TIME WASTERS PLEASE GO AWAY!!! 😜
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Look, I'm all down for giving a lil more info, but if you're not having intentions on buying, PLEASE don't make me jump through hoops, model or give multiple measurements!! Please? I've done modeled, measured and dug through my clothes to take extra pics and I get no response afterwards. I own my own business, I will do anything to help you, but please. Don't waste my precious time!!
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p1nked4evr
@opie221 amen sista!!
bambizzz
Every person I've measured for has disappeared.
opie221
@bambizzz I totally asked another Posher if I could use this and it's spreading like wildfires!! Cuz we all go through the same crap w people!!!
bambizzz
Honestly! That and the lowballers...$10 for my $80 jacket. Okay, how 'bout $11? ha ha
opie221
@bambizzz hilarious!!! I've been getting a crazy amount of likes and responses!!! Too funny
bambizzz
Are you getting my messages?
opie221
@bambizzz yes I keep falling asleep!!!!!!! I sorry!!!!!!!
bambizzz
I'm on FB...Susan Hornsby
opie221
@bambizzz hey Texas mama!! Just getting to lay down for the night. Had clients all day n night since we spoke!!! I will measure those tomorrow when I get time. First client at 9:30am, then clients all day then I also work at AEO doing floor sets and I work 7-3am. So I'm gonna do my best to squeeze in a measurement for you Sue!!!!
mariasgoodstuff
AMEN!
tbabes12
Hey!! I'm Cristina ☺️ Just wanted to stop by & say hi! Can't wait to check out your closet. Let me know if you have any questions! Hope you're having a great day! Xo
opie221
@mariasgoodstuff amen! And AMEN!!!
opie221
@tbabes12 hey love! Love your closet! It's very diverse, like mine!!! I go from hippie to casual to sexy to fun IM ALL OVER THE PLACE!!!!! I have soooo much more to post but w owning my own salon, it's hard to post them all correctly!! ✌️❤😀opie
tbabes12
@opie221 two great minds think alike!! Wishing you lots of speedy sales ☺️
annabels_rose
@opie221 Oh my, YES, YES, YES!! I spent about an hour answering questions for this girl the other night. She kept making it seem like she was going to purchase, she was so excited I had the size she needed left, but then would ask another question on top of another question! After I dropped the price for her, she disappeared! 🙄🙄🙄🙄
opie221
@annabels_rose I've damn near stood on my head, rotated and sang show tunes at the same time and like you lowered the price then jacked up and lowered it again so the shipping would go down and SHE STILL didn't buy!! REALLY?????
opie221
@tbabes12 definitely!!! I asked permission of another posher to use this, and she was elated w joy, telling me to go forth and SPREAD THE WORD!!! So GO!! I send u as SHEEP AMONGST THE WOLVES!!!!!!!' Lmao!!!
opie221
@annabels_rose by all means, screen shot this and USE IT!!!!! I send u as SHEEP AMONGST THE WOLVES!!!!!!!
annabels_rose
@opie221 Or the people that take no time to read your listing/closet rules! I have "no trades" in my name on my main page, put it in as many listings as possible, and still have the comment "Trade" 10+ times on the same item. Same for when I post "price is firm." Normally I will still negotiate firm prices, but not for people that low ball me on a "firm" price. I've finally learned to ignore people; I used to take so much time to personally decline them nicely.
tmacshop
@opie221 lol! Thanks for all the insight!
opie221
@tmacshop hey!! Don't mention it. 😜 you don't need to thank me for my "Yoda like" words of wisdom!!! Lmao!!
tmacshop
@opie221 ❤️🌹❤️
insane4321
@opie221 ❤️❤️❤️❤️love this.
majicpotion9
Except, if we don't put measurements in the listing & just say small, for an item that costs quite a bit, the only way of knowing true size is to ask us to measure it. I ask now alot because I have spent a great deal of money on very wrong marked sizes. A small to us might not be a small to someone else...just thinking positively here! Thanks for listening.
opie221
@majicpotion9 have you read all the comments? Apparently not. I'm more than a POSHITIVE PERSON but I am THROUGH w jumping through hoops. Buy or don't buy, NEXT! Like I have a stretchy skirt on here and it's 3$ which I make 5cents on, girl wants me to model it when it's on a mannequin? NO NO NOPE NOT GoNnA! Sorry, I'm a realist. Be u, I'm a be me. ✌️💖😀
opie221
@insane4321 LOVE YOU!!!! ✌️💖😀op
brewsterbeaches
Well said!!!!
