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I don't typically post about personal things but I really need this to be passed around. I really appreciate the posh community and the friends I've met. If you have any extra cash to donate, we would be forever grateful, but you would also have our profoundest thanks to just share my link found in the first comment below to your social media circles.

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rebekah_allen The website is www.gofundme.com/7zmcpk

Apr 02Reply

ball_mom Rebekah! I just saw this! I just had to send you a virtual hug and let you know that I have walked this road, my friend. We had a failed fresh cycle, one frozen embryo (that no one expected to even make it to freeze), and a lot of prayers. That last little one stayed frozen until I was ready to face that it was our last shot... And he is waking up right now from his nap. God was totally in the details and in the timing. I'm going to visit your link now.

Apr 02Reply

rebekah_allen @ball_mom I'm sorry to hear you went through this too! I'm amazed how many people I've met in similar situations. This is most likely our last shot (bank account cannot handle another fresh cycle, lol). I would really love Caleb to have a sister, but I am so grateful just to have him! Thanks for any donations/shares you can do. It's really appreciated 😊

Apr 02Reply

ball_mom Absolutely! We IVF mamas stick together. I'm so sorry you are walking this road, but know that incredible blessings can emerge. I know about the strain on finances. I'll share and get my plastic!

Apr 02Reply

rebekah_allen @ball_mom 😘

Apr 02Reply

ball_mom Hi! Can you help me spread the word to support our friend Rebekah? Thanks so much! @navarrecharm

Apr 02Reply

ball_mom Hi! Can you help me spread the word to support our friend Rebekah? Thanks so much! @ejworsham

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ball_mom Hi! Can you help me spread the word to support our friend Rebekah? Thanks so much! @kimsthings

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ball_mom Hi! Can you help me spread the word to support our friend Rebekah? Thanks so much! @styled

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ball_mom Hi! Can you help me spread the word to support our friend Rebekah? Thanks so much! @jlrey

Apr 02Reply

ball_mom Hi! Can you help me spread the word to support our friend Rebekah? Thanks so much! @megger

Apr 02Reply

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ball_mom Hi! Can you help me spread the word to support our friend Rebekah? Thanks so much! @laurenha

Apr 02Reply

savvyj @jesslwallace @mamatofmany @txbetty @sunbursthanock @manymurrays @allygirl1964 help spread the word friends!!! This sweet one needs our help and prayers!!!

Apr 02Reply

ball_mom Hi! Can you help me spread the word to support our friend Rebekah? Thanks so much! @allie89

Apr 02Reply

navarrecharm @rebekah_allen - you've got me crying over here my friend. I am so sorry you are going through this. I am so proud of you for being open about infertility issues, it's so common, but no one talks about it. When you realize you have a supportive community around you- the burden becomes just a wee bit lighter. Will be praying for you! Thanks @ball_mom for the tag my sweet friend!

Apr 02Reply

ball_mom Hi! Can you help me spread the word to support our friend Rebekah? Thanks so much! @methodclothe

Apr 02Reply

ball_mom Hi! Can you help me spread the word to support our friend Rebekah? Thanks so much! @kathdmuzz

Apr 02Reply

rebekah_allen @navarrecharm going through all this I've definitely learned it can't be done in private. The first five years we didn't tell anyone and it just ate us up. Having support has really changed things for us and made the process easier. After speaking out about it I've found there are so many other couples going through the same thing and we can help each other out. Thanks for your support!

Apr 02Reply

ball_mom Hi! Can you help me spread the word to support our friend Rebekah? Thanks so much! @jules2209

Apr 02Reply

ball_mom Hi! Can you help me spread the word to support our friend Rebekah? Thanks so much! @edamerval

Apr 02Reply

ball_mom Hi! Can you help me spread the word to support our friend Rebekah? Thanks so much! @robinj

Apr 02Reply

ball_mom Hi! Can you help me spread the word to support our friend Rebekah? Thanks so much! @mknight101

Apr 02Reply

methodclothe @ball_mom absolutely

Apr 02Reply

kathdmuzz @ball_mom - you bet! I also had my share of issues, heartbreak and disappointments. I would never wish this struggle on anyone and hear too often how many people are affected. Things do happen for a reason so stay strong Rebekah! 😘

Apr 02Reply

rebekah_allen @kathdmuzz Thanks for your kind words and support!

