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🧿12/19: shoulders now pop & crack lateral to where surgeon removed my bones 😔 🧿 7/3: UCLA noted prior surgeon removed too much bone in 5th operation; shoulder blade has caved in (don’t care how it looks - it hurts like HELL & am limited in range of motion since July 2023); 🧿9/24 UCLA: prior surgeon removed INCORRECT bones AND misdiagnosed. UCLA has no idea how to help. Prior surgeon also wrote INCORRECT surgery. 🧿17 years ignored & will never fully recover; irreversible & permanent damage on both sides. The surgical error I am left w/now has worsened my pain tenfold & my insurance is making me jump through hoops. Began this 6-operations-and-counting journey in 2020 from injuries sustained in 2007. My pain is unmanageable & left me disabled as of 2017. Poshmark is my FT job & my only means of income. I was robbed of my life on June 7, 2007. In a crowded place, where someone could have helped, the bystander effect was their choice. If you see something, SAY or DO something 🙏🏻 If you are fighting for your health, you are going to be your own best advocate. Had I been treated, not dismissed or misdiagnosed, etc., since 2007, I wouldn’t have had the irreversible damage, worsening pain, arthritis & osteoarthritis, & complications I have today. 🌸 I share my journey b/c MANY go unheard by their medical providers & suffer in silence. Medical gaslighting is more prevalent than medical CARE. Don’t let ANYONE make you think your concerns are invalid

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shayekisitu Hello there. I hope your surgery on your shoulder went well this time around. Hang in there. You can do this!👌🏻🤲🏻Praying for Allah (G_d) to give you Shifa (means “Healing”) in Arabic. ☺️🌻🌸🌼

Mar 20Reply

cheekychic77 @shayekisitu oh thank you sweetie! It went well, just in a lot of pain but that’s a given. Only two more surgeries to go lol 😅 can’t wait to put all this behind me (been dealing with these injuries since 2007 sadly).

Mar 20Reply

shayekisitu @cheekychic77 God Bless you. My aunt had rotator cuff surgery years ago and she told me how the pain was crazy bad. I cannot imagine. Please take care of yourself and rest......let the healing begin! 👌🏻☺️🤲🏻🌼🌻🌸

Mar 20Reply

cheekychic77 @shayekisitu thank you Habibti 💖 you’re too kind

Mar 20Reply

mkaay Hey Lafie🙋🏻‍♀️As Bon Jovi would say, 'you're halfway there'!! Take it easy and stay safe🤘🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

Mar 20Reply

cheekychic77 @mkaay thanks M! 💖

Mar 20Reply

helenamoeee Hi,Gorgeous, wish you the best, easy days, less pain, fast recovery, great physiotherapy, be strong, believe you can handle anything -You really can, Girl-, all my prayers and hugs are with you! With lots of love, Bea and my (10!) fur babies 🤗😽🥰💖

Mar 20Reply

cheekychic77 @adiemus515 awww thank you!! 🥰

Mar 20Reply

mycustomcloset wishing you much success and a speedy recovery 🙏

Mar 21Reply

cheekychic77 @mycustomcloset thank you so much, Robyn! 💖

Mar 21Reply

aaliyahrose2021 Wishing you a speedy recovery.

Mar 22Reply

cheekychic77 @rosamoreno739 thank you 💖

Mar 22Reply

janessamj hey girlie 🙂I hope you’re feeling well after your surgery. You we’re definitely in my thoughts all day on March 16th. I even told my husband about you. I hope you have a speedy recovery. I’m so happy you have a support system that is helping you with your orders & shipments. That’s wonderful, hope you have a good day 🌻

Mar 23Reply

cheekychic77 @janessamj Awww that was so sweet! Thank you, Janessa! This surgery definitely took the cake and knocked me straight on my bum lol so I’m very grateful for my support system 🥰 Tbis meant a lot to me, thank you 💖

Mar 23Reply

catherinekieran Good Luck with your shoulder surgery. Please, take your time to recover. My mother had shoulder surgery and she has was called shoulder freeze because she rushed back to work and didn’t do her full therapy. I am sure people can understand. Take care. My name is Cathy , I just liked your listing. Want to participate in some of your share games 🥰

Mar 30Reply

cheekychic77 @catherinekieran ah yes, frozen shoulder. My mother got that too on her rotator cuff surgery. The PT was just horrible. Thank you so much for your concern. 😊💖

Mar 30Reply

luric @cheekychic77 Wishing you a speedy recovery 🙏🏽💫♥️

Apr 02Reply

cheekychic77 @luric thank you so much! 🥰

Apr 02Reply

cheekychic77 @saszy2004 that is so sweet of you. Thank you 🥰

Apr 11Reply

tinamichelle72 Wishing you a speedy recovery! I just had knee surgery so I feel your pain. Get well soon ❤️

Apr 12Reply

cheekychic77 @tinamichelle72 thank you Tina! I wish you a speedy recovery as well! Pain sucks 😩

Apr 12Reply

tinamichelle72 @cheekychic77 yes it does! Thank you!!