opie221
@brewsterbeaches thanx!! Have u read all the comments too? Funny stories except that chic majicpotion or whatever trying to be all like MAYBE THEY DONT KNOW BETTER?? Ugh. SMH!!
brewsterbeaches
@opie221 i did and i have 2 people who ruined my 5 star. The second persons sale i did dispute with Posh when she wanted to return bc i was rude ( i wouldnt do over nite) Insane....i take many pictures and i point things out. DO buyers think we are Macys? All my other reviews perfect
..burns my butt lol
brewsterbeaches
@opie221 ps i noticed that the really bad ones have no listings , are new or have crappy arse stuff and have no clue rofl
brewsterbeaches
@opie221 PPS.... TO ALL , for those who use ebay. Some sellers will not sell to buyers with no stars or under 5. Could it be appropriate to do something simular ? For example must have minimum 2 listings...If they have an investment perhaps they wont be so stupid and rude like my 2
opie221
@brewsterbeaches most def. I have a 4 ⭐️ on a shirt she said had a lil stain (which I never saw cuz it was BNWT, that she also got out) and she never even tried to talk to me about it. She's blocked now but told me of all the issues I have like she was my psychiatrist or something!! Yah and the "can u model" people? WHY DO U THINK IM SELLING IT???? Hmmmmmmm?
brewsterbeaches
@opie221 people can be rude
zoesmom70
This does get frustrating when people do this. My biggest pet peeve is those that don’t respond when they receive your stuff. Pm needs to change the time a buyer has from 3 days to 24 hours. If people are not going to be there when it comes than wait to buy it when u will be. Plus I get tired of people selling stuff too low and then buyers think everything should be dirt cheap. I’m trying to make money for my dogs surgery and need the money.
opie221
@zoesmom70 toucheeeee pussycat!!! I’m with you!! She still hasn’t responded. So now I have to wait. She doesn’t sell on here so she has no idea. Dumb arse. Poor puppers!! Start a gofundme!!!
opie221
@zoesmom70 PM JUST MUST HAVE RELEASED MY FUNDS. I left a message on @janephillips1 letting her know the urgency of releasing people’s money. She’ll never buy from me again, I’m sure. Oh well, I waited but it’s in the bank now.
zoesmom70
@opie221 oh good I’m glad she finally did it. It’s bad enough the cut pm takes out of sales but then to have to wait. I’ve done the same thing and gotten some very rude comments but I’m sure if I bought from them they would want their money right away too
varnyp
✌🏼So true! Some people just don’t get that our time spent on staging, photographing, measuring items is worth money. I definitely have had those model/measure/add pic requests that end up in radio silence.
designeroutlet7
Love this!!! I saw you liked a few things from my closet..I'm adding more if interested at anytime let me know ..I will give you a great deal!!!
msrozz
@opie221 Yes Honey, say it again 💋
opie221
@msrozz YAH!!!! STOP WASTING MY PRECIOUS TIME!!!!!! Feels good to say that out loud sometimes!!! ✌️😀💖💋opie
msrozz
@opie221 Yes Ma’am ❤️ And thank you for sharing 💋
opie221
@msrozz anytime love. Anytime. God bless you Miss Rozz. 🙏
msrozz
@opie221 God Bless you and yours 💜 💋
katiemob
Yessssss girl!!!! Believe me you are not alone!! It really is annoying like u said "jumping through hoops" when they have no real intentions!! I'm so glad i seen this...PREACH THOSE POWERFUL WORDS,Posh Sistaaa😁💕💕💕
opie221
@katiemob hellllllllllll to the yahhhhhhhhhhh ma sistahhhhhhhhhhh!!!! CAN I GET AN AMEN 🙏
brosa82
Amen!!!!! 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
sweetpeasbb
This is a good one lol
spacetruckin
no extra pics on things I’m basically giving away!I’m not gonna model and take extra pics of a $5 item unless you’re bundling or have previously been a good client I got a 4 star review on a shirt I sold for $4 because it was begged 4 then USPS made a mistake and I alerted the buyer immediately, commented that a 4⭐️ rating claiming that I was “slow shipper” when I told you it was USPS over shirt I made .56 cents mailing was rude they said “honestly I’m offended” 🤷🏻♀️ ok honey you be offended.
spacetruckin
Have you had anyone complain a perfectly described and packaged item was “fake” to get posh credit yet? I was snarky with that one they were these crazy shoes with wooden spring heels “I said, yeah I spent a week whittling those heels just to trick you WTF?! 😂😂
spacetruckin
Some of these kids all just want to speak to our managers and get free stuff 😂 the beauty of PM is this ain’t Denny’s honey, it’s my living room and the customer isn’t always right. Usually in these cases they are oh so wrong.
