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All my items are new or like new and many are rare or hard to find. I also get my items on consignment, not from thrift stores, so I pay more up front for them. If you see something you love and want a discount, that's great! Throw it in a bundle and we'll talk about it! But it takes time and money to stock my closet with really cool stuff, so please don't waste my time and yours by sending me an offer for 50% (or less) of what I'm asking. Thanks!
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daschuhow
Lol!!
ladyarachnid
@daschuhow I know, right? I used to get really mad but now I just counteroffer for $1 less than my asking price. I never sell items for my original asking price and am willing to haggle but for heaven's sake...
daschuhow
@ladyarachnid having a Poshmark closet is a lot of work.
wendythirteen
I 💛 $5 offers.....
ladyarachnid
@wendythirteen I know. More often than not those people have never sold anything on PM and have no idea how it works. Sigh...
secretgirls
Sigh. Just rude when I get a $10 offer on a $30 top that was originally $90 🙄
ladyarachnid
@secretgirls I feel your pain. When someone offers me $25 on a $250 dress I just want to ask them WTH they're thinking.
beetlegoose
@ladyarachnid I have a pair of Doc Martin boots that cost me 175 that I have lower down to 100 for over 175+ Lakers and not one person will pay $100
ladyarachnid
@beetlegoose I feel ya, sometimes I get the feeling people think I just come up with my items magically, like just pull them out of my @ss or something. I'm not here to make a ton of money but I'm not giving it away either. Cheers, and may those Dr. Martens go to a loving owner who will pay what they're worth!
bestalpacaever
lol. i didn't think they knew.
ladyarachnid
@bestalpacaever sometimes I think people are just trying to yank my chain. Like the person who just put a Free With Bundle item in a bundle. BY ITSELF
spidersfrommarz
🤣!!!
ladyarachnid
@spidersfrommarz Yeah, I keep redoing the cover because I like to crack myself up and keep it fresh. I will never understand the 1 item bundle phenomenon, it never stops.
slow_toast
Hahaha YES! Jesus thank you. This just made my day
ladyarachnid
@slow_toast yeah, Kristen Wiig is just my favorite. Her and Kate McKinnon.
asilink
Hahaha so true! 💃🏼
ali_may81
$1 please! That’s a legit offer, right? 🤣
ladyarachnid
@ali_may81 I'm not sure what would happen if you even accepted an offer for $1. Like would you have to pay Poshmark for their fees? 😲
ali_may81
@ladyarachnid haha, seriously 💸💸💸
dragonfly3085
I friggin love this whole listing! Can I use some of the photos/text? (With credit in comments!)
ladyarachnid
@dragonfly3085 Of course! thanks for the compliment!
inisfree2b
🤣 yes!
gurlscloset
For reals!
kbomshell
OMG lmao😂 love🌷💙💜 the look on the cats face 💯🥳💖🤘
ladyarachnid
@kbomshell You should see the video on Instagram, it's under @louisandmonae. He's sticking his face in a bush or something and his mom is like "Are you ok Louis?" and he swings around with that look on his face. I love Grumpy King Louis, he's the next Grumpy Cat for sure!
kbomshell
@ladyarachnid thats to funny 😂 ill b for sure looking that up 💙💯I love grumpy cat n this one definitely fits right in 😁👌 lol we need this especially times like these so I absolutely appreciate it hun💜☺️ ty have a wonderful day☀️ 🌄
soulbutter
This keeps happening to me and I just laugh 😂
ladyarachnid
@soulbutter Yeah, I try not to let it tick me off but especially when someone repeatedly sends me $100 offers on the Scorpion dress it just makes me a bit peeved. :)
soulbutter
@ladyarachnid 😂😂😂
witchgeekdruid
lol, I love these posts. 😆 and your closet rocks!
ladyarachnid
@witchgeekdruid Thanks! I've been following you for a bit and I love how you tag your posts into different categories!
witchgeekdruid
@ladyarachnid aw thanks!
question- is the one item bundle thing really annoying? I've done that when I've found something I really like and hope to find more from the same closet, but then don't... should I go back and remove the one item? I wish bundles could be deleted.
ladyarachnid
@witchgeekdruid It's not annoying but I do wonder what people are thinking, like do they want the automatic closet discount for just one item? Without the buyer communicating what they want (like sending an offer) it's kind of puzzling, that's all.