Apr 12Reply

seansanburn 🌹Get well!!! Heal Up!!! Wishing you speedy recovery!!!💕❤️💕❤️💕🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹Seanie

Apr 12Reply

cheekychic77 @seansanburn thank you doll!

Apr 12Reply

shayekisitu You Got This......👌🏻☺️👏🏻👍🏻🥳

Apr 12Reply

cheekychic77 @shayekisitu thank you 🥰

Apr 12Reply

avocado_jello You got this girl!!! 💪💪

Apr 14Reply

cheekychic77 @avocado_jello thanks girl 🥑🥑🥑🥑💖

Apr 14Reply

sherbabe3 Wishing you a speedy recovery & encouragement in your PT. I have been in PT for 2 years now for ongoing issues & surgeries as well. Keep your spirits up & continue to do your PT. IT WORKS! Wishing you much health & success in your surgeries!

Apr 15Reply

cheekychic77 @sherbabe3 thank you so much! It only works if you have the right diagnosis and I unfortunately battled with this since 2007, saw drs that brushes me off or misdiagnosed me, did PT for 6 yrs on and off. Fought for this shoulder specialist and finally began surgeries. Finally have hope. I can’t imagine what you’re going through but I do hope you’re not in pain & are getting the help you need 💖

Apr 15Reply

sherbabe3 @cheekychic77 So true the correct diagnosis is needed. Glad that you fought for yourself & getting the surgeries you need. I am working with great doctors. Props to you for being able to do this while in recovery. Wishing you a speedy recovery. Please let me know if you need anything.

Apr 15Reply

cheekychic77 @sherbabe3 oh I’m so glad to hear you have great docs and are in good care 🥰 you are too sweet!! Sure, I’m going to need about more than half your closet 🤣 (I cope w/humor). No no that was truly sweet. If there’s anything I can do, please let me know too. Us pain warriors gotta stick together 💪🏼👯‍♀️

Apr 15Reply

avocado_jello 💓🙏💓

Apr 21Reply

cheekychic77 @avocado_jello 🥑 (why is there no emoji for jello 🤔). Lol 😘

Apr 21Reply

avocado_jello @cheekychic77 idk 😐 but there NEEDS to be one! 😜💚🥑 nighty night 💋

Apr 21Reply

falco2 Wow long recovery..hang it there 🌹one of my sisters going to have shoulder surgery in 2 weeks ..I don’t think she knows what’s coming🤔

Jun 05Reply

cheekychic77 @falco2 yeah but it’s been a 14 year injury left untreated or misdiagnosed so I have a lot of work to do on my end to get my left arm back

Jun 05Reply

delmarvadesigns Feel better! Shoulder surgery is brutal. I tore my rotator cuff about 15 hrs ago. It’s a good 6 month recovery.

Jul 06Reply

cheekychic77 @mtcloset88 thank you Melissa! I was assaulted 14 years ago & instead of looking at my injuries for what they are (injuries), doctors tried to blame my immune system or my favorite “it’s all in your head.” I had my first of 2 on my left October 20th, and that was just cleaning & taking out bone spurs. This last one (March 16) has had me on my ass lol

Jul 06Reply

cheekychic77 @mtcloset88 but my mom had rotator cuff surgery and I’ve heard horror stories. She actually ended up with frozen shoulder for years. It was bad. Mine are conditions that were left mistreated or untreated so it became chronic with arthritis galore 😒

Jul 06Reply

delmarvadesigns My sister in laws shoulder surgery was a nightmare. Mine went great but anything with a joint is a long recovery. I need 2 knees and I’m holding off as long as possible.

Jul 06Reply

delmarvadesigns Feel better. I’ve found pool therapy to be very helpful.