Apr 02Reply

styled My prayers are with you and your family. Praying for God to provide according to His riches in glory; praying for you guys for peace while you are thrown in this roller coaster ride. I have a really good friend and pastor who is going thru this and already has been tru a lot in this journey of becoming a parent. My heart breaks for you but at the same time I know His glory and mercy will prevail. @ball_mom - thanks for sharing this with me!!

Apr 03Reply

rebekah_allen @styled Thanks for your encouragement and shares! It means a lot!

Apr 03Reply

ejworsham @rebekah_allen I can't imagine how hard this is!! Praying for you as your family!!

Apr 03Reply

rebekah_allen @ejworsham Thanks for you support!

Apr 03Reply

ruby2nb Absolutely will share and share again ❤️

Apr 04Reply

rebekah_allen Thanks, @ruby2nb ! I really appreciate it!

Apr 04Reply

rebekah_allen @peppersgrrrl thank you for your kind words and support. It's such a hard journey and I feel for you with your losses. I'm still working through mine. I pray that things will work out for you too. IVF is definitely tough. If you ever decide to go through it and want some insight beforehand, feel free to message me on fb (my username is in the pics). Thanks again!

Apr 04Reply

blondefarmwife Rebekah I'm sending tons of prayers, love & thoughts your way!! I read through your post with tears of joy and heartbreak. 💗😔I am 32 years old & last year after a long run of tests I was told the same. I don't want to bother you with my story but I feel your pain & I will do anything I can to Support, Share and sending those prayers!!! It's so expensive & it's a child-not a materialistic thing - I try tell people that BUT WANT IT KNOWN. I'm here to support!! I also get paid on Monday so I would like to purchase something to help out! With tons of X's and O's!!! Tami

Apr 04Reply

rebekah_allen @tevavold Aww, thanks so much! I'm so sorry to hear you're going through the same thing. Since my husband and I became more open about our situation I've found so many other couples in the same boat. It's so helpful to know you're not alone. I'm really hopeful that we can try one more time and have our little bean stick!

Apr 04Reply

blondefarmwife And I truly meant every word! It is So good to hear from others in the same situation. It's a hard, long & expensive road!! I'm always here if you need anything But I just had to reach out! I will help & pray, I promise you that❤️❤️❤️!!!!

Apr 04Reply

rebekah_allen @tevavold if you do go the IVF track and ever want to talk about it feel free to contact me on FB (my username is in the second pic). Thanks again for all your support!

Apr 04Reply

blondefarmwife Thank you!!! We are going the IVF route just funding is the same thing for us. Oooh sorry I'm just ranting, I just have a huge ❤️for this & you! Okay I'm going to be quite and hopefully we can chat soon! 💗💗💗💗💗💗

Apr 04Reply

rebekah_allen @tevavold Lol, no worries! Talk to you soon!

Apr 04Reply

misspilar I'm sorry you're going through this! I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers 💕

Apr 05Reply

rebekah_allen @misspilar Thank you so much for you kind words and support. It means a lot!

Apr 05Reply

blondefarmwife @mrssword @bbarnes362 @vivacouture @camposcc @storyofmydress @nugget_love @blackcherry7 @badz16 @manymurrays @lolafig @jentucker Wanted to share a story with you and any shares is of most help :) xoxo

Apr 06Reply

ckayej @rebekah_allen good for you for putting this out there. The more support you have the better it will be. We went through our own struggles and it opened our eyes to how many were in the same position. Good luck!!

Apr 06Reply

rebekah_allen @ckayej I agree! Much easier to go through this with the support of others. Thanks for your kind words!

Apr 06Reply

mrssword @rebekah_allen @tevavold I get tears eyed every time I read a story like both of yours. My brother & his wife have also been thru the same situation for years. After 5 years the IVF finally worked & they are expecting baby #1 this October. **squeals** 😃 Both of you beautiful ladies are in my prayers, God is good & he promises to give us the desires of our heart. He has a plan & in the right time it will come to pass. Much love to you both! 💕

Apr 06Reply

rebekah_allen @mrssword that's so good to hear about your brother! Infertility is such a hard road but the love and support you can get from friends and loved ones makes the journey that much easier. @tevavold 💕

Apr 06Reply

rebekah_allen @vanityfierceson Yes, we have. We have one embryo of our own left that we want to give a chance at life. Fostering/adoption will probably be in the future for us whether or not we are able to have another child.

