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This weekend was very sad for me! Not 1 time but SEVERAL TIMES/Other Closet Holders/Customers came to my closet & literally ranted/bam blasted me w insults/condemnations/spewing lies/& untruths/w/o basis/cause! Comparing my listings 2 others w/o proof/knowledge of my personal expenditures/or any reality as 2 what/where My purchases or personal costs 4 my items! I'm seeing too much of this behavior going on! We must stand together against this behavior! STOP BULLYING ON POSHMARK! ? POSH SUPPORT?
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toryshop
@toryshop
Posh support should police bullying on Poshmark/Sadly IT's happening too much/& growing! Pls stand-up against this behavior! Support/& Other CH's need 2 stop nitpicking small stuff/& come down on rude/& nasty behavior! & those that coming in other CH's closets/comparing prices/spew nasty remarks! No one else knows where we get/what we spend 4 any given item! What's wrong w this picture? Rules r put in place 4 reasons! MAKE A STAND against Bullying/MAKE Poshmark A Bully FREE SITE!💞
alicekaaos
Hi thanks for the follow! ❤I've always 100% backed up all my underdogs, all my 'freaks' and my misfits . I'm an oddity myself and understand so well some of the hardships alot of people go through for not looking thinking acting dressing a certain way. I strive to spread my quirkiness so that some day it will become common nature to be loving and be yourself :) I like your closet. Lots of near stuff. :) hope you have a lovely day !🕉
toryshop
@alicekaaos
Thank you so much for that love message/I luv to create fashion style and never want to be the status quo gal/Always strive to be the trendsetter/Never the trend follower!
Welcome to Poshmark!
@toryshop💞
fashionfauxpas
Oh wow
HAVE not been keeping up w/alot these past few days & can't believe ne1 would pick on u..rather I believe it happened but can not understand y?!? U must be 1 of the kindest , most compassionate caring souls on here.
Not 2 mention absolutely🖼 beautiful & 🙃quirky cool!! A OOAK genuine gem in a sea of fake arse zirconium mass marketed 💩💩😝.
fashionfauxpas
.women whom never grew up & still engage in immature bullying ..the 21st century online equiv to the cafeteria/hall way mean girls whom whom live to target others 2 make up for their insecurities..sad so sad they never really truly grew up & learned 2 keep their mean spirited pathetic insults to themselves..sad so very sad 2 harbor such negativity ..
fashionfauxpas
I could say alot more but I won't because ur too good for their pettiness..plus ur health could suffer from such negativity & stress..this HOWVER is a good outlet for UR frustrations..boo hissss 2 small minded fools..much ❤💘💘❤to unique 🙃 sweet kind hearted souls like urself..keep being u cos Pish posh mark needs people like u!!! Sending much ❤💘 & positive vibes ur way..always in my non denominational prayers 4 a full recovery.. xoxoxoxo
toryshop
@fashionfauxpas
I was totally floored/I'd been up all night trying to catch up/they hit at 5 AM my time(central)& I don't know how she even got the idea the purchased item was the same? She even gave me 5 STARS LOVED THE PURCHASE/then about 10days later bam blasted/& ur right I was physically ill! To top it off/a lovely client I spent much time w/did a return? I have No Clue why/Support?? None! I sent pics of receipts/& package being prepared 4 ship? I don't get it! I almost called you??
Tory
yugiohmom
@toryshop I agree with you 100%. I go to therapy as I'll easily admit. My therapist tells me to ignore ignorant and awful behavior since that gives it the energy it craves. It takes every ounce of my being not to kick the crap out of those that hurt the ones I care about/love. I'm so sorry. No one should ever be hurt while pursuing their business and being an upstanding, caring human being on posh. Much sadness here knowing you've had to deal with terrible behavior.
toryshop
@yugiohmom
Katy/the crazy thing was it was at 5AM/& this same gal gave me a 5 star review/LOVED THEM!! the products may have looked the same but I paid way more for them/then she accused/it was ridiculous! And it literally made me physically sick/Poshmark support looks for trivial infractions/they need to stop bullying/as well as monitor the ages of the account holders/I'm not kidding I am following over 1.1 Million closets/there are children w accounts?? How??
@toryshop💞
yugiohmom
@toryshop It makes me sad that good poshers can be harassed by uneducated & possibly young poshers that don't get the importance of using words wisely. It's hard to monitor bully's on a platform such as posh. From my software engineering background it's hard to be able to parse out the bad from the good. If they're not responsive via email there's no excuse. Emails about bully's should be taken seriously.
fashionfauxpas
@toryshop what the watt?!.!.a.return on here?!.! That is absurdity..did they communicate why?!?! I often offer to exchange items for peeps but since pish posh doesn't support the returns & would be out thee 20% (exorbitant but when considered that returns are not supported it is more tolerable...)
fashionfauxpas
Cont..this is a LONNNNGGGG 1..took me almost 44 min to compose 😰😨🤓😉most peeps I offer the option 2 exchange have not taken me up. On it but I would not mind because they are kind & cool peeps & I would rather they get something they can use but exchange is outside of pish posh.
fashionfauxpas
Cont #3...Tbph u would think if some1 buys something & plans on possibly returning they should buy from a diff platform. One that accepts returns, but then again some people have that sense of false entitlement, rules don't apply 2 them & will get there way no matter what, or if destroy an item , by accident I would assune, just think this is like Nordstrom /Saks where u can return said damaged item without a problem...