Jul 06Reply

cheekychic77 @mtcloset88 my AC joints in my shoulders are both torn - that and my clavicle were my last the surgery’s focus. Shaved off part of my clavicle but no suturing the joint like I imagined. I’m just happy I have my range of motion back and can lift my arm above my head. Still have to do my right shoulder. In the middle of a pandemic, it’s nuts getting operations done. (Sigh) I hope you’re fully recovered

Jul 06Reply

cheekychic77 @mtcloset88 I tried aquatic therapy once and I cried for a week straight. So, my shoulder blades grind against my rib cage. I have separated clavicles & torn ACs…Any PT I did prior to my surgery made my arthritis worse - bone on bone caused a hoopla of extra bones. The main big one on my left was a spiked little 💩 too

Jul 06Reply

delmarvadesigns Yikes- my knees are bone on bone so I get it. My shoulder started with a bone spur and then it got impinged. I did it to myself. Carrying heavy book bag on same shoulder for years.

Jul 06Reply

delmarvadesigns My shoulder is great now. It’s just a long recovery anytime joints are involved.

Jul 06Reply

cheekychic77 @mtcloset88 ouch ouch I felt that when you wrote impinged lol (okay not funny but wow). If your knee condition could worsen, I’d do what I could now. My arthritis damage is done, can’t reverse that, but I can stop it from worsening. Catch 22 kind of deal

Jul 06Reply

delmarvadesigns Thanks for all the shares. The worst with my shoulder is that it was “going” and I actually ripped it pulling on a pair of Spanx!! Funny now but not when it happened:

Jul 06Reply

cheekychic77 @mtcloset88 lmao omg 🤣 I have a funny-not-so-funny moment with a broken rib so I get it. I was hating life & cursing like a sailor when it happened and for the reason, but it makes for a good inside joke between friends now

Jul 06Reply

athingortwo 💜💜💜

Jul 11Reply

cathyfrangos just wanted to wish you luck on your next surgery. do you have a date for that left shoulder? you've had so many surgeries. I've had both shoulders replaced in the last year.

Jul 16Reply

cheekychic77 @cathyfrangos not yet. Still waiting on insurance approval. I knew going into this it would be 4 (or 5 worst case scenario) surgeries. After 14 years of POS doctors trying to diagnose my immune system instead of looking at my injuries for what they are (injuries), I’m left with a slew of arthritis, bone Spurs, inflammation etc.

Jul 16Reply

cheekychic77 @cathyfrangos and I’ve finished my left surgeries. He is going to inject a corticosteroid before I go back to physical therapy - my pain w/strength training was too much for me. So I hope that works (even though I begged him to just go back in and clean out the lower shoulder blade region, twice lol).

Jul 16Reply

cathyfrangos @cheekychic77 you poor thing I know how hard that PT is after surgery. I hope the steroid injection work for you. they never did much for me except hurt when they injected them in LOL

Jul 16Reply

shayekisitu Yay. Hopefully you will be all healed and completely finished with all your surgeries after this 3rd surgery. I’m sending prayers for a quick recovery ❤️‍🩹 for you. You got this girl. Bug bear 🐻 hugs. And remember to take it easy on yourself . Your body has been through a lot and needs plenty of recovery time. 👌🏻🤲🏻🙏☺️

Jul 22Reply

cheekychic77 @shayekisitu awww thank you beautiful!! How was your trip???

Jul 22Reply

mkaay What a loooooong road!💗💗💗💗

Jul 30Reply

cheekychic77 @mkaay tell me about it. 14 years of pain is life altering I hope when these surgeries & PT are done I get my life back 😩

Jul 30Reply

mkaay We must be on the saaaaame wavelength 😁, I was just coming up on sharing you and saw you in my feed😄, how are you doing?

Jul 31Reply

cheekychic77 @mkaay lol what’s even creepier is that I was just thinking about you and how we were discussing what hospital I’d have my surgeries at! Lol! I’m okay…today’s a “flare up” day 😩 so I’ve barely been able to move. How are you my dear?