witchgeekdruid
@ladyarachnid oh gotcha! they're prob like me, hoping to find several things they want. :)
chaoscandy
my response? BLOCK. it's not so frustrating that way and you know they can never return.
ladyarachnid
@chaoscandy Lately I've been turning to this option more and more...used to try and explain to people why their offers were not acceptable but the block option saves time both in the long and short run. I think some people are just trying to yank somebody's chain or they're oblivious, either situation isn't likely to end in a great sale. 🤣
ladyarachnid
@moongoddess7 I didn't want to post anymore on that person's listing in case she decides to retaliate and report all my listings as fakes (which has happened to me before, incidentally). The number of scam accounts out there is unreal, mostly high end bags for under $500, and the scam is they send out the Posh label on something else like a piece of junk mail so it shows your "bag" was delivered and in 3 days they get the money. Just sickening.
moongoddess7
@ladyarachnid How are they getting away with that? The person receiving the item can open a case??
ladyarachnid
@moongoddess7 I talked to one woman who said she received what was supposedly a "thank you" gift from Amazon, just a plain face mask, but it was from the scammer. He/she had cut any identifying information off the Posh label but it showed that her item had been delivered. Unfortunately she didn't notice until after the 3 day window had passed and after that Posh won't accept a case. She actually had to go through the Federal Trade Commission, and Amazon got involved because...
ladyarachnid
@moongoddess7 the scammer had used their name to conceal the fraud. Just amazing the lengths people will go to in order to steal money! I have actually been taking a little time each evening to report some of them, it's pretty easy to spot. If you see a Gucci bag for $268 and it's the only item the person has for sale and there are copies of the same photo all over PM it's a scammer.
fashionradical
I’ve been getting a lot of this happening lately. Sometimes I just want to decline, but I stand firm on my lowest. It’s just so frustrating. I find usually these people are new buyers and not selling on Posh.
ladyarachnid
@fashionradical It is frustrating, and it used to bother me a lot more than it does now, I guess just because I've been active for a few years. You're right, it does tend to be people who aren't active sellers and it doesn't occur to them how much we invested in each item up front.
fashionradical
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arloerica
LOVE THIS
ladyarachnid
@arloerica thanks, It doesn't happen as often as it used to but every once in a while... 😂
ladyarachnid
@k_gammon Thanks, dear. I think you get trolls on Posh the same way they show up on Facebook or Twitter, some people just get upset over weird things. I appreciate the support! 🤗
vannuys77
😂😂😂
ladyarachnid
@vannuys77 I know...the other day someone offered me $80 for a dress that I have listed for $145. No, nope, goodbye, declined.
vannuys77
@ladyarachnid I love this post! I get those every other day.
ladyarachnid
@vannuys77 Feel free to steal! I don't think it keeps people from lowballing me but it cracks people up, especially sellers who feel my pain. 😁
missink3383
I recently got a favorite: after offering $10-$15 off, an already reduced item Reply: "I only Accept offers w/ free, Shipping"....WOWZERS😆). All of the time, energy, loving care packaging, personal notes & extras, & I cant even get some to Accept pkg or give Rating~ugh... Thank u for Great post~ Im staying w/ALL💕🍀Good luck🍀$peedy $ales to you 😃
Serah*Lyn @Missink's
ladyarachnid
@missink3383 Thanks a bunch for all the shares, and WOW I can't believe someone would say that to you. I can understand someone requesting free shipping but to insist on it...hmmm. I would probably be like, ok, you do you and let her roll off into someone else's closet! 😂 But I've said it before and will end up saying it again, Posh is a quasi-social platform and you're going to get Froot Loops here just like you do on Facebook. Wishing you lots of sales and lots of respectful customers!
missink3383
@ladyarachnid Thank you doll 💕
'..In a world FULL of Fruit Loops,
be a Cheerio...' 😆 (seen online)
jillatrabbit
Love ❤️ you!
lasvegasnv
@ladyarachnid Love this and the comments! We've sure all been there!