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fashionfauxpas
Cont #4...(told ya it's a doozy...🙃😘😛👍😎..did said person, buyer in question, lie about the item not being as described..purposefully damage said item, or maybe damaged whilst trying on, or wore and damaged (a huge reason I take detailed date stamped pics b4 I mail anything 2 any1..I learned that lesson from selling on ebay w/in the 1st few months of selling on there over 10 yrs ago..
fashionfauxpas
now that all.phones have cameras (not so much when I started in 2002 on the Bay) ..how is pish posh support handling this?!? Are they at all?!?! I have reached out to support on numerous occasions to get 0 help at all..I sent emails & would get the robo responses & only a response after I cancelled the sale
fashionfauxpas
(3xs which 2 add the insult to my proverbial injury was i was basically chastised (by pm) with a generic msg about **wasting people's time ** when cancelling..when the entire reason I cancelled because the buyer & especially pish posh didn't respond to my inquires about the sale when i had mislabeled a listing (2xs) & didn't want to send an item
fashionfauxpas
**not as described ** to have an issue evolve into a hot mess I just cancelled but found their generic response extremely rude & too general..also ironic cos I mightn't have had 2 cancel had they (pish posh support) communicated w/me in the 1st place..grrrrr. aggravation. & this all happened when I was ill for a month earlier this yr, with asthmatic bronchitis that felt more like the flu. Then pneumonia,
fashionfauxpas
sooooooo much fun to be physically I'll & frustrated on top of it....Imho pish posh support needs a toll free hot line, if not 24 hrs then at least the business hours..9-5, what exactly is the entire 20% going towards? Not the joke of an explanation they expect intelligent adults to swallow..most likely lining the pockets of their investors..
fashionfauxpas
neway another convo altogether plus I (am.fully aware and accept the stipulations and don't ) needs to be on here it is a choice & I understand very well the rules & regulations & agreed to them, might not like them all that much & happy 2 expound on it, but I do have a certain respect for rules/regulations (if only a grudgingly acceptance I still do..)
fashionfauxpas
but I have high hopes u can work it out w/support with minimal hassle....5am?!? I can't blast u on that cos I always wake up & if I notice a notification I can't help myself but check it out. Then if I get aggravated so much for sleeping again, although I am a nocturnal sort so that happens usually at a time when most are awake and productive..my "5am" is usually around 9 or 10am as I generally wake at 11 or noon.
fashionfauxpas
.regardless it is seriously a sleep killer to get a notification at an odd hr for u...I can imagine u take it all to ❤💘 most caring people with sweet tender souls do as such, it is easier said than done to tell someone not to care & let it roll so I wont go that route..I have been turning off my phones & tablets when i sleep to let them charge
fashionfauxpas
..I have a home phone people I am close to can reach me at if extremely important & emergency, I found the smart devices would break into my sub conscience way too much & if not wake me then at least influence my dreams in certain ways..I also tried using the do not disturb setting with only a few #s as priority that could break thru.
fashionfauxpas
Although I still found when i work to use bathroom etc I would not be able to Resist the temptation to look at the device just to c what was up..a sad trick I played w/ myself cos I would 9 out of 10 times get too involved and twas the end of my sleep ..BTW if u feel. The urge to call me netime pls do so. I might have phone off but I always get back once I have it back on..
fashionfauxpas
if I recognize the number, I think I screenshot ur number(b4 I deleted the listing u left it on so some nutter wouldn't get ur #...). so if I c a number I don't recognize rather than ignore (i have a few phone stalkers whom call from odd numbers since I won't respond to their ph#.."frienda" & I use the term loosely whom used & abused my kind giving nature 1 too many times
fashionfauxpas
& I told them we were thru but they just can't take no for an answer. Calling from a number I won't recognize as theirs
.no doubt to ask me to do for them..
.they always want want want & if I love and care about someone will give, but not to someone whom will cut me & laugh while I bleed, I give everyone a chance but if screw me over once 2 many times then buhh bye ..
fashionfauxpas
neway i mostly communicate via text not so much a phone person, never really was ,even when b4 texts were a viable option..wow it is 721 am on East coast, I fell asleep at 3 am (early for me) pups woke me at 6 am & still haven't gotten back to sleep.
fashionfauxpas
Time 2 take my meds, & resume (hopefully) sleep no worries ur msg didn't rouse me but I had forgotten to turn off my phone b4 sleeping feel asleep on at sofa & phone on my chest when i woke so I perused..gonna turn off & hopefully sleep now. Ya right a lost cause but maybe a few more hrs,
fashionfauxpas
I hope everything works out for u & no 1 ends up walking all over u..I AM hoping pish posh support will do the right thing..xoxo hope my msg doesn't disturb ur sleep..as 725 EST is 5am.nitey nite sweet charming lady xoxo (did I reach 20 comms?+?!.if so would.b a new record for me 😉😙 will count when i wake again now 749 ..nitey nite..4 real..rather toodles..until we converse again xoxoxxo
toryshop
@fashionfauxpas
Support is virtually a scripted set of robots hiding behind computer screens/that's why when I messaged I told them I wanted to actually SPEAK to Manish Chandra/b/c support was taking days even weeks to do anything if anything was done!!! And I will get ahold of him somehow/Poshmark is in need of REAL SUPPORT for their closet holder/after all we are Poshmark's "Bread & Butter"! Someone needs to gets these over sites looked into!
@toryshop💞
toryshop
@wolfekrest
You would not believe what came back to me in a return they allowed/the buyer of not even a month(I should have looked🙀) I always do! Worked hours getting a bundle/then accepted a lower $ offer/then she filed a claim on Kylie's kits/I begged Posh to read comments/sent pis/even pics of receipts/still approved return cont..,
toryshop
@wolfekrest
I got it back Friday/they had already given her the refund/the kits were ripped open! Color smeared all over the box! I spent a whole night/& yesterday asking them why?? I finally messaged Manish Chandra/if I have to/I'm ready to jump a plain & go visit Poshmark! I'm so sick of the LACK OF SUPPORT!! I'm a top 10% seller/Spend a ton of money on site/& a mentor/since 2012/& they took her word over mine!
@toryshop💞
toryshop
@wolfekrest
I want to share/On that return of my products trashed! I went to Manish Chandra CEO/sent a very long explanation/& pics anyway/he just messaged me/apologized/& did the refund personally/he said too many refunds are going thur that shouldn't! I told him of the things I see following over 1.1 Million closets/is crazy what's being allowed??