spacetruckin
PSA if anyone lives in silverlake LA CA NEVER put things in a bin at the Alvarado post office w/o them scanning 1st! I lost $400 and every client still got their package 3 weeks later it was awful.
spacetruckin
@brewsterbeaches yes they don’t understand selling and are entitled!
spacetruckin
Oh and no I’m not holding this for you til Friday you never come back on Friday!
spacetruckin
@opie221 so ridiculous. There are some wild people on here dumb and wild. I follow some of them like a soap opera
opie221
@spacetruckin that’s HILARIOUS CUZ SO DO I!!! I find myself looking at peoples convos when they have a bad trade or experience and they yell back n fourth!! Totes funny. I had a cray lady send me some dirty dress and she wrote on all of my listings that you need to be WARY OF MEE!! What a biotch!! Oh well! NEXT!!!!
didedu27
omg !! i want this on my page ! i have this girl saying 3 fridays ago that she is gonna buy this blazer and comments how much she likes it ! but she never buys sh#$t !!!
didedu27
@bambizzz let me tell you ,MAJORITY of the people that ask for measurements never buy anything !!!!
bambizzz
@didedu27 I've noticed that. I've also gone through and posted measurements on loads of stuff so they have nothing to bother me about. Buy it or don't.
didedu27
@bambizzz for the $5 or $10 dollars that i am gonna gain from the sale is not even worth it ! big stores like ZARA OR FOREVER21 DON'T give measurements !
ericag129
@annabels_rose 🙄🙄 hate that!
sljohnson1207
@lenaballaro OMG!!!!
poshoperadiva
@majicpotion9 I’ve recently purchased a Bogner ski pants size 10R and it doesn’t fit me at all LOL. I’m either reselling it or gifting it. 😩🤪
jda13_
I just send an excellent offer for you! Check it out thank you:)
glitteranddust
Amen!!!
dariuscloset
Preach !!!!
mycornucopia
People should also not "Like" if they have no intention of possibly buying. Making offers to these people is a waste of time, I have yet to make a sale to Likers.
john949
I love the post although I am unable to afford the $500K. However I hope you don't mind me wasting your time..Could you tell me what font and size you use for the letters in the image and those lips, are they true pink. Do you have another image taken from a different angle?
opie221
@john949 I believe I asked another posher to use this babe!! Feel free to copy n paste!!
opie221
@mycornucopia that’s sad. I’m sorry. I usually like multiple things and if you look at my purchases you’d see I buy a lot!! Too much actually!! But you know, I never have sold something to someone I’ve bought from?? Weird.
mycornucopia
@opie221 I now check if people who "Like" my item have actually bought anything since they started poshing before I send them an offer. I believe that most Poshers don't realize that a Like is a bookmark for yourself to come back to for things you might buy. It would also be nice if They were not interested in your offer to actually reply with a "no thank you".
opie221
@mycornucopia yes!!!! Like when I send a private offer with a message you’d at least think they’d say something?! I just had a girl like then put a bikini of mine in a bundle. She’s waiting for me to discount a NWT 40$ bikini I have for 14$. Not gonna happen.
gabbiiee11
@worthyxlove
catdinoto
@opie221 Thank you! No one who has ever asked for more measurements or additional photos has ever purchased the item.
opie221
@catdinoto exaaaaaaaaaaaaactly. No one, not one person I’ve jumped through hoops for has ever bought. Which is fine but at least thank me for my extra time THAT I DONT HAVE for going the extra mile!!!? Ignorance pisses me off!!!!!
catdinoto
@opie221 🐱 In fairness, one person who asked for measurements did buy an item, and people have thanked me before for taking measurements, but 99% of the time you are so correct. 🐱
niecy74
@majicpotion9 exactly! I often ask for inseam measurements on pants and full length size on maxi dresses on items that I'm really interested in buying. I've wasted money hoping that the itemI bought would fit correctly. If I can't the measurements before hand I won't purchase. That being said, I won't purchase if the measurements don't work for me.
rebeccanyc
yes!! Why do people do that? Are they so bored they enjoy feeling like they have the power to make you waste your time? I also hate the question: “will this fit me” despite a) my listing the exact measurements of the item and b) girl I don’t know your measurements bye lol
abird2014
Ugh! I hate this! Unless an item is expensive, please stop asking for measurements, or “how many times was this worn”, etc... like it’s 15 dollars.... if you don’t like it when you receive it then re-posh it. This isn’t my business, Poshmark is basically a closet clean out for me.