Jul 31Reply

mkaay @cheekychic77 Good... I'm actually back east in Delaware visiting my best friend for a few days, tomorrow's my birthday and we're going out and celebrate🍾🎉 😆

Jul 31Reply

cheekychic77 @mkaay why did I write “creepier?” I meant crazier! Lol 🤦🏻‍♀️ and omg happy early birthday!! Turning 21 is a huge milestone 😉 take a shot for me ❤️

Jul 31Reply

mkaay @cheekychic77 lol, spell check😄, I plan to party hardy!💗

Jul 31Reply

bohobutterfly77 Hey girl friend!! I love the dress❤️ I hit five stars and hit send before I left a love note 😔. It is perfect. thank you for the nice note and the scarf. Copper is getting tested for Cushing's today. TTYS 🦋

Aug 05Reply

przedgirl Wishing you all the best with your surgeries.. I’ll be praying for you girl! You deserve a pain free, happy life.❤️🙏😇

Aug 10Reply

cheekychic77 @przedgirl thank you gf! That means a lot to me 💖

Aug 10Reply

cheekychic77 @saszy2004 thank you! Unfortunately no, I have to do my left shoulder blade again. We did a steroid shot 2 weeks ago, but no relief. Also have to see how this one turns out too. Fourteen years of ignoring my pleas for help just worsened my conditions.

Aug 14Reply

cheekychic77 @saszy2004 thanks love. I know you know what it feels like to live with something that limits you to what you can do. My heart goes out to you as well. I’m very grateful you can still leave awesome book reviews though. Lol. ❤️ (my TBR list grew x 100+ 🤦🏻‍♀️)

Aug 14Reply

cheekychic77 @saszy2004 I haven’t tried audiobooks yet. Not sure if I’ll like it since my attention span is non existent lol. I’m almost done with Sun Down Motel…not sure what the hype was about. I’m not a fan of paranormal/ghosts. And I have 4 ARCs to finish I’m screwed lol. I hope you began Verity!

Aug 14Reply

cheekychic77 @saszy2004 okay I just finished The Sun Down. Who the eff was the little boy that died and why was he still around? Why did he “not feel good?” I have a headache lol

Aug 15Reply

falco2 Three is a charm Wishing you a successful surgery and a speedy recovery❤️🦋❤️🦋❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻

Aug 15Reply

cheekychic77 @falco2 we’re looking at four now 😅🤦🏻‍♀️ my life is just dandy 😒 give Falco a big hug for me!!

Aug 15Reply

falco2 @cheekychic77 Omg ..Hope you recovery fast ..Sis is going through recovery now and I do not wish this surgery on my worst Enemy.will give Falco .Have a good nite and thx for all the❤️🌹🌹

Aug 15Reply

cheekychic77 @falco2 Marianne had shoulder surgery?

Aug 15Reply

falco2 @cheekychic77 Morning and Beverly..WE 😁🌹

Aug 15Reply

cheekychic77 @falco2 we?? I’m confused lol you did too?

Aug 15Reply

larkz_ So happy for you💗

Aug 16Reply

cheekychic77 @lalafro8 thank you, Laura 💖

Aug 16Reply

larkz_ @cheekychic77 absolutely Maryam! You totally deserve to be free of chronic pain. It’s a nightmare that no one should have to live with & I truly hope you get your life back & more😊

Aug 16Reply

cheekychic77 @lalafro8 you and me both doll 😩 doesn’t look like it’ll be any time soon. I have faith with my right shoulder but my left has always been the worst. I wish I could help you. If you have an Instagram please send me a message cheekychic77.chic77

Aug 16Reply

cheekychic77 @lalafro8 whoops just cheeky.chic77

Aug 16Reply

larkz_ @cheekychic77 I do & I will😉

Aug 16Reply

przedgirl Hi friend! I’ve been thinking about you! Hope you’re surgery went well and your recovering. Sending you hugs and well wishes.😇💗

Aug 22Reply

falco2 Feel better soon❤️😉🌸

Aug 22Reply

proudofjoes Glad to hear your surgery is behind you. I’ve had two shoulder surgeries- hopefully that’s it! Heal well.

Aug 27Reply

cheekychic77 @proudofjoes unfortunately they’re not. We have to go back into my left and do more debris work. But I gotta start the physical therapy for my right first 😩

Aug 27Reply

proudofjoes @cheekychic77 Ouch! The PT was some of the toughest I’ve ever been through. Right now I’m doing aquatic therapy for my spine. Trying to avoid another spinal surgery. My very best wishes to you. 🙏

Aug 27Reply

cheekychic77 @proudofjoes I hated aquaticic therapy! That resistance killed my shoulders. I went once and never again. I hope you get some relief 🙏🏻

Aug 28Reply

proudofjoes @cheekychic77 I’m ready that’s for sure. You as well!