@toryshop💞
toryshop
@littlerobyn
I can't say Thank You enough for your support! God Bless/you have the heart of a lion & the soul of a lamb/God Bless/I can tell your wise way beyond ur years💞TY💞
@toryshop🙀
sweetieheart
Would you be willing to give advice to my friend. I tagged her today in the post about scammers. She was just hit by one. I work with her and wrapped it myself in pretty paper and ribbon. The bag is brand new with tags. I feel so bad for her. She doesn't know what to do. The buyer fits the profile. I don't want to tag the girl. But my friend is @angelcribbs. Vera Bradley night and day campus backpack. Black and white. I know her bag was perfect. 😟
toryshop
@tm_stuff
Tina/could you fill me in a bit more before I reach out? What happened? PS been off a lot/we are in the flooding in Iowa/lost our furnace/air water heater freezer and several household
Items/so been trying to clean up/I have cancer & my husband won't let me help! He worries!@toryshop💞
sweetieheart
Wow. You have a lot going on. And I'm sorry to hear about all the damage you have. That makes me sad to hear. First I want to say you have an amazing closet. I looked at it this morning. And I pray your winning your battle with cancer. Anything I can do please reach out to me.
sweetieheart
Want me to tag you in her listing? I can keep it casual. I want to say something to the scammer. But I think I'll wait until the investigation is over. Would also like to get some amazing woman together and help boost her spirits. She just can't believe someone would do this to her. I want to remain as tactful as I can. However she should not get away with it.
toryshop
@tm_stuff
Tina/I'm going 2 discourage that, sweetheart, I will tell u why/that tends 2 target u ! I know how you feel! But it's like putting a bullseye on ur back/if they know they hurt u it feeds their fire 2 cause more! As that's what they want is a reaction! I know every fiber in u wants 2 speak 2 their humanity/but they have none/they r cowards hiding behind the anonymity of the Internet! If u don't agree I understand/but I'm talking 2U from my heart & experience!
@toryshop💞
toryshop
@tm_stuff
Tag me under the listing in her closet/I might be able to help her.
@toryshop💞
sweetieheart
Thank you luv. 🤗
toryshop
@tm_stuff
Tina Please tag me under the listing she was scammed on /I still might be able to help! We all have to work together to stop these sick people! As they are sick of the get off on doing these things! Do you know if they are still active on the site( do they still have a closet?)
@toryshop💞
sweetieheart
Did you get my tag? And thank you for your time.
toryshop
@tm_stuff
Didn't get it/send it again!
@toryshop💞
sweetieheart
You are the best. Thank you very much for all the advice. And support. If there is anything I can do for you and fellow poshers let me know. 🤗😚
sweetieheart
How are you holding up love? Has any of the flooding subsided? I've been thinking about you. I am praying for you and everyone who has suffered from the floods and damage.
sweetieheart
I learned last night that my 9 year old son is being bullied. Again 😞his bus ride after school has assigned seats. The kid slaps him and hits him in the face. I will be stepping in now. I have to protect him. Without making it worst for him.
toryshop
@tm_stuff
I would go straight to the principal & parents & get that kid taught some manners! If my kids ever did that to another person there would be HELL TO PAY! He needs to learn now while his behavior can be changed to the GOOD! I'm so sad this is happening!!
@toryshop💞
sweetieheart
Thanks hon. Unfortunately this is not the first time he had been picked on. He doesn't say anything. He just lets it go. I can't fight all his battles however when I learned this had been ongoing...... I am going to see the principle first thing Monday morning.
anthemoessa
So thankful to find this post. I've only been on Posh for a matter of months but I am being harassed nonstop by another seller to the point it's seriously making me uncomfortable. I have kept screenshots of their messages to send to support. I emailed support a couple weeks ago about what's happening and haven't heard back. I want to send the screenshots to them but is it even worth it if they don't respond? Is there another avenue I should go through?
anthemoessa
I read Posh has a zero tolerance policy for bullying but do they actually address harassment and bullying issues? I have never experienced this kind of thing from a keyboard tough guy surprisingly so just trying to figure out how to move forward. =\
toryshop
@mermaidepiphany
Kay/I have been sick from my last chemo treatment. But just saw this/PLEASE MESSAGE ME! I promise I can help you get this STOPPED!
@toryshop💞
anthemoessa
@toryshop Thank you SO much for responding to my post, beautiful! First I want to say to you that I am so sorry for what you're going through and I'm sending love and light! 💜💖 I found your post yesterday by just doing an internet search for bullying on Poshmark. I wanted to see if anyone else has issues like this. I don't even know where to start. I sell on another venue and that is where this other seller initially found me.
anthemoessa
@toryshop We happen to use one of the same distributors so we carry many similar and sometimes the same items
anthemoessa
@toryshop When she first started reaching out to me it was a very fake sort of kindness. During that time someone kept reporting my items which was absolutely ridiculous. I began to think it was her. I blocked her on that venue so now she has been reaching out on here but saying very nasty things.
anthemoessa
@toryshop She has been making every effort to replicate my shop on that venue and even going so far as taking screenshots of my photos and using as her own.
anthemoessa
@toryshop Yet she comes on here and says things like I want to be her, I'm ugly, I'm a loser...the list goes on.
anthemoessa
@toryshop Each time I have responded professionally (even though I want nothing more than to give a serious piece of my mind) and each time I have asked her to please worry about herself and to cease with contacting me. I saw that you contacted the CEO. Did that work? I think she is a young girl based on the childish behavior. It's just making me so aggravated because she is literally stalking me on these venues and it makes no sense. :(
toryshop
@mermaidepiphany
Kat/That is what I had to do/Manish is a wonderful & kind soul! He says they are trying but it takes time and if you see the number of CH I follow over 1.5 Million/I have seen stuff that makes me SICK! But U must not feed them! It's the 1st thing u want 2 do/but what can happen is they turn it back on u & U get in trouble w the site!!