ladyarachnid
@lasvegasnv thanks so much! I try not to let it get to me but some people just don't understand that things cost money and this isn't a garage sale or Goodwill. Thanks for the shares, also! 🤗
lasvegasnv
@ladyarachnid I agree! I block them. I've also had a couple stalkers, they would offer 30% of my asking price then do it again as soon as their offer expired. Crazy stuff! Beautiful closet!⚘️⚘️⚘️
ladyarachnid
@lasvegasnv Occasionally I've had lowballs that turned into a sale, but that's normally the exception, maybe noobs who just don't understand that it's rude to offer 50% of what you're asking. But active sellers who do it...nah. Block and forget about it. I love price policers, check out my Mary J. Blige listing that I created in honor of the "but it was on clearance for $$$ on the website" people. Don't care, all I know is how much I have to sell something for to avoid a loss.
drebinder
@ladyarachnid
Bahahaha 😂 ♥️😘
justjenrocks
@ladyarachnid when you send a one item bundle you can discount the item without having to give a shipping discount.
ladyarachnid
@justjenrocks Yes, that's a great idea! Do you find that offering just the discount without the shipping discount results in a lot of sales? If so I may have to start trying that!
justjenrocks
@ladyarachnid I feel better about it on both ends unless it's something I've already priced as low as I want to go. It makes a big difference with weighted items. It allows the buyer and seller just coming to a better firm price without cutting more of your earnings. If it's something someone really wants $7 isn't bad on shipping.
ladyarachnid
@justjenrocks about 99% of my sales are generated after offering discounts including discounted shipping and I've traditionally priced my items to allow for that. Keeping my prices just a little higher helps me avoid dealing with lowballs, too, I think. But I appreciate the different perspective, I can't read my buyers' minds and may try the 1 item bundle approach and see how it goes! Thanks for the input! 🖤
justjenrocks
@ladyarachnid you're very welcome!!
prezli83
Can I borrow this? You're simply wicked, darlin. I love it. This is why I haven't posted my amazing wardrobe from the late 90s/early 00s ... I would list half of it at $80 and up. Hmmm.. at what point does it become couture? Maybe I shall post as Not For Sale.
ladyarachnid
@prezli83 Borrow, copy, steal away! I wish I had hung onto my junior high stuff from the early 80's, especially my Duran Duran white jazz shoes and multiple colors of leg warmers. :) I'd be rich! Now I just sell stuff to relive my glory days wearing Lip Service and getting my eardrums pummeled by the Sisters of Mercy.
prezli83
@ladyarachnid I wish I had your positive attitude!! Instead I have photos of me at 16-24 looking like a rockstar goddess & the same clothes I was wearing in those photos in my closet that I dare never to wear again… 20+ yrs is a long long time. Wish I had let things go, tossed them.
prezli83
@ladyarachnid I didn’t even throw out my first belly button ring I got at 14 with a fake ID ditching class; found it yesterday…lol nostalgia is the worst
ladyarachnid
@prezli83 I think it was less of a good attitude and more a mother that had OCD and would throw anything out that wasn't gathering dust and/or nailed down. 😂 I do have a few things left from my stint as a DJ in a goth club here in town, actually met my hubby there and he taught me how to spin. Now those were some fun times! I think there's a photo in my Meet the Posher listing of me wearing some leopard velvet getup from H&R London...
prezli83
@ladyarachnid that’s awesome!!! Sounds like soo much fun! Reminds me a lot of myself too. I stand by what I said though, you have such a positive attitude you’re beaming! Nothing but good vibes! 🤍💫 Wish I had stuff in my closet for your closet but if you do come across anything feel free to offer me much less. I probably list most to high
prezli83
For Poshmark at least… 🤣
soulbutter
I've been getting a lot of these lately. It's insulting so if they Decline my Counter Offer that is at a very discounted and reasonable price, I block them 🤣😊
ladyarachnid
@soulbutter Yeah, I know things are rough on everyone right now but I actually had one girl tell me she was only making a "living wage" and that's why she wanted a bundle of $200 worth of stuff for $50. I wanted to tell her that subsidies don't apply to clubwear but I just blocked her and moved on. Hope you're doing well, friend! 🖤🖤🖤🖤
wildtimefashion
I forgot about this listing! 😂 love it and I had it for years! So true🖤
ladyarachnid
@wildtimefashion Hey doll! Yes some people still need a humorous reminder that lowballs aren’t cool. 😀
rebelliousgirly
Omg thanks for posting this- I have gotten low ball offers and it is annoying.
