however. I know there's a ton of awesome photo editing apps out there to check out, so I'd spend some time exploring the App Store!
stephanyy
@hoot350915 thanks๐๐ will do!
ceefelix
๐ Amen to that!!!
ivonas
@stephanyy I'm new here so just wanted to ask what should I do when someone asks me to hold an item? Do I put a higher price on it or just add that person's name to the listing? Thanks for your help!
stephanyy
@ivonas go to Edit your listing and down at the bottom it has the option "for sale" .. Click that and select "not for sale". No one will be able to buy it then๐ then when your buyer is ready, change it back to for sale and they can purchase! Good luck!
ivonas
@stephanyy thanks for your reply! I found that option and changed it..thanks :)
abstractdreams
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berna_doodle
Omg cutest picture ever!! Lol and in totally agree! Happens all the time & it's so rude!
carenhelm
@stephanyy Well said!
dons_of_eve
I 100% agree!!!!๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐
xoxokarito
๐ I know! That's why I don't take anymore additional pictures, I noticed that when I do, I don't even get a response back. ๐๐
jillianka
I totally agree....I was just asked the other day to post more pics bc someone seemed interested (last week). Granted, the least someone can say is "thank you."
jillianka
Can I share this?
stephanyy
@jillianka of course! ๐
jillianka
Thanks!!!!
dorajcrow
True. I am new here and already people don't answer questions about their items for sale. If I'm not interested in something, I at least tell that person. Common courtesy.
blukat
Can I like this 100X
kjd1015
@stephanyy exactly girl!!! This is cute :) Thanks for sharing my closet!
stephanyy
@kjd1015 thanks for sharing mine!๐๐
norascloset1
@stephanyy ahhhhh this is the best post ever!!! I totally agree! how rude can someone possible be :/
ilovesunset
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xoadana
Agree!!!! ๐ซ
mrsalliexo
๐๐๐ seriously! Good manners are hard to come by on here.
stephanyy
@allisondickard yes definitely!! ๐๐
emmyrawrs
Oh I love this! May I "borrow" it ? (:
stephanyy
@emmyrawrs thanks! Sureโบ๏ธ
stephanyy
@joannaburgs ๐๐ its effing annoying๐
isa_wine_lover
Hey girl! I haven't forgotten about you โบ๏ธ Last week was pretty crazy, but if you want to get together sometime this weekend, let me know๐ป
stephanyy
@isa_wine_lover thanks love I'm pretty swamped with work and events this weekend but next weekend should be good! โบ๏ธ
stephanyy
@chantydelauzzz ๐๐
chantydelauzzz
Love this! ๐๐๐๐๐๐
stephanyy
@chantydelauzzz lol yay! You can use any of my pics if you want to! Hopefully people start seeing it๐ช
blondsoul
Yes officer๐ฎ
stephanyy
@blondsoul ๐
rmbrand
Amen!
stephanyy
@rmbrand ๐๐๐
dollface86
Amen!! I'm glad I'm finally seeing someone say this, It's so rude!! ๐
stephanyy
@dollface86 I know right!?๐๐
mrsperkins
Hahaha. This cracked me up, love this.
stephanyy
@mrsperkins lol thanks, so annoying.๐ ha
mrsperkins
I had so much fun in your closet. Very inspiring
stephanyy
@mrsperkins thank you! Your closet actually reminds me of mine lol loved yours as wellโบ๏ธ๐
mrsperkins
We could be shopping buddies๐
stephanyy
@mrsperkins I think we should๐
mrsperkins
Could also be dangerous. I'm so glad I found your closet, I absolutely bookmarked you!
stephanyy
@mrsperkins aww thanks girl! I'll like one of your listing to stalk your closet
megqua14
@stephanyy Amen!! It takes time and thought into "modeling" a decent picture. Wish I could tag the people who have recently done this to me, but I won't be tacky๐
becks80
Agreed
emilymarieg
This woman keeps telling me to put together HUGE bundles then doesn't follow through with communicating/purchasing... Has happened twice now ๐๐ซ
stephanyy
@emilymarieg that has happened to me soooo many times! It's beyond frustrating!๐๐
emilymarieg
Yeah! I feel like I have to harass her to get her to respond. And both times she's wanted completely different items and never followed through so I keep having to pull stuff out and put it back ๐๐๐๐
stephanyy
@emilymarieg yeah I wouldn't even bother with that ๐ seems like a flaker!