Apr 06Reply

blackcherry7 Best of luck!! Praying for Caleb to have a sibling 🙏❤😊

Apr 06Reply

blackcherry7 @tevavold thank u for the tag ❤

Apr 06Reply

blackcherry7 Hi posh friends, please help share this wonderful story and great cause 😊 @yolirivera @nugget_love @kimsthings @camposcc @moonbunnytoo @cnguyen25 @vonnenyc @vivacouture @lindyhiphop @letteshop @vacat @ginger71 @poppy64 thank u so much ❤

Apr 06Reply

thejeweladdict Will share💛sorry to hear you're going through this🙏🙏

Apr 06Reply

sangyayc @rebekah_allen Hi Rebekah, I just saw this listing and it really touched my heart. I can't even imagine the difficulties you are going through but I hope that will get everything you've wished for and more! I believe in prayer and that good things happen to good people😊👍 my prayers and best wishes go out to you and your beautiful family❤️💐

Apr 06Reply

rebekah_allen @blackcherry7 Thank you so much!

Apr 06Reply

rebekah_allen Thanks @ginger71 !

Apr 06Reply

rebekah_allen Thank you so much @chenlalaland !

Apr 06Reply

yolirivera Of course I will share! @blackcherry7 Thk u for tagging!! @rebekah_allen my hugs to you Rebekah😘

Apr 06Reply

rebekah_allen @yolirivera Thanks so much!

Apr 06Reply

blackcherry7 You're welcome 😊

Apr 06Reply

nugget_love ❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏

Apr 08Reply

benectar Best of luck😘❤️

Apr 09Reply

rebekah_allen Thanks, @benectar ! I appreciate the support!

Apr 09Reply

randilyn I will be sure to share this!!! I hope you're blessed with a beautiful bundle of joy soon enough!! best of luck! ❤️❤️

Apr 10Reply

rebekah_allen @randilyn Thank you so much for the support! I appreciate it!

Apr 10Reply

randilyn @benectar @hanjiun @hannaho @elissaemoto @lorigalloway @all4designer @alvictoria @misspilar @renarose2 @renea99 @sanddilee @lula44 @@madeyoublush @ejworsham @nljorda1 @camille315 @caramia10012 : ladies, I hate to mass tag - but this is a very touching and real cause! please, please help share this post and @rebekah_allen's closet. many of you are mom's and I'm sure understand what Rebekah is going through. every share will help!! xox

Apr 10Reply

nljorda1 keep your head up momma. You'll get your dream come true

Apr 10Reply

rebekah_allen @nljorda1 Thanks for your support!

Apr 10Reply

jbischoff <<HUGS>> @rebekah_allen I've been there too, Mama! After 6 years of infertility issues and finally IVF, we now have 15 month old boy/girl twins. And, ironically, we're due very soon with our miracle, surprise baby #3! Sending lots of positive thoughts and prayers your way! Will definitely share this post and visit your website. Good luck to you!! 😘❤️❤️

Apr 10Reply

rebekah_allen @jbischoff Yay for miracle babies! Thanks for your encouragement and support!

Apr 10Reply

maryekuek @rebekah_allen I am not a mama yet, but one day I hope to be and I cannot imagine having to go through what you are going through. You are so strong and brave for all of this. God is so good and I'm so glad you have been blessed with one little one! I will keep you in my prayers 💗

Apr 11Reply

rebekah_allen @marym1992 Thanks, my little one has really eased the grief of my recent loss. It's a tough road but I've found many women in the same boat and all the support and encouragement has really been a blessing

Apr 11Reply

maryekuek @rebekah_allen I'm so glad! And I wish I could fit into your clothes! So cute!! I'd be buying many of them if they were my size!

Apr 11Reply

rebekah_allen @marym1992 Lol, I hear that a lot. Well, keep checking back as I'm trying to expand my sizes. I'll be posting more tomorrow!

Apr 11Reply

vivacouture Sharing and hope it helps !! Wishing you the best !! 🙏🙏🙏

Apr 14Reply

rebekah_allen Thanks so much, @vivacouture !