Aug 28Reply

cheekychic77 @przedgirl omg I’m just now seeing this! I’m so sorry gf! Thank you for keeping me in your thoughts! I’m much better today/not so out of it lol how are you? 🤗💖

Aug 29Reply

przedgirl @cheekychic77 No worries.. I’m just happy to hear your doing okay! 💗. Just wanted you to know I’m rooting for ya girl! I’m doing okay, thank you for asking. Big hugs to you!❤️😇

Aug 30Reply

catherinekieran Hi I hope that your feeling better after your surgery. If your feeling up To it please drop me a line to let me know how you are doing I am going to have both of mine done at the same time. Feel better ❤️‍🩹

Oct 01Reply

catherinekieran Hi ! I just read your messages!!🌹

Oct 01Reply

cheekychic77 @catherinekieran how are you having both done at the same time? Any specialist I asked said there’s no way - please get a second opinion! ❤️

Oct 01Reply

catherinekieran @cheekychic77 I am going to Boston for 2nd opinion. Your not the first Person that told me to do so. Thank you for caring !!

Oct 02Reply

cheekychic77 @catherinekieran phew! So glad you are! You won’t be able to do anything without at least one arm. 💖

Oct 02Reply

saucyandsassy @cheekychic77 Ughh! So important to get a trusted specialist. Screw their bedside manner...I just want them to be excellent surgeons and follow-up advice-givers! I was diagnosed one year ago with a rotator cuff tear and have since torn the other one, too. I am holding off on the operation bc of all the horror stories I've heard...it's made me afraid. The pain is mostly at night, in bed, but gets better when I sit up for awhile. Wierd, I know. You people are BRAVE. xo

Oct 04Reply

cheekychic77 @saucyandsassy rotator cuff tears are very different from my injuries/surgeries. Those stories are indeed horrifying. My advice though? You are going to be your own best advocate. No ones going to fight harder than you. With any rude physician I’ve encountered, I find their license # and make sure the AMA knows (as well as Yelp lol). If I were you I’d get surgery before the tear worsens (that’s what happened to my mom & they no longer could perform her surgery with arthroscopy).

Oct 05Reply

saucyandsassy @cheekychic77 Thanks for your response and advice. I wish the very best in your advocacy and your healing! xoxoxoxoxo

Oct 05Reply

cheekychic77 @saucyandsassy thank you! If there is anything I can do please let me know ❤️ I know all too well what it feels like to not have others understand

Oct 05Reply

crp60 Hope you are feeling better soon

Nov 12Reply

cheekychic77 @crp60 thank you Colleen! It's been a battle and one i have to overcome to have a fourth surgery. ♥️

Nov 13Reply

crp60 @cheekychic77 🙏🏽♥️ 🙏🏽♥️ 🙏🏽♥️

Nov 13Reply

lola723 Merry Christmas!! Thank you for being such a great share partner this year. I'm praying for a great 2022 for you and your family.

Dec 25Reply

cheekychic77 @lola723 awww thank you Lola. Merry Christmas 💖

Dec 25Reply

sgluxe I hope you are feeling better: sending prayers and positivity to you and your loved one’s way. 🙏🏻☀️❤️

Jan 06Reply

cheekychic77 @sgluxe thank you that is very kind of you 💝

Jan 06Reply

andine So sorry you had to go through so much trouble. Truly hopeful you’re on your way to finding the solution that works best for you!! ❤️

Feb 20Reply

meshellivana My heart broke for you when I happened across your message. I hope you are getting treatment and finding a way to deal with the pain. My prayers are with you right this moment. I am happy to be sharing some of you items. Good luck with sales and enjoy the people you meet along the way. I hope you will be okay.

Feb 21Reply

jenlexo Aww! I just saw your post in our Poshmark news feed. We wish you a speedy recovery and get well soon! Hope you feel better fast! 🙏 🥰

Feb 25Reply

cheekychic77 @jenlexo idk why I am just seeing this I’m sorry! And thank you. That means a lot to me ❤️

Feb 26Reply

cheekychic77 @meshellivana I’m so sorry I am just seeing this! Thank you so much - genuine kindness is a wonderful feat and hard to come by these days. I’m trying to “hang in there” until I see another general orthopedic surgeon in March but I’m not getting my hopes up. Nor am I willing to carry an antenna around to control implanted microfibers throughout my body. Forget 5G if you need cell service I’d be 25G lol (gotta cope w/humor).

Feb 26Reply

jenlexo @cheekychic77 You’re welcome! 💕 Speedy recovery! 💐

Feb 26Reply

meshellivana @cheekychic77 Yes, you do, which is a testimony to your resilience. Take courage! Something good is going to happen to you. I cannot tell you what that is, but expect goodness to come in your life. God bless you.