jujumak
Seriously!! It's driving me crazy . Or they ask u "your lowest?" And when u answer they disappear
jusdiswunce
Wow!!!! Right on ๐
stephanyy
@jusdiswunce ๐
mk4
I like this posting! It makes me so ๐ก๐ก that people can be so rude and inconsiderate! Just say something. ๐๐๐
tfullerton12
@stephanyy (posting here because your meet me listing was too full for comments). @stephanyy I don't know how I missed this before! You are so beautiful and love the doggies too! My husband, brother and brother in law are all firemen so we hang in circles with the PD also, so much fun to be around! You are definitely the most fashionable/hottest officer I've seen! ๐๐
stephanyy
@tfullerton12 I've been meaning to make another "meet the seller"๐ lol and thank you for the compliments!๐๐๐
classyvintage
I'm not sure if you are aware but your meet me listing has reached it's max
4doggypawz
Love this๐๐๐๐๐
classychicresal
seriously though. It's so rude and annoying. It's like they're just looking for something to ask you about.
nurse2425
A-freaking-men!!!!
stephanyy
@ntaul ugh that's so rude, I wonder why๐ช
stephanyy
@ntaul who is it? I'll ask the same questions lol
stephanyy
@ntaul hah oh I meant don't tag her lol it's okay! You are the nicest girl on posh for sure! Haha
stephanyy
@ntaul omg wow I wouldn't even want to buy from her after she obviously is ignoring you
stephanyy
@ntaul one what a weirdo!๐ช
anabel22
Love the fonts in your first pic! What app is that if you don't mind me asking??๐
stephanyy
@anabel22 it's called Wordswag :)
anabel22
I have that already but didn't know you can change the fonts within the same project??๐๐Thanks.
stephanyy
@anabel22 yup you can :)
anabel22
Woohoo!! Let me try!๐๐
anabel22
Okay...in stuck! Do you mind helping?? ๐ณ
stephanyy
@anabel22 you have to do one section at a time so say you write "the" .. Press complete/done then there's an option to "reswag" so then you can go back and add more :) sorry hard to explain
anabel22
Okay...I got it!!๐๐I was trying to select the text and change the font but that was impossible. lol Thank you so much!! ๐๐๐
stephanyy
@anabel22 โบ๏ธ๐๐
kanyejoyner
@stephanyy hi I'm commenting here about your meet the seller listing bc it's reached its maximum amount of comments. Anyways I wanted to say, I know it feels good to get the bad guys. I love to see a super/hero girl power kind of girl.๐๐๐You rock๐
stephanyy
@kanyejoyner I've been meaning to make a new one! Lol and thanks, right now it's not so easy on us but what can ya do!
kanyejoyner
@stephanyy pray pray pray. That's all I do lately but that's not a bad thing. Keep doing what you are doing & I'm sure you'll catch a break & once again the girl wins๐
stephanyy
@kanyejoyner hah well thank you, I appreciate it๐
kanyejoyner
@stephanyy oh & thank you for all the shares. Have a great nightโบ๏ธ
stephanyy
@kanyejoyner you too! Oh and not sure if you missed my last comment on those pants but are they elastic at the bottom?
tidkey77
I am with u on this. It's annoying and frustrating
tidkey77
This happens to me ALL the time. Makes me want to stop Poshing! But I won't
stephanyy
@tidkey77 just happened to me today, made a listing for someone and they never replied/purchased ๐
elizmul
Oh my goodness...I soooooo agree!!! โก
tidkey77
Sometimes my phone doesn't give me alerts and with my busy schedule I can't check my listings everyday but I try to check at least weekly. So I try to respond as soon as I can. But others just don't respond at all
katiemeazell
My favorite is when they ask me to model and I do so. So I have to go in my room, get the item, take off what I'm currently wearing, try it on, take pictures, put my original clothes back on, put the item back away nicely, post the pictures, tag them... Then either no response or a response more than 24 hours later. Like no
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