Mind Your Manners.
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I think some of us are forgetting proper etiquette and what this app was originally intended for. When I started using this app 2 years ago it was fun. The girls all got along, it was friendly, we all helped each other out, we never wrote or encountered someone who would write mean spirited posts on our listings just for the hell of it. This app wasn't just about shopping & selling, it was a community. It was a place for girls with common interest in fashion to talk, share, and make new friends
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knhwang
@panela05 love this post. I hate it how we have to remind people to have manners but your words rings true! Well put. Love your closet. I am no where near your size but will share to all my friends!!
panela05
@knhwang just surprises me that some girls don't know how to be civilized human beings. Especially to those they don't even know. It's very sad.
knhwang
@panela05 AGREED. irritates me to no end when someone only posts "TRADE". No real sentence nothing. Thanks for a the shares!
mjxl
preach!!
fqymfa7443
Question why do people put crazy price tags on things? Like this for instance.
fqymfa7443
I'm new so I'm trying to get the hang of all this.
panela05
@andcook no problem. You usually see those crazy prices when the item is already sold through a bundle, it's reserved for someone, or the seller isn't sure if they're ready to sell that item yet. Basically it just prevents others from purchasing that item. :)
fqymfa7443
Gotcha...but that's odd...why not put it up when u are ready to sell. I'm old so bare with me! ☺
aynynya
Amen! My biggest pet peeve is when people ask to trade when I clearly state in the description 'no trade'...in caps!! It's the younger ones I swear lol
panela05
@andcook some people list things with the intention to sell, then after a few days realize they might not be ready to part with it.
blissful1
Maybe they just changed there mind, or found another item there interested in, it can be that simple..........
panela05
@blissful1 and that's why I say people should make sure they really want something before starting to negotiate. Simple as that.
blissful1
Ok ok this is not a debate. Just know there is always 2 sides to a story. That's all. Have a blessed day! 🙏
panela05
@blissful1 there's always 2 sides to a story. I've noticed more and more rude and inconsiderate people on this app...so this side needed to be put out there. Have a great day as well.
blissful1
God is good! 😇
sheelagoh
Amen, sista, amen @panela05
velestine
Lol why do I feel everything that you just said. I've thought all these thoughts that you've written down since I've started poshmark. Thanks for telling them!
siennethreads
AMEN to allathat!! 🙌 Dealing w disrespectful/rude buyers is an every day annoyance and burden. #storyofmyPMlife 😖😫
simplyxtrendy
Very well said! I get a lot of #2 and #4 😒🙅
kewpie
Agree 100%!!
greenworldposh
👍🙏😘 well said!!!
rursable
As a pure buyer I completely agree with this. Some people can be inconsiderate.
cjtang
👏👏👏 You really have summed this up perfectly!
panela05
@cjtang this whole time I thought I was already following you! Lol.
cjtang
@panela05 Ha! Yay--thanks for the follow! I had at least 3 seperate 'frustrating' encounters today (shakes fist) so seeing this post tonight ...yeess 😂
panela05
@cjtang I feel you!!! Lol.
amybeasley
I don't think some people can read because their habits don't change. Great Post.
gracerysh0p
Love.
laraa_lovee
🙌🙌🙌
erix
Well said👏👏👏
iamacreative
@panela05 Amen!
lpinky3
Trade
lpinky3
Just kidding!!!!!!❤️😘
xoshannonw
Hope u dont mind if i sceen shot this for my closet :)
eileeeenq
This post is awesome!!
jeis5
Right on!
panela05
@coachqueen31 lol...that's fine if you don't want to buy the sunglasses. Yes...I misread your initial message but the tone in which you wrote it was rude to begin with anyways. And sorry that I don't have time to go to a store to grab a measuring tape. Being stuck at home recovering from giving birth and being a new mom takes priority. No...$1 is no issue at all...but I'm not going out of my way for people like you. Have a good day.
panela05
@coachqueen31 and honestly a $20 loss is no big deal sweetie. :)
findingabc
You handle yourself so well! Thanks for this
erix
Can't agree more! Well said, we all feeling this, Amen!
tkhun
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
toopoorforcoutu
Can't agree more! Some people really have too much time on their hands to troll on this app that is meant to be a loving community. 😑
maria80s
I approve this message!!!!!!
kspiri2
Agree! Agree!!!!! Agree!!!!!!!! I can't agree with you more! What gets me all the time is for instance something is priced at let's say $100. Someone will make an offer for $5. If I wanted to price it that low wouldn't you think I would have done so already instead of getting low balled?? Sometimes it seems like people just go around to try to irritate serious sellers.
signedblake
Ive just started blocking ppl. I go ABOVE & beyond to make sure my pics are excellent & the descriptions are clear. The least ppl could do is READ! I hate when ppl ask me ?s that Ive already answered. Or when they ask u measure this, try that on, post a pic of the bottom of the shoe (which I NEVER understand bc most of my shoes are new), etc. Then after u do all that they disappear w/out so much as a thank u. UGH! And the lowball offers?? 😡😡😡
signedblake
@kspiri2 That's the kind of thing that, in my closet, would get them BLOCKED! So disrespectful! I'm getting upset just thinking about it! 😠😠😠😡 lol
kspiri2
@blakevond yes I can talk days about all the disrespectful or just stupid questions I get on here. Like why are you selling? Um.... This is a place to sell? Come on!!!???
signedblake
@kspiri2 Or "Is this still available?" Umm...its listed as "Not for sell" and you had to scroll back through 2 years worth of listings to even find it. Probably not!!!! But I can't say that because pointing out logic is "rude" these days so I just ignore the comment and take another sip of wine to keep my cool. Lol
kspiri2
@blakevond Hahahahahaha yes!!!!! God bless them if they get me on a bad day! I don't know how much more I can hold back.
janekma
Thank you for this!!!! Amen!
itselaine
@panela05 Yes!!!! This is so on point! 💛
missktgc
YESSS. I love this. So true. I was talking to my fiancé about this yesterday! I've had to start blocking girls.
leesha_33
bravo!! 👏👏
moi9312
Well said!
jaimeebondoc
I love this!! Especially number 2! Some people are just so darn rude. Trying to "negotiate" by saying theyve seen the item cheaper elsewhere... If that's the case, then by all means, why would they waste their time and our time if they could just purchase it somewhere else for lower price. But I bet a lot of those is more likely that they didn't find it cheaper elsewhere. They're just rude and don't know the proper way to negotiate.
dianarx
Omg #2 i just had this happen to me. Some girl trolling with nothing better to do. Lol i should tag her here so she can learn some manners!! The best is it wasnt even the same item! I wish poshmark would let you delete comments or block pple. Do they not know how many crazy pple there are on the internet?
scarlettfae
Question: I purchased something, and it was delivered and I hit accept. The girl commented saying she sent me the wrong shoes and I looked and lo and behold they were. She said to send them back to her through poshmark. How do I do that
panela05
@scarlettfae you can email Poshmark support. I'm sure they can help you guys out. Sorry...not really sure since I don't work for Poshmark and never encountered an issue like that.
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