Feb 26Reply

cheekychic77 @meshellivana you’re too kind. God bless hugs 🤗

Feb 26Reply

reedstreasures Bless your heart GF. I know how it is to deal with consistent pain all the time Even though our stories are different I get it When alot of people don't. May God bless you and the Drs working on you. you will be in my prayers. my Poshmark friend. never hesitation to reach out if you need to. I know how that feels to. Have a great day and hopefully everything will go well God Bless

Jun 24Reply

cheekychic77 @reedstreasures oh that was such a sweet comment thank you so much for reaching out and being so kind. You made my day 💖 I’m so sorry you deal with pain too. It’s definitely life altering. Feel free to reach out to me as well. God bless 🥰

Jun 24Reply

reedstreasures Oh honey no problem. same here if you ever need a pm hug , or laugh hit me up in a bundle and we can chat. God bless your heart. my pm friend

Jun 24Reply

a6eclecticgigi Hi. I hope your surgery goes well. I'll be thinking of you and praying for you on 9/20. Wishing you no more shoulder issues. 🙏🌞

Sep 15Reply

cheekychic77 @a8smith89 that’s very kind and thoughtful of you. Thank you 💖

Sep 15Reply

rhmeshel good luck for a speedy recovery!

Sep 16Reply

poshstreetluxe @cheekychic77 I hope you’re recovered/recovering as well as you can be, and feeling better. I know what it’s like. 😢🥺 I’ll be thinking of you as you continue on this long, painful journey. I wish I could provide the perfect words of comfort and also wave a magic wand for you. ❤️‍🩹 Best wishes from the bottom of my heart!

Oct 06Reply

cheekychic77 @poshstreetluxe that was very sweet and thoughtful. Thank you ❤️

Oct 06Reply

poshstreetluxe @cheekychic77 💜 Slide 3 on your listing is my life, and inspired me to leave a comment. Take care of yourself, and know there is another person on Posh that “gets it”. 💜

Oct 06Reply

ronrobles122 in Jesus name I pray for you to get well soon be strong

Oct 09Reply

toughluck00 Prayers and best wishes for fully recovery and good health.🙏🤗💕

Dec 02Reply

kikiroxymama I hope your shoulder surgery went well on Wednesday! Wishing for you that this is your last and you are now healed. I understand your pain and frustration. I’ve had six neck and low back surgeries, with more down the road. You are so correct about needing to be one’s own best advocate due to medical gaslighting. Beyond frustrating. Blessing to you and may you be healed. Best, Julia

Jul 28Reply

cheekychic77 @kikiroxymama thank you for your kind words, Julia. Unfortunately this is an indefinite thing for me. I still need to do my right as well, but I have nothing left between my left shoulder blade and rib cage causing my tissues to ossify (harden into bone). I’m so sorry for the pain and unrest you are going through. It’s such a difficult battle that SHOULDNT even be a “battle.”

Jul 28Reply

kikiroxymama @cheekychic77 I’m sorry to hear that and appreciate your battle. How did your surgery go? Are you recovering ok? I’m hoping you are getting care in a major metropolitan area so that you are getting cutting edge care. Changing to a top surgical center has helped me tremendously. Things aren’t perfect, but the care is much better. And I full heartedly trust my surgeon. Now if I could just get a better pain doc…

Jul 28Reply

catherinekieran Praying for you my friend. God is good.

Aug 11Reply

queso4 Best of luck! May you have peaceful recuperating period post-surgery.

Oct 12Reply

cheekychic77 @queso4 oh thank you so much!

Oct 12Reply

karbear0778 wishing you a speedy recovery 🙏

Jan 17Reply

cheekychic77 @karbear0778 thank you, Kara 💖

Jan 17Reply

csjohnson0916 Praying for you. I am so very sorry no one was willing to help you in your hour of need. I so agree with if you see something say something. !! I'm so sorry for everything you have been through please believe me when I tell you that God is with you and hasn't given up on you. Much love and peace to you

Mar 05Reply

cheekychic77 @csjohnson0916 oh Cheyenne, you have no idea how much I needed this! Today marks 10 years that I lost my father so I’m hurting a little more today. Your message means the world to me. Thank you. Truly.