Apr 14Reply

rebekah_allen Thanks so much, @bluemay1 !

Apr 16Reply

minimalkvy god bless! shared your whole closet!:)

Apr 17Reply

rebekah_allen @kristysalindo Thanks so much!

Apr 17Reply

minimalkvy Your welcome anytime :)

Apr 17Reply

briewineposh Good luck on your journey for a second child 💕 I can't even have any, nor have any due to a bone marrow transplant. I plan on adopting...why don't you do that?

Apr 17Reply

rebekah_allen @brie309 Sorry about your situation! We have one embryo left so I feel we owe it to the little guy/gal to give it a shot at life. Fostering/adoption is definitely in plan for later. But adoption costs just as much as infertility treatment, though there are tax benefits. Good luck in your journey!

Apr 17Reply

briewineposh Awww...when you put it that way! It's like they're there waiting for you to get them. 😍 Best of luck on your journey as well. 😊 Maybe I should make one of these ads. Medical bills for myself, let alone adopting, is a lot to bear...especially with one income! I like your idea! Thanks! 😘

Apr 17Reply

rebekah_allen @brie309 😊

Apr 17Reply

mfanning @rebekah_allen @tevavold Just saw this and I'm so sorry you are both struggling with infertility--it's an awful thing! I struggled getting pregnant with both my kids and had to see an infertility specialist as well. I was fortunate that IUI worked for us, so my prayers are with you two as you go on this journey. You are not alone!

Apr 18Reply

rebekah_allen @mfanning Sorry to hear you dealt with it too! I've found it's much more prevalent than I originally thought and so often we go through it alone. I really appreciate all the support I've been getting 😊

Apr 18Reply

rebekah_allen @ball_mom I don't know if you've noticed, but I've been updating my cover shot as I get more donations. We're over $3k now! Thanks for all your shares 😊

Apr 19Reply

ball_mom I had NOT noticed! Thanks so much for pointing that out! I'll keep better tabs and will keep sharing! Praying for your little frozen one. I am rocking mine to sleep now. When I think about him literally bring frozen in time for all those months, it is just hard for me to believe. He was always meant to be our baby, and I believe that for your little frozen one, too. 💕

Apr 19Reply

rebekah_allen @ball_mom Aww, I hope yours sleeps soundly tonight. Mine just went down after a nice bath. It's crazy to think my little ice cube baby is technically the same age as Caleb. I really hope it wants to come home with us. The $3k makes it possible for us to start the process next month! I have my first appt. next week 😊

Apr 19Reply

ball_mom I agree! Crazy to really think about these things. I have a friend who did a fresh cycle which failed. She had two frozen babies but elected to do another fresh cycle instead which resulted in a daughter who is now 3. She recently went back and transferred those 2 frozen little ones--and is pregnant with twins! But, oddly, those twins are in actuality older than their 3- year-old sister! 😉 AMAZING news that you are getting started next month. 👏👏👏 Please keep me updated! 💕

Apr 19Reply

rebekah_allen @ball_mom Yeah! That's so crazy how things work like that. I'll keep you updated. Hopefully we'll have good news in June!

Apr 19Reply

ball_mom I will be praying until good news comes. June 10 is a great date, FYI. I had an IUI which resulted in my daughter on June 10 and our little guy was transferred on June 10. 😊 When the docs told me my transfer date, I just KNEW God was telling me great things were in store. I'm so very excited for you, friend!

Apr 19Reply

rebekah_allen @ball_mom awesome! That's encouraging!

Apr 19Reply

chic_happens I will share often🙏 no need to return the favor❤️

Apr 21Reply

rebekah_allen @gin_uwine Thanks so much!

Apr 21Reply

melmel09 @rebekah_allen totally feel ur pain been trying for 3 years after two back to back still births and was told only through IVF first try failed I have to embryos left and lord willing it will happen but it's sooo devastating!!!! I will spread the word and make a donation Good luck

Apr 22Reply

rebekah_allen @melmel09 Ugh! So sorry to hear you're in the same boat. I've run into so many women going through it. It's such a hard road. I'll keep you in my prayers for success! Thanks for your support!