lovelystyles2u
Omg. ! I love this 👏🏾👏🏾 Thank u for saying it 😂
opie221
@lovelystyles2u lol!! You’re welcome!! Feel free to copy it and use it on your page!!! What’s mine is yours!!! 🤡
lovelystyles2u
@opie221 😂😂 Thank U ☺️💕💕 I’ll definitely use it ... Happy Holidays 🎄⛄️
vikrez04
This is great! Hahaha! I knew I wasn't the only one!!!
opie221
@vikrez04 lol. Feel free to copy n paste sister!!
vikrez04
@opie221 heck ya! 🤣 thank you! ❤️❤️❤️
hc990
you are so right!! people who ask me to measure rarely buy! most of my buyers are only that. they don't sell on posh so they have no idea of time it takes us or fees posh takes. I have a story to top most of yours - I had a purchaser bring a case on me because a FREE gift I gave her didn't fit. so throw it away already. it was FREE. she had liked it so I sent it as a gift. she returned everything. I let her because why bother.
opie221
@hc990 oh hell no she didn’t!!? Happened to me similiar. I had 2 of these beach coverup dresses from Elan. I sent her both although she only bought one and she griped about both of them. I swear, it’s never going to change me, but it doesn’t pay to be nice sometimes. Damn shame too. Cuz I can be a real biotch when it gets down n dirty but I choose to be kind but sometimes others are so miserable they wanna fk it up for the rest of us who don’t take their shit out on others. ✌️💖😊🍀💋opie221
opie221
@hc990 oh and feel free to copy n paste to your closet!!! SPREAD THE GOOD WORD!!! I mean, not THEE GOOD GOOD WORD 🙏 but you know, the good word. 😬😜
amposhstore
Lol I love ❤️ this
opie221
@amposhstore feel free to COPY N PASTE!!!! It’s yours now sister!!! SPREAD THE GOOD WORD!! AMEN HALLELUJAH!!!!!
opie221
@amposhstore oh.......and don’t forget to share your fellow brothers n sisters closets!!! SHARING IS CARING!!’And.......it’s just a nice thing to do. We need more nice on this 🌎 would you agree?? ✌️💖😊🙏opie221
cgbarn01
I agree 100% with "Don't Waste my Time" ! I just had to dig out a pair of new shoes, that were packaged in a box and measure the bottom of them. Really? Has the average Poshmark buyer never bought shoes online before? Maybe she should draw a picture of her foot and send it to me. Seriously, size is all we really have, if that is too much of a risk, I say, don't buy online.
opie221
@cgbarn01 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣 im literally lmfao!!!!
cgbarn01
Good! @opie221 I am happy to give you a laugh. I loved your post!!!
poshmommari
I. Absolutely. Love. This. My sister and I just started a few months back. I literally just got up out of bed to send someone a waist measurement and she replied “thanks” I’ll keep it in my likes. W H A T? People are just whacky. I’m with you. I’m done with the nonsense. I’ve had 10 people ask for information and not one has purchased. They just disappear. Thanks for this post. Glad to know I’m not alone. 😏
opie221
@poshmommari oh that’s terrible!!! Feel free to copy/paste AND SPREAD THE WORD!!!!!! Good luck 🍀 to you sister and sister!!!!! ✌️💖😊opie221
poshmommari
@opie221 thank you and thanks for this! Just another sheep among the wolves 🤣🤣🤣. Have a great day! #happyposhing
theedysue
Amen✌️👍
valleygirl15
@opie221 Well said, “Love It”. 🙌
celestialdream9
@opie221 This post is exactly what I've been feeling for so long! I have never EVER had a person who asks questions about an item actually buy it. Not one single time! Everything in my closet is on a mannequin, so one can at least get a pretty good idea of how something will look. I have a very busy life and finally decided not to waste my time responding to questions at all anymore, unless it's something I can answer off the top of my head. Because question askers NEVER buy the item!
opie221
@crimsonfire13 lol. Feel free to copy n paste!!!! I have another one that says this is not a charity!! Preach momma. PREACH.
celestialdream9
@opie221 Thanks! It's hard to understand why these things are so prevalent on PM when most of the people who do these things are also sellers. Wasting time w/ questions when there's no real intent to buy, ridiculously low lowball offers, not accepting promptly so funds can be released, not taking 60 seconds to leave 5⭐s & ❤Notes when so much time, effort & $$ is put into beautiful packing & shipping, etc.
rivervixen444
Omigosh!! This exactly! I had someone do this to me yesterday- most of the info was already in post. She then says she’s not sure if it will fit. Girl it’s $20, take a risk. Even said I’d take it back. So frustrating!
opie221
@rivervixen444 exactly!!!!!
rebeccanyc
I hate when people ask me to hold or if I would take a certain offer or not. Just make the offer, there’s literally a feature for that!
reebs54
As a buyer/seller on Poshmark, I have desperately wanted to purchase items but hesitate. Retailers use a "vanity size" method, so my size 6 in one brand fits like a 2 in another. I'm not going to waste money buying something if the seller refuses to treat me like a valued customer. no one wants to "waste time", guess what, if you can't measure, then I can't buy.
reebs54
@crimsonfire13 I politely disagree, I ask for measurements, if it fits I will buy it. I understand your frustration, but be careful not to judge because everybody can't just grab something off the rack.