Mar 05Reply

csjohnson0916 @cheekychic77 Absolutely my beautiful sister in Christ. Sending you love and prayers and special prayers for peace tonight as you are missing your father. We actually have a LOT in common. I have spent the last 7 years bedridden because of what is known as failed back surgery syndrome. I lost my father a few years ago as well. I was trying to send you my phone and email but Poshmark wouldn't let me for some reason

Mar 06Reply

ernatic I am literally crying reading your life’s journey …my heart goes out to you and wish you all the best anyone can wish for someone. I am not sure what happened to you (assault in 2007) but I’m so sorry for that beyond words. I just wanted to let you know that you’re an amazing fighter and will be on my mind, heart and prayers. So very courageous…I hope you heal - soon - in all areas my friend! If you ever need a person to vent to, I’m always here ❤️

Mar 07Reply

cheekychic77 @ernatic oh Erin you are so kind! Your message means more to me than you know. My assault: I was jumped/beaten by 2 men & two women. In a crowded area where no one helped me. That part still baffles me. If I see someone in trouble I do or say something. I lost 17.5 years of my life (and counting). Thank you for sharing such a sweet message. Im sorry I made you cry, I just want others to know they’re not alone (cause it certainly feels like it trying to fight for a life lost). 🩷

Mar 07Reply

needfulthyngs Very sorry about this. Sincerely wish and pray you are all better! 🙏💕😊

Mar 13Reply

cheekychic77 @needfulthyngs thank you, Geeta 🩷

Mar 13Reply

regreencreation Hugs! Praying for a speedy recovery!!!

Mar 17Reply

cheekychic77 @regreencreation thank you, Kathryn 🩷

Mar 17Reply

allnew2u2 Praying for you!

Mar 27Reply

cheekychic77 @allnew2u2 thank you 🩷

Mar 27Reply

motley2m l am so sorry to hear that my thoughts are with you. take care, Christine

Apr 17Reply

dollesque @cheekychic77 Thank you so much for all the shares. Truly appreciate your kindness and time, especially when you are going through so much. I'm so sorry you have had to deal with so much pain. I'm adding you to my daily prayer list. Will pray for your healing and for you to feel peaceful again. May God bless you infinitely kind soul. Stay strong and never give up. Keep your faith. 🩷🌸 Kind regards, Danielle

May 03Reply

cheekychic77 @dollesque thank you so much, Danielle. Your kindness and support mean the world to me🫶🏻

May 03Reply

mollymilley God bless you. I understand your plight as I deal with chronic disabling back pain for the past 15 years, surgery after surgery. I pray for you. I hear shoulder surgery and knee are the worst. I feel your pain and wish the best of good things to come your way.🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

Jun 02Reply

cheekychic77 @mollymilley thank you for the kind words, Molly. Truly 🩷

Jun 02Reply

thebelladonna Bookmarked so I can return to your fabulous closet and support your business. Praying for you! Xo

Jun 12Reply

cheekychic77 @thebelladonna awww thank you Donna🩷 You’ve already brought me a much needed smile today. Thank you for that, too!

Jun 12Reply

mollymilley I’m so sorry! I suffer the past 14 years with chronic pain due to degenerative discs, but I hear shoulder surgery is the absolute worst! Prayers out to you for relief!

Jun 29Reply

vannuys77 Oh my goodness! 🙏🙏🙏💝

Jul 29Reply

pratrat Feel better soon! You are so brave and strong. Take it easy and live life one day at a time! 🥰

Jul 29Reply

delmarvadesigns I had one minor shoulder surgery & it was an 8 month recovery. I cannot begin to imagine how much pain you must be in. I hope the team at UCLA can help you.

Aug 27Reply

needfulthyngs Dear Maryam, I am terribly sorry! My hats off to you for having such a lovely closet and hosting posh parties while bearing through so much pain. You are an inspiration to so many of us that have been suffering with chronic pain. I sincerely hope and pray for you to recover! 🙏💕 - Geeta.

Aug 28Reply

louisblu I’m so sorry to read about what you’ve been going through! You’re in my thoughts.

Aug 28Reply

robincia I just saw this. I am praying for you!! God bless you and keep you in His care.

Aug 29Reply

lindseylind88 🙏🙏🙏♥️♥️♥️

Aug 29Reply

cygnetstudio @cheekychic77 wow! I could really relate to the “battle quote 💪🏻. I had 5 surgeries and countless secondary effects from endomitrial cancer so I empathize completely with what you have, going thru and will go thru. My 🙏 are with you! I think it’s great that you share because it helps and unburden you and Help’s not feeling alone because you’re not 🫶

Sep 02Reply

kikiroxymama I am so very sorry this is happening to you! How deeply frustrating. I know what it’s like to live in hellish pain as I have a bad spine. I’ve had six spinal surgeries, neck and low back. I’ve been fortunate to have great surgeons, but still live with tremendous pain and limitations. Most of which can’t be resolved or are results of the altering from surgeries.