@toryshop💞
toryshop
@mermaidepiphany
Kay/PLEASE trust me! BLOCK HER! She can't post in ur closet that way/& report her for HARASSMENT! It's easy do U know how??
@toryshop💞
anthemoessa
@toryshop I found you on FB and sent you a request! :) I really appreciate your help so much! I finally blocked her on here yesterday but only after I saved screenshots of what she is saying to send to support. Absolutely feel free to reach out to me on FB to share the info. I'd definitely like to email him as soon as possible but I was thinking maybe he wouldn't respond as I'm sure he's inundated with emails.
toryshop
@mermaidepiphany
If u want to share her CH tag name either go to a sold old listing & disguise it not using @ sign & putting something between letters e.g. t*o*r*y*s*h*o*p* but under an old SOLD listing or on the other place mentioned?
@toryshop💞
anthemoessa
@toryshop I completely agree with what you said about feeding into it. I haven't said anything nasty back to her because I know that's exactly what she wants. I only asked her to stop contacting me each time and I did say she needs help because of her behavior. It has literally been obsessive behavior. I really hope they do something if I email him. :(
anthemoessa
@toryshop okay I'll give you the details on the other one mentioned. If I don't respond right away when you accept my request it's probably because I fell asleep but if that happens I'll definitely reply in the am! 💕💕
replicated
@toryshop this is so true I'm closing my closet it's too much I have never seen such terrible behavior
worldcollection
@mermaidepiphany They have a policy yes but it does not hold water at all. To be honest with multiple screen shots of evidence and oh we are doing an investigation... weeks later no word.
worldcollection
@replicated That is sad to hear. I want to encourage you to not close your closet because this will encourage them they can act like this with others. I am a pro seller on many platforms and I have had to deal with fraud a lot and I can say there is always an ear when fraud happens but there is no ear when abuse happens and I know ways we can help one another to benefit you and your case.
worldcollection
@toryshop His email may be first name @ Poshmark dot com. I agree we need to contact him for this problem!
meltingpout420
@worldcollection I just joined the poshmark community this week and I am being harassed by @ rmc34 in FL. I have emailed the poshmark people. This is NOT OKAY! She’s a lunatic. She is saying such crazy things about my listing because I won’t sell her the case for the sunglasses by itself. I’m appalled by the welcome I’ve received on this site. Makes me think this place is full of trash people. Is it? Then I don’t belong on this site.
meltingpout420
I just joined this site and my account is already getting harassed by @ rmc34 trash should stay in FL not poshmark.
worldcollection
@meltingpout420 Hello Lauren. I read your email briefly and had to rush out the door! I am very sorry to hear you are experiencing this drama. It does happen to a lot of people as you can see reviews on Youtube and online about this issue.
worldcollection
@meltingpout420 What you can do is block their account so they cannot post on your account. Then report them to Poshmark. Do not reply back to them as that can only fuel the fire. Also you can file a complaint with the Better Busines Bureau in the same city where Posh HQ is located.
worldcollection
@meltingpout420 Do not let them intimidate you! I see you have removed items from your closet! Go bold and sell as you like.
worldcollection
@meltingpout420 There is a lot you can do to fight this but it would take time to do reports against Poshmark and this individual. To be honest I did not feel the customer service on Posh for MY incident was good and that in itself upset me so each day I make it a point to do some report to make it well known that this happens and what one can do about it. Best though keep a smile on your face and know we all love you and wish you will bounce back from this incident to have happy sales!
smc23
1/2 So glad to find this, as I was ready to lave the app (and still may). I've contacted support three times about buyer @dollface319 (who opened another fake account @karma319 to continue harassing me after I blocked her). She bid 50% on a designer item, I rejected it without further comment, then she attacks me saying I'm rude and should be happy someone like her has taken interest in my item.
smc23
2/2 I replied saying I'd blocked and harassed her, and she then stalked my photos (there are none of me) saying my eyes and hands were wrinkly (so vile and childish) and then claimed my closet was full of Walmart items and that I was "ghetto," which is racist and vile No word from PM despite the fact that I've been a top-rated buyer and seller for years, and this person is some troll ghost. It's really upsetting and makes me think about just deleting this app.
beanieberns
Hello, I know this is an old post but I came across this while Googling what to do about being cyberbullied. A seller made me the target for harassment for her 15k followers on IG bc I commented about the retail price of her item. She screenshot and said I attacked her, and removed her own offensive comments.
beanieberns
I'm getting harassed by her followers on both platforms and I'm just so tired and blocked her from both. I'm wondering if there was ever any disciplinary action against the sellers who bullied you? I just feel so helpless. I emailed Posh about 5 times and haven't heard anything @toryshop
rockinfrocks
I saw this and had to stop too. It’s like the Posh Gangs! The mean girls of Poshmark! Especially those who purchase and love to rip others apart! There is no way to resolve unless they contact you before they leave you a crappy rating out of nowhere. On top of that they show no sales or have a lot of sales but garbage reviews to like 1 out of 3 people. I’m thinking of leaving myself. Just wanted to vent!
rockinfrocks
Oh and I forgot that I’m going thru my entire list of followers and will screen them and start blocking those who spew garbage or give a lot of bad ratings!
worldcollection
@beanieberns Hello. You can file a complaint with the FTC.gov, IC3.gov, write Press Release (free) email CEO of Poshmark. File a complaint with the BBB in your city. You have resources and you should do all you can to make a foot print to document everything that happened. Also email the CEO of Instagram. You can find these when you google search and figure out the email by guessing. I did that and it helped me a lot.