215eyes552
This is so TRUE. I have done the same thing and then I asked is this ok, do you need more And no response. At least we tried to work with potential buyers. I have had people block me because I asked for additional photos or measurements. I was hurt at first and then I realized they saved me money. Lol
opie221
@215eyes552 ha!! They probably did!!! I’ve had mixed emotions on this post but mostly in its favor!! Some people get all offended but fk I don’t care!!! For the most part, it’s true. And you’re right, I’ve gone through hoops for people and crickets 🦗 man!! At least say thank you and move on!!!! Geeez. RUDE!! Lol!!
opie221
@215eyes552 like, look above your post for instance. I didn’t say I wouldn’t give measurements, I’m just saying if I do, be polite and say thanx but to ask and then not reply when I took my time to do that for you?? Nahhhh. Ignorant.
215eyes552
@opie221 Right! I almost responded. Communication and Comprehension is so important and I've come to realize that so many people lack both.
Thanks so much for all the posh love. I will definitely return the love. ❣
happytraveler03
@opie221 every single posher that has been on this thread, I am now following!! It’s good to read that others go through the same but with sellers, asking measurements, want you to run around your house 3 times and then go to the moon and back and THEN discount the item you’re selling. And then don’t give a rating. What is up with that??!? Just wanted to say thanks to you and the rest of your fan club! I feel better now that I know I’m not the only one targeted! POSH ON! ✌️
peace_love_posh
Thank you for this lol. What a great thread. It reminds me of r/behindtheclosetdoor on Reddit.
awesluxury90210
@postalfrau I had one buyer ask a million questions, give a low offers, then finally purchases the item. it took a few days to arrive, then she has the item be held at the post office for another five days after it was delivered! Then never rates me, three more days till Posh delivers my money. it was about two weeks for that order. in the mean time she is making a bundle of more of my items! I got my money and blocked her. No thanks to this buyer. you held up my money for way to long.
opie221
@awesluxury90210 you said WHAT??? Oh f that I’d tell her you know, I have your address!! Lol😂 some people. Geez what’s her name so I don’t sell to her either!!? I swear!!!!
happytraveler03
@awesluxury90210 I’m seriously dyin’! About to be on life support! It feels good to be able to laugh at a problem that I now know is a common thing!!
consuela39
Good for you 😄.
consuela39
@bambizzz exactly, and if we reply " I BLOCK LOWBALLERS" Poshmark jumps on me
opie221
@consuela39 really?? That’s happened? I’d tell them where to go too that’s bs I can block whoever I want!! And I don’t have to sell to whoever I don’t want!!! I swear, like the government, just wants to rule us all.
consuela39
@opie221 I know right? I didn't swear, but the person/ woman offered me $30 for a brand NEW with tags, swim suit that was priced at $179...... seriously? not even funny. Now I just block them. all the peeps that continue to bundle 13- 14 items, over and over, and even if I give them 50% off, they still don't buy. just playing...
little_jewel20
@bambizzz same
jewelsclosetxox
I couldn’t agree more!!! People don’t understand that some of us on this platform have a job/career and Poshmark is either a hobby or a secondary place for income, maybe it’s both! But as a business owner myself and always striving for buyers satisfaction and going above and beyond for buyers just to realize everything they requested from me was for nothing not even as much as a “thank you” is absolutely rude and inconsiderate.
jewelsclosetxox
My time & YOUR TIME IS VALUABLE and I wish that people would understand that common courtesy and communication will get you further in life if you apply it to your interactions on this platform
opie221
@jewelsclosetxox correct. Feel free to use, share, copy n paste, get it tattooed on you WHATEVS!!! And yes, I don’t mind going the extra mile, but when I do not even a thank you. RUDE!! Had a chic ask me to model an 8$ pair of shoes the other day……….need I say more? 60$ shoes, sure, 30$ even…..but 8$? Yah….no. Sorry. Don’t have time for that. I own my own salon plus have a 2nd job and kiddo in TOO many sports!! God bless!! ✌️❤️🤣😘opie
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