rebelliousgirly
I love your closet
ladyarachnid
@lenanh Thanks, doll! I appreciate all the shares!
rebelliousgirly
@ladyarachnid question do you do bundles?
ladyarachnid
@lenanh I do, I offer an automatic 15% all bundle items. Sometimes I can do more, it just depends on how far I have the items marked down already. Let me know if you want to make one and need help!
rebelliousgirly
@ladyarachnid ok - I’m gonna create a bundle !!
voodoo_looli
@ladyarachnid I actually found one of my listings on someone else's profile. It was just a bra. You can literally see my hand in the photos. So my bra was in my closet and their closet simultaneously. I'm like, what are you gonna send if someone buys my bra from YOU?! I sent them a message. And flagged them when they didn't respond.
ladyarachnid
@voodoo_looli A lot of the scam accounts steal photos from other sellers, I think just to make their closets seem legit, like they don't just have 50 Louis Vuitton bags for sale under $300 apiece (and they steal the photos for those too since they have no bags to sell). What's the user's name?
voodoo_looli
@ladyarachnid Sister's of Mercy ❤️
voodoo_looli
@ladyarachnid They and their profile disappeared so I'm not sure. I remember the profile name being a little sus though.
voodoo_looli
@ladyarachnid LoL,I just low-balled myself and sent out some seriously discounted offers to a bunch of likers. Not one response. Nadda.
Then on the other end of the spectrum I have people that like 8 items in my closet but never respond to my messages.🤔
And what's up with people who repeatedly like one of your items but also don't respond to my offers or even counter offer.
Like, what am I supposed to do?
WHAT DO THEY WANT?! 😂😂
ladyarachnid
@voodoo_looli I hate to say this but that is completely normal. A lot of people are just window shopping, they like stuff from your closet but don't have any intention of buying. I have one woman who seriously has liked 180 items from my closet over the years and has only bought from me once. The way to get rid of window shoppers is to relist frequently, that way you get new eyes on your items. I can't tell you the number of times I've gotten a sale after relisting.
ladyarachnid
@voodoo_looli If you have an item that's been in your closet for 60 days or more all you have to do is make a copy of it, take the word "COPY" out of the title, put the price back up where you want it, and then list it and it will show up as a brand new listing. Easy peasy (don't forget to delete the old listing after that).
voodoo_looli
@ladyarachnid I'm on it! Thank you 🙏 I'm guessing it just dumps the original posting's likes, correct?
ladyarachnid
@voodoo_looli Yep, occasionally the same people will come back and like the item again especially if it's an alt brand, but who cares if they're not buying? :) Just make sure you take the word copy out of your listing, there are some Poshmark vigilantes out there who like to report anything with the word "copy" in it as a fake. 🙄 Let me know if you need help with the process. I use a desktop most of the time but it's just as easy to do on your phone app.
voodoo_looli
@ladyarachnid
You're a cool chick! Thanks for the tips. Weeks of no sales are making it not worth the effort anymore.🤞
ladyarachnid
@voodoo_looli Believe me, I get it, I have to bust my @ss twice as hard to get the same number of sales these days, I blame the economy and those Live Shows where people are selling crap for $5 a piece. My closet is not a yard sale now nor will it ever be. Good luck, if you ever have questions about anything else just tag me and I'll try to help!
feylannn
people are wild 🫠
ladyarachnid
@feylannn You are not kidding!
thedarningyarn
Merry Christalyzed Pagan Holiday to you! 💗💗💗 i Love christmas, in all its forms... every single one! it is such a magical time of year, in every way 🙏🏽 im so grateful for you ♡ladyarachnid♡ thank you for making Earth a better place to experience (tolerate?)(embrace) being Human... bless you in every way
...have you named your ☆ phone yet??? ☎️
ladyarachnid
@thedarningyarn Merry Everything Christmas Yule Saturnalia Hanukkah etc to you also! I think the ancients knew that people needed holidays around the shortest days of the year to keep their spirits up! I have not named the phone, but I have picked up the receiver more than a few times to see if I could hear anything on the other end...nothing yet, but I'm going to keep trying. Thanks to you also for being a positive ray of light, keep doing what you do and keep on shining! 🕯️🕯️🕯️
ladyarachnid
@samsickles Please read my closet rules. Lowballs are rude and a waste of time.
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