beanieberns
@worldcollection thank you 🙏 I reported her post many times on IG and also reported her account (which was dismissed) and I’m not sure if it’s bc of that but she ended up deleting the post. I know the damage has already been done though while it was up but I’m just glad my photo is no longer associated with her. Thank you for your advice, I know it will come in handy for later bc I’m sure she’s not the only bully out there 😔
closetholic
Just happened to me need help. Someone at Poshmark bully me she call me stupid and ugly. And she sale counterfit item
closetholic
I'm going to report her. She is a bully
lindseydujour
@toryshop 100% agree with you! Having been on Poshmark since 2012, I have never experienced this. I pride myself as an honest seller and let the buyer cancel when I know something is damaged or flawed. This past week a buyer claims the dress I sent her was damaged and smelled. Firstly, the “damage” she claims looks much worse in her photos than it looked in my photo, which makes me suspect she must’ve damaged it further because the dress didn’t fit her.
lindseydujour
@toryshop She had also asked about if it would fit her before purchasing. Then she claims it smells, which I would’ve been the first to notice because I’m sensitive to smells so I would NEVER send her something that smelled awful. I wore the dress once and laundered it! But nonetheless, I approved for her to return it rather than face her harassment and accusations!
lindseydujour
@toryshop And now, today, she created a NEW account and posted spam and harassing comments on 4 of my listings saying I sell things that smell like wet dog and to never purchase from me!! I’m sorry, but I didn’t realize I could be cyber bullied on Poshmark of all places, let alone, someone would go about making a new account to harass you AFTER they returned something! You won, leave me alone! What’s the point? Does it make you feel any better about who you are?
toryshop
@lindseydujour
Oh my GOD I am so sorry that this happened! God bless you! And you have an AMAZING CLOSET!
I will try to share! I’ve been very ill battling cancer so just know what happened to you needs to be STOPPED! I’m hoping together we might help the situation! Please hang in there because you my dear are worth the fight!
@toryshop💕
worldcollection
@toryshop I had yet another incident with a user shuri_smith She bought from me four items in two separate orders and was happy but when she made offer on a hat I liked. I told her I could not buy now and she was so upset and edited her reviews to negative. How did you contact Manish?
worldcollection
@lindseydujour So sorry to hear this. This HAPPENS A LOT OF POSHMARK!
worldcollection
@beanieberns Can you tell me her name on one of my sold listings? I think I had the same problem.
toryshop
@rachw424
Thank you for your like! I truly believe we can make a difference by helping each other!💕
@toryshop
toryshop
@rachw424
I want you to know, sadly almost every seller has had what happened to U happened to them, me included. Hang in! There are MORE wonderful buyers, than the bully you encounter! And as a community we support each other! My new sweet friend, know if you need help, support, or have a question, you have my hand, my help, and my support! ALWAYS! Kindness is here and if I can help in anyway I am but a message away!
@toryshop💕
thejabberwoky
@toryshop I'm glad you are drawing awareness to this problem. I had an issue before that caused my account to be closed and I had no chance to defend myself. Someone started reporting my listings as offensive. They were things like socks and baby clothes. Posh emailed me and told me that they would be suspending my account permanently. I sent an email back and asked why and asked for them to review my items that were reported. They never responded other than t confirm I was suspended permanently
beetree56
I'm kind of getting burnt on questions about my jewelry being tested. I say yes, and even show photos of my methods. They get their answer & don't make an offer. (Too funny) Is it competition? I share other Posher's jewelry all the time. Some is prettier. It's o.k. I don't mind. Really ! Lighten up
pootys_pots
Thanks so much for posting this! I was completely bombarded this morning because a customer didn’t get their way! It felt like being in high school again!!!!! Nice to know I wasn’t only one!!
michelangelolol
Hi love, I just experienced a very tragic event of racism here. Any suggestions as to what actions I should take?
lmkdeals4455
@toryshop Hi Tory! How are you? Its been a while since we last chatted! I've encountered one individual that actually did the same or perhaps similar from what you've experienced. I never had this happened to me ever since I joined Poshmark until last month. I'm just glad I saw this post you made back in July? I certainly believed that there are restrictions that Poshmark requires before anyone can become a member of this community.
lmkdeals4455
Bullying is one of them. I simply ignored this person and blocked her! She's just annoyed and can't afford to buy the item she wanted to buy! That's it! That's why she tried to throw it out in the open what she thinks! It didn't bother me a bit because I know what the story behind every pieces I have in my closet. Stay home and stay safe! ❤🙏
designerplace
It's Lovely to meet you. I am an Ambassador and have a huge closet, if I can assist you in anyway; just ask. Take care of yourself and yours in these trying times. Sue
jinxy231
Thank you for liking my item. If you bundle two or more items from my closet. I'll give you a private discount. Happy Poshing 😊
fashion_scrilla
@toryshop I need help... some poshers hanged up on me on one of my popular listings and were harassing me about my price on one of my vintage luxury items which is extremely rare. They both included rude comments about my price and mocked me. I reported their comments for harassment, spam and also for transaction off posh as a last resort... it’s been over 24 hours and posh still has not removed their comments. What can I do now?😔
fashion_scrilla
@toryshop I have sold a lot on here and brought in over 4K in sales in a few months it simple astonishes me that posh allows so many horrid things to happen to me. One woman once traded me and stole my items because she never sent her trade package out at all.
fashion_scrilla
@toryshop I contacted posh they advised me to intercept my package and they cancelled the trade order on their end and issued her the refund for the item after I showed them proof she hadn’t sent the package as she promised and proof that I had intercepted as they told me to.
fashion_scrilla
@toryshop Well the “other” posher then proceeded to list my personal info on their profile, she listed my address and info she got from the posh shipping label which they gave her and then she also stalked me online and did a background check etc... googled me and then listed harassing posts about me and my family and listed photos.
fashion_scrilla
@toryshop She claimed that it was blackmail and until I removed the listings from my page which show her clearly harassing me and calling me a b*tch and calling me countless names, I reported it to posh and they didn’t even remove all her comments and they did not remove her account either.
fashion_scrilla
@toryshop I made the mistake of telling her that posh said for me to intercept the package and I posted a photo proof of the email from posh advising me to do so then I posted my receipt proof that I had to pay $20 to intercept my package because it was clear she was committing fraud...