Sep 25Reply

kikiroxymama Learned today I can get Botox on my neck for the endless pain and headaches after fusion. I’m tired. I’m sure you are too. The loss of our previous lives is so frustrating. Hugs.

Sep 25Reply

cheekychic77 @kikiroxymama I am so livid with my prior surgeon. This shouldn’t have happened and yet, he admitted to his mistake like it’s nothing. I’m so sorry you go through life with chronic pain, too. Grieving the life I once had is something I’m still trying to get around😢 I began getting Botox almost 2 yrs ago for migraines & TMJ - GOD SEND. It took me FIVE ROUNDS to finally feel a difference. I hate when it starts to wear off around week 10.

Sep 25Reply

kikiroxymama @cheekychic77 Hey, at least the surgeon admitted and apologized! That’s super rare. Wish I could get the surgeon who left me with permanent nerve damage in my pelvis after my hysterectomy to acknowledge anything. An iota of compassion would be nice. Stabbing nerve pains in my private bits, bladder urgency, painful bowels with any movement within, gas or BM - you know, it’s so much fun!

Sep 26Reply

kikiroxymama @cheekychic77 Glad to hear about the Botox. Thanks for the heads up. It’s frustrating to get both migraines and tension headaches. The tension being from the neck fusion and that’s what will be treated with Botox. It’s such a pleasure meeting you! Hugs!

Sep 26Reply

cheekychic77 @kikiroxymama oh he did not apologize. He just continued to gaslight me and tell me my shoulder caving in is “all in my head.” Excuse me, WHAT?! I’ve heard that line plenty of times but this is literally visible to everyone.

Sep 26Reply

kikiroxymama @cheekychic77 Ass hat! Do you have an attorney?

Sep 26Reply

cheekychic77 @kikiroxymama have you tried physical therapy for your neck? I used to get tension headaches everyday when I was younger & my neuro back then found that my neck was weak. I did PT for nearly a year and I was headache-free. But I’m not sure how beneficial it would be if you’ve already had a fusion 😭 I’m also the anomaly - Botox usually takes 3 rounds to kick in.

Sep 26Reply

kikiroxymama @cheekychic77 The only place I can imagine you going from UCLA is Hospital for Special Surgeries. Might be worth having UCLA forwarding your chart to them.

Sep 26Reply

cheekychic77 @kikiroxymama Botox may be an option for your other condition especially with your bladder. Maybe discuss with your provider? Im so sorry for what you’re enduring

Sep 26Reply

kikiroxymama @cheekychic77 Oh yeah, I live for my weekly PT appointment. My guy is awesome. I’ve been seeing him for over sixteen years. He has diagnosed many of my issues. I trust my PT inherently.

Sep 26Reply

cheekychic77 @kikiroxymama oh I finally got into UCLA. They are dumbfounded and they’re the ones that told me my prior surgeon removed the wrong bones for my condition. But there’s nothing they can do or nothing they want to do (I have Medicaid so I know my insurance is a factor on treatment unfortunately).

Sep 26Reply

kikiroxymama @cheekychic77 I’ve been getting nerve blocks for the pelvic issues. Then they wear off. However, I’ve completed the process now for a partial rhyzotomy type procedure that should permanently resolve the issue. Was in PM today discussing that. Makes me a bit anxious, but anything to not live this way.

Sep 26Reply

kikiroxymama @cheekychic77 Wow. That’s amazing for UCLA to state. They are on your side. A top world class medical center told you your prior surgeon committed malpractice leaving you permanently injured. That’s major.

Sep 26Reply

cheekychic77 @kikiroxymama if I could afford expert witnesses (other doctors) to state how the prior surgeon messed up, then yes I’d be going forward legally. But I can’t. He even wrote the wrong operation for this shoulder that’s caved in. 🤦🏻‍♀️ I hate our judicial system (and oxymoronic healthcare system).

Sep 26Reply

cheekychic77 @kikiroxymama I’m hesitant when it comes to newish technology or procedures when it comes to PM. Do all the research you can - join chronic pain F B groups & find others that have had the procedure or declined to have it done & why.

Sep 26Reply