Apr 22Reply

ivyandikeresale @rebekah_allen i'm sorry you are going through this, but I will keep you and your family in my prayers. Just have faith in God 😊

Apr 22Reply

rebekah_allen @lslychvz Thank you so much for the support! Wouldn't be able to get through it without God and the support of friends, family and wonderful Posh ladies like you!

Apr 22Reply

smooches702 @jlt2681 @poppy64

May 01Reply

smooches702 XO!

May 01Reply

lindsaydemo I'm so sorry to hear that you are going through this. Keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers! ❤️

May 04Reply

rebekah_allen @lindsaydemo Thanks! I appreciate it!

May 04Reply

rebekah_allen @ball_mom It's not June 10th, but I'm scheduled for my transfer bright and early tomorrow morning!

Jun 05Reply

ball_mom @rebekah_allen YAY! I am so happy for you. 😘 I've already sent up prayers for this one to grow in strength and for God to breathe life into your little one. PLEASE let me know when you get your awesome beta. 💞

Jun 06Reply

rebekah_allen @ball_mom Thank you so much! I'm feeling very good about this one 😊 first blood test next Thursday and pregnancy test the following!

Jun 07Reply

ball_mom Thinking of you and praying for you today!

Jun 12Reply

rebekah_allen @ball_mom Thanks!

Jun 12Reply

rebekah_allen @ball_mom Positive home test this morning! Thursday I'll get the blood results but it looks like this little bean is here to stay!

Jun 17Reply

ball_mom REBEKAH!!! 💕🎉😍👏. My heart is so full for you! What a tremendous blessing. Those "lone ranger" embabies can be tough and strong. YAY!!!!!!! I'll keep praying. Please keep me updated with your amazing little one on the way. 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

Jun 17Reply

rebekah_allen @ball_mom 😊

Jun 17Reply

rebekah_allen @ball_mom How's a 1760 for my first Beta 😄 With my last pregnancy it was a 56. I think it's safe to say this little embie is in it for the long haul!

Jun 20Reply

ball_mom That is a phenomenal first beta!!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉. Wow! Congrats on the wonderful news, dear friend! 😘 Keep the great news coming!

Jun 20Reply

ball_mom Think about you ALL the time. How are you doing? 💞

Aug 02Reply

rebekah_allen @ball_mom Was at a memorial in CT for my grandfather today. He passed away from pancreatic cancer. It was tough but I was thankful I was able to make the trip up to see him with Caleb a few weeks ago while he was in the hospital. He sat in his hospital bed and read a book about trucks together. Was really precious. Other baby is doing well. 11 weeks today. Had my first OB appt the other day, graduated from my fertility doc 😊

Aug 02Reply

ball_mom I just so, so sorry for the loss of your precious grandfather. What a treasure that you were given some sweet memories with him as he was so close to leaving this world. I know that you will treasure those always. I lost mom to cancer two weeks after my oldest was born, so I know what a void cancer leaves behind. SUCH wonderful news about your sweet little baby! I am thrilled to be able to share in your amazing progress. Grow and thrive, little one! 💞

Aug 03Reply

rebekah_allen @ball_mom It's a boy!

Oct 06Reply

ball_mom YAY FOR BROTHERS! 💙💙💙. My two guys are 7.5 years apart but have the most awesome brotherly bond. What a lifelong gift for your babies! I am so excited for you and your family. Thanks for keeping me in the loop! 💞 Yayyyyyyy!

Oct 07Reply

rebekah_allen @ball_mom I'll miss being able to buy frilly girl clothes, but I think Caleb will really enjoy a brother. Although it might be a different story when he finds out he has to share his trucks...

Oct 07Reply

ball_mom Oh, the trucks! 😂 I could add superheroes to that in our house. Thank heavens boys' clothes have come a long way in the past few years so boy mamas have a bit more to choose from. Still quite lopsided selections in the stores, though. Imagine them in matching Crewcuts outfits! 😉

Oct 07Reply

rebekah_allen @ball_mom Oh man, Crewcuts! I have to wait until Caleb is capable of not destroying an outfit the first time he wears it before I start buying Crewcuts. He will eventually be the most styling little boy around :) Maybe his little brother will be calmer like me and I can start out earlier! Last year they came out with the most adorable cashmere sweater that said Dude on it. So sweet! But $150 for a sweater that would get marker or ketchup on it day one? I had to pass.

Oct 07Reply