fashion_scrilla
@toryshop then the posher attempted to finally shit “some random item to me” I say random because she finally shipped some package out using the label they gave her, but I had already paid to intercept my package as posh advised and I told her to do the same because after all the harassment and defaming of character and the slandering name calling and bullying I wanted nothing to do with her fraud schemes so I didn’t even want her item anymore. I told her to intercept as posh had advised me to
fashion_scrilla
@toryshop well she don’t intercept her package and I had found out that despite me paying usps to intercept my package instead the fraudulent posher called into usps and told them to hold the package for her at the post office in her city and for some crazy reason they DID!
fashion_scrilla
@toryshop Then I called usps to find out why my package had not been returned the manager of their usps branch told me they have the posher on camera walking into the post office and showing her ID to physically “steal” my package from there!
fashion_scrilla
@toryshop And I contacted posh to tell them they said that I have to deal with USPS that they weren’t willing to demand that the posher return my items to me and they cancelled the order and refunded her the $6 we both paid for the trade plus shipping... so that posher not only STOLE my merchandise but she also got her refund for the trade!
fashion_scrilla
@toryshop after the posher stole my items she shipped an item out to me and I simply told my post office to reject it that I didn’t want to see the package nor touch it at all (worries she’s try to claim another lie and take her fraud ways even further by trying to say I damaged it or some other lie) so when the package hit my post office It was rejected. Posh knew it was rejected and I sent them proof that my post office rejected it.
fashion_scrilla
@toryshop well after that she reported “she may have accidentally sent me the wrong item” so basically she didn’t send out a package and after she stole my package from the post office (after I paid to have it intercepted) she proceeded to still “send the wrong item” she claimed I wanted nothing to do with her package because it all seemed like one giant scam at that point
fashion_scrilla
@toryshop I have proof I attempted to intercept my items (which she eventually stole) and I usps has proof that she illegally physically walked into usps to collect my package of merchandise knowing she wasn’t supposed to... and I have proof of her harassment and slander of my business and myself personally by posting my personal information on here
fashion_scrilla
@toryshop I sent alllll proof to Poshmark and they haven’t done anything except say they would investigate further... this was alllll the way back in November and they still allow that woman to be on this platform and since she did that to me that posher still pretends I stole her package she sent me (which she claimed she sent the wrong item” and I have proof that it was rejected and returned according to usps systems. Proof she is completely lying.
fashion_scrilla
@toryshop since she stole my merchandise, three other poshers have come to me stating she did the exact SAME to them that she never sends out her end of the trade and she steals or she never sends out all the items as agreed and lies about shipping it.
fashion_scrilla
@toryshop I don’t understand why Poshmark hasn’t removed her yet! I’ve made them over 3k in commissions already plus I shop a LOT on here I have over 300 love notes I have left for other poshers from items I have purchased... posh still does nothing to that woman and hasn’t shut her account down either!
fashion_scrilla
@toryshop to make it worse to this day (she stole my merchandise November last year) she still occasionally posts a listing slandering me and trying to get her few followers to accuse me of stealing from her...
fashion_scrilla
@toryshop If you look at the items on my page you’ll see I have no need to steal from anyone and I can well afford to treat myself to luxury items with no problem. And that posher is claiming I “stole from her” which is a complete lie. All she was trading me was one pair of vintage leather pants for about 5 items from me.
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fashion_scrilla
@toryshop I didn’t even want to trade I was only doing it to be nice because she begged me to trade under about 5 of my various listings so I said okay why not I’ll give it a try and be kind. But it instead of a nice trade I took a loss because she stole my merchandise
jinxy231
@babyfirefly1971 I had a feeling that perhaps you may need to see this. As bullying on Poshmark should not be a thing. And that posher's on Poshmark are working to put a end to bullying one step at a time.
babyfirefly1971
@toryshop @jinxy231 Thanks to my friend showing this to me! I've had a horrible time, to the point, that Poshmark lied to me & I found a way around them, so I'm just waiting for the people to try & report me again! Jeffree Star, himself, phoned Poshmark about my closet & copyright infringement. I had to relist everything. Then just about an HR ago, someone asked why my prices are high, my stuff isn't worth it!!
babyfirefly1971
@toryshop @jinxy231 I could go on & on about the bullying I receive because I have a "different" vibe to my closet, which I refer to as the "Funhouse"! I try to make Poshmark fun & I get prayers for me posted on my meet me page! Thank you for this post! I'm sharing my friend on this!!
babyfirefly1971
@scarriegirl Finally, a post for us!!
jinxy231
@babyfirefly1971 @toystory No problem I hoped by showing this to you that you are not alone that this is happening to others. If we stand together that we all as one can put a end to bullying. I even posted it in my own closet to show support. Help bring posher's toward this post and I feel with enough people that even Poshmark will notice and take action as well.
jinxy231
@babyfirefly1971 I hope that helped brighten your day as I know you were going through a hard time. Needed some support
berettascorner
Thank you for posting this. I have been a Poshmark member since 2018 but recently started to sell within the last month. Everything was going well until today. Got bullied by a buyer today after product was shipped. Very disheartened and planning on putting my closet on hold 😢
dime_diva_finds
Did Poshmark ever do anything to help any of you? I am being harassed by another seller so badly right now. She’s actually made a fake closet with my name and picture! Accusing me of stealing my inventory! Poshmark won’t even reply to my support emails! I am looking for an attorney now.
jinxy231
@glam_grrll Hi I saw that you had a stop bullying sign on your closet. When I saw that I though I should show you this so could use it on yours as I do. Happy Poshing 😊
jinxy231
@dime_diva_finds The most way is to block and report them for harassment. When you do go to report. There will be a list as to why. Pick the one you want. That way the Posher can't leave you messages. Do that each time in case made more then one account. I hope this helps. Happy Poshing 😊
dime_diva_finds
@jinxy231 I have been doing that. I’ve also sent Poshmark multiple emails regarding the situation. I’m at the point of getting legal advice and filing police reports.
