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This is somewhat belated - but here it goes! I am a mama of 2 kiddos who fill my life with the most amazing laughters. My passions b4 kids were travel, photography, work & food, I still love all those things but I am learning to readjust my priorities now 😊. I am an optimist at heart and believe in chasing after my dreams. I will always be honest and thoughtful in my closet and I hope you will enjoy this app as much as I have 😘😘.
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wasabigirl
Oh my gosh look at those smoochable cheeks!! 👶
Jun 15Reply
simplyxtrendy
Well, hello there pretty lady!! What a beautiful family!! 💋💕
Jun 15Reply
benectar
@janell06 @hanjiun you ladies are up late, hahahaha! Thanks for the love 😘
Jun 15Reply
wasabigirl
Man, sometimes I find myself searching for needless things at 3am. 😳... Oh the baby pics changed so my prior comment seems a but odd. Adorable babies!!
Jun 15Reply
andine
Great photos! And such a great closet, too! 💚
Jun 15Reply
amk0429
That coral dress is so cute I thought it was for sale! :)
Jun 15Reply
bactor23sgirl
@benectar aww...you'll are such a cute family!
Jun 15Reply
benectar
@crispyrn thanks 😘. I am not sure if the hubby should get credits now...don't want it to get to his head 🙊
Jun 15Reply
benectar
@cdfielding thanks! It's very chaotic too 😄. Isn't the wedding this weekend? Did your altered dress work out?
Jun 15Reply
benectar
@andine @bactor23sgirl thank you! ☺
Jun 15Reply
benectar
@mrs_errington thank you for always being so sweet, mama 😘😘. I am excited to be in the same state as you 👯🎈🎉. Maybe we can meet up at Disneyland or Sea World? 😁😁
Jun 15Reply
benectar
@mrs_errington I will email you ☺. Promise no more than 3 sweaters 🙊
Jun 15Reply
benectar
@cdfielding who can say no to a pretty dress?!? 🙊
Jun 15Reply
frantasticslp
😊💕 I love this listing! Priceless
Jun 15Reply
benectar
@bona81hot 😘how's your Sunday going?
Jun 15Reply
benectar
@bona81hot Sat 😳
Jun 15Reply
gymjanice
@benectar , I'm in love with your Kids!!!! 😍
Jun 16Reply
benectar
@fmuggenburg thanks 😘😘. I didn't tag anyone... I am shy 🙊
Jun 16Reply
benectar
@fmuggenburg are you done with your move?! 😁
Jun 16Reply
sarah_nicoley
Omg that dress!
Jun 16Reply
jshen9975
I love reading people's story here and it feels like I've met so many new people here and made some good friends at posh. Whoever come up with the idea of posh is(are) brilliant!
Jun 16Reply
labellayou
Aww how sweet💕look at the babies so so cute. U know u n ur husband have those husband and wife face, u two are just look alike...anyone said the same before? 😁 what a lovely family😄😘💕🌷 btw can't wait to check out ur blog hehe 😁
Jun 16Reply
benectar
@labellayou thanks, lady 😘😘. That pic is from b4 we had kids!!! So many yrs ago 😔
Jun 16Reply
labellayou
It is all good..look at the cover picture just beautiful and the cutie babies, can't ask for more mama. 😊🎉
Jun 16Reply
lilmscrys
Beautiful family
Jun 16Reply
hemojemo
Love it!
Jun 16Reply
randilyn
yayayayyyyyy! love it. 😍😘 where were the third frame of photos taken?
Jun 16Reply
benectar
@randilyn thanks, my dear 😘😘. Those were from our honeymoon to Tibet, we did the Everest Base Camp thing, amazzzzing experience!!! We went to Thailand after Tibet too 😁
Jun 16Reply
benectar
@lilmscrys @hemojemo thank you, ladies 😘
Jun 16Reply
annibella
Really amazing pictures! You look great in all of them & i esp love that smile on you with your hubby. You look so happy. Have fun in thr party! Counting down.
Jun 16Reply
sherarace
Such a gorgeous family. Love the pics!!and that purse 😳 I want!! 😘 Congrats on hosting tonight!
Jun 16Reply
kwistenm
Love!!! Such a beautiful family!!! 💗💗💗
Jun 16Reply
alexalondon
Such a beautiful family❤
Jun 17Reply
nugget_love
What a beautiful family!!! I want to eat your kiddies up!!! So cute!!!
Jun 17Reply
benectar
@lrbennett12 @annibella thanks so so much 😘
Jun 17Reply
benectar
@sherarace @kwistenm awww - thanks so much 😘
Jun 17Reply
benectar
@alexalondon @nugget_love thank you, ladies 😘😘
Jun 17Reply
cath_stylist
Hi Sharon! Wow your closet looks soooo awesome!!! So many beautiful items! Congrats on being a