jinxy231
@dime_diva_finds Keep doing what your doing. I do wish Poshmark acted more quickly to put a stop to this. I have a feeling with the more posher's active against this bringing this subject up more often that Poshmark will act upon it. I'm so sorry to hear you going through this. I hope if you do try to take it to the police that they can help you put a stop to it.
dime_diva_finds
@jinxy231 me too! Not sure but going to try. This woman is non stop! Now she’s made multiple fake accounts with my business name and photos on multiple platforms!
jinxy231
@dime_diva_finds That's crazy. Sounds like you are on a good path to stoping her from doing this to you. I hope works out for you. Keep your chin up things will be better before you know it. Don't lose hope
dime_diva_finds
@jinxy231 👊🏻
glam_grrll
It IS ridiculous, but don't let them bother you hon, it's them, not you. Women are so petty and jealous! I couldn't never stop and tell someone some bull crap. if you can't afford the price, get it @ the store. there NO WAY we can compete with Retail, and I bet we will ship you your stuff quicker and better than JSC.❤But don't ever let ignorant people ruin your day!! 😉❤
msbargainista
I’ve been bullied and harrased on this site and Posh is not responding
lizzyboo05
Yes I had a lady buy something and then asked Poshmark for her money back. They found nothing wrong with what I sent and she threaded my life and now has her friends posting on my listings saying my stuff is nasty. I have never had a problem and have a great record on Poshmark. I had nothing to do with them not giving back the money. She and her friends are grown woman at least in their 40-50s
hlynn81
@msbargainista same. You can’t get them by phone and they don’t respond to emails.
msbargainista
@mhartman84 try twitter they respond right away if you tag them and the CEO
hlynn81
@msbargainista thank you so much! I tried on Facebook but they said I’d have to submit a report on Poshmark, they don’t handle complaints. I advised I did but never got a response. I’ll try twitter though. Thank you again!
msbargainista
@mhartman84 well let me know what happens friend glad I could be of assistance
nunniabusiness
people started doing it to me just now today. Suddenly then others came including a new account which I suspect to be a fake seeing I blocked the other girl even after finding out she has multiple accounts. Glad to know I'm not the only one
kosmasjen11
I have someone who “likes” the same item 8-15 times a day for the past week. Sometimes 2-3 times in the same hour. I sent them an offer. No response , but it’s already priced low. What is that? I don’t understand why someone would do that. Does anyone know why this person is doing this ?
myhairandstuff
I was bullied over a $32 dollar item by a "posh ambassador". i had reservations about how the purchase even took place. i knew i should have canceled because I had a bad feeling about it. The customer went crazy in return request and accused me of some crazy things i would never do. it gets me down that Someone will go on a rage filled verbal attack over a $32 dollar item and I have shipped $500 wigs with no problems. i think im too sensitive to sell my art and be lied on in the process.
emisalesthings
@toryshop I experienced this today and I had no idea it happens so I blocked/reported the fake account.
_hey_gorgeous_
I so appreciate this comment❤️
This week I got slammed with absolutely untrue allegations on how i am doing my buyers wrong. This all started back a few months ago when I purchased @therapyshop7 listing. This behavior should absolutely not be tolerated. I reported her.
thespacesbtween
What happens when you report an account for harassment? I know Poshmark receives a report, but what is the outcome? Does this person get an email about it? does their account get banned? Do you have to provide proof of their harassment & does the other person see it? I feel like I’ve built up such a following that I hate to report someone if there’s a chance they might find out it was me and try to do more malicious things! If anyone can let me know what happens, I would really appreciate it!
wtfyougoton
This is so true I literally had a lady go out of her way to post badly about my item listing.
flmama561
I’m so glad I saw this, I hope it reaches other users. I’m so tired of the price bullying that goes on here. I’m contacted Poshmark so many times about about issues on here without them ever offering a solution. So many people think if they comment in a listing that they’ve found it cheaper you’ll cave and sell it to them for way less than asking. My solution, flag the comment as spam, it’ll be removed and block the user don’t waste your time on these people.
lolallita
I am so sorry this happened to you. We must all stand together on this platform to end poshmark bullying. This kind of rude behavior from people is not doing acceptable, and we need to bring an end to it once and for all.
wind_in_sails
I completely agree. I’m dealing with it almost regularly. People are incredibly rude if they don’t get what they want, and how they want it. I’ve been attacked many times in different ways. It’s disheartening
peacefulshopper
I have someone who wants me to lower the price of MY bag. She is commenting on my Closet and lying about her finding my same bag in various other places. If she doesn't want my bag, then why doesn't she just leave? Why is she harrassing me?
toryshop
@skiandsail
I am so sorry this is happening to you and it’s happened to me too. The only thing you can do is what your already doing. God Bless and know that the majority of people are so wonderful/ don’t let one person spoil something great!
@toryshop❣️
sherihen
Hello❣️Thank you for all the likes❣️
aconite666
@toryshop I can say more, but Im with you 200% on this post. I had a harrassing buyer who i initially blocked, guess what she does? bring her friend over to spew nastys. Goodness, smh. I wish you prosperous sales darling, Bless you stay safe! 😇🥰😁🙏
sgloria710
I agree completely, I genuinely wanna leave this app because of the harshness of many buyers and potential customers
blondebuddha
@toryshop I am having an awful issue with literally a group of mean girls that break all the rules and post personal things and talk crap and say abusive things, their stalking me taking pics going on my Twitter.......they must be really unhappy bc the amount of time they spend stalking and harassing me They should be arrested harassment is a crime
blondebuddha
Can I repost your photo/message to put on my page and share?
toryshop
@blondebuddha
Absolutely/it is an honor.
Tory
blondebuddha
@toryshop thank you!! 💖💖💖💖 you’re very kind☮️☮️☮️🌸🌸🌸
heiricvee
@toryshop thanks for this post
I’m having a heck of a time with a disgruntled troll who is relentlessly harassing me and idk what to do 😑
maucri
@toryshop hi dear, may I please post in my closet, ty?!?🥰😘😘😘😘😘
lisakidd54
Love this. Once I became a posh ambassador I get bullied so much. Items in mint/new condition I still get bad ratings. All my money goes to a domestic violence shelter/ and helping low income elderly. It feels like I have a target on my store now for all the bullies.
lisakidd54
I am reposting on my site thank you.
emilyhayes136
This woman today left a scathing public comment on a pair of UGGs I sold her for a very cheap $. She said that the boots reeked of cigarettes and marijuana! I don’t smoke cigarettes and I have literally never been around marijuana and don’t know what it smells like. I’m not sure if I’ll even get paid! I emailed support two times and have heard nothing back. And ironically I just got a 5 star review from another buyer who bought another pair of my UGGs yesterday!
sms924
@toryshop Hi, I believe someone is attempting to do the same to me and I’m afraid to send my items. I am currently dealing with this.
katy_landes
No excuse for it. I have sold 19 items with 5 star reviews but yesterday had someone accept an item, give me a 5 star rating, & then start commenting about an alleged stain & bashing my character. I had to block her & tell postmark because she then started amending her review to contact me. I told poshmark I would happily return bc there was NO stain but she wanted to keep it & wouldn't open a case or send photo proof.. she just wanted to harass me.
katy_landes
Honestly there is no excuse for behavior. I know I sent item without the stain and even take photos before packaging ALWAYS. if she would have approached it by asking me about how it may (or may not have) arrived I would have gladly helped her contact poshmark and tried to give some sort of credit for damage during shipment if she showed proof. I try to be nice to people but some people just want to say hurtful things because they can.
deliska
I'm so glad I saw this. @everette349 actually just did this to me. Me minding my own business and she literally felt the need to leave a rude and disrespectful comment on one of my listings. She needs to see this anti-bullying post. She doesn't even have a closet of her own. I flagged her comments as harassment and also blocked her.
jamnrv
It happened to me tonight ! Why is it we think and remember a mean person that is outright mean. I even told the person I would refund them because they were displeased with the item they bought from my closet. They said that was not necessary ----they would just"give it away". WOW !!! I blocked them. BTW Thank you for letting me vent--
k4tg4r
I just got harassed a few minutes ago for not accepting someone's offer 😂 I just told them to go purchase elsewhere. There's no need to be upset/harass someone over your offer being denied. I just block and move on 😊💕 There are plenty of buyers in the sea!
jennybird
@toryshop agreed. One posher basically tried to make someone feel stupid for asking if something she was ISO was for sale. She was like “it’s not for sale read the post” doesn’t seem like much. But uncalled for. Then when I mentioned that it sounded very rude she continues to say how “people should read the posts” and insinuated people were wasting her time. Super snotty and entitled. She could have simply said “oh no, actually I am looking for this item!” It was a simple mistake.
cheapposhing123
I really needed to see this !❤️❤️❤️ I’m dealing with this right now ,, a buyer purchased an item from me and has had it for a month and is now commenting on all of my sales saying terrible things and there’s not much as a seller I can do to stop it , I’ve tried reporting the comments and for the most part they’ve been deleted, but she’s based her entire page off of her one purchase from me..
cheapposhing123
@jessicazhuuu I get that !! I have a buyer right now that has made her entire page, her cover and profile picture just based on an item that she bought from me and harassing my page after she purchased an item from me a month ago ,, how do you stop them from posting your address and personal information 😭❤️ I feel like there’s nothing I can do
priscillamoy
@toryshop thank you for posting this! Literally had to report a user for doing this today. Harassing me ALL day to buy her items then started arguing with me on other users listings accusing me w/ “arguing with a 19 year old who has feelings” and she “doesn’t know what’s going on with my mind” since I didn’t end up buying anything. When I did try bundling, she jacked up prices to over double the original listing price thinking I’d just pay it so she got very offended when I didn’t.
umaberry
Thank you for posting this!!!!! Have encountered so much bullying lately on Poshmark. I’m so sad this is happening to so many Poshers, but this post definitely gives me relief that it’s not just me. Be well❤️
kogicharlotte
@toryshop I agree! I has happened to me as well. Best
lilyrose37
I was bullied by a seller in Austin, TX who sold me a stained dress. She wrote tons of nasty, demeaning comments when I asked to return the dress. Blocked & reported her, karma has no expiration date.
modestyline
Hate has no home here. ❤️🥰
alisonkeehn
I was totally shamed by @hungry_hangers - DO NOT BUY FROM THIS POSHMARK "AMBASSADOR".
candy258
Well Said‼️👌🏼
sheworewhattt
I am.giing through the same with a deranged Cyberbully. The Seller - modernnfinds made a post about me with my information and said she would call the NY / CA Bar to report me. The law is on my side but what a waste of time. She is upset because I reported a tear in the item I purchased. The argument escalated when she referred to a post on my account when I was about 90 pounds heavier 8+ years ago and said I tore her item because I was large
sheworewhattt
I then said "Oh you want to play dirty? I let her know I was hospital in July 2023 and have lost a lot of weight". She claimed thats a threat and implied that because I live in Brooklyn, I am a scammer and continued to call me a scammer. she then created a post about me posting my responses and not hers. this person has my address and I suffer from severe anxiety and depression
sheworewhattt
I have emailed PM over 10 times and nothing. They ruled in my favor and she escalated further. I have now contacted an e-commerce lawyer, the police in Studio City and the post office that holds the PO Box. I will be pursuing this to the fullest extent of the Law
xanadutn
@toryshop Amen
xanadutn
posh is not doing their due diligence. the bully's will leave if we collectively have to run them and the scammers off. sorry asses
yguzffford
@toryshop I posted for the first time and some idiot is being a bully. I’m not going to put up with a bully. Poshmark should be on top of the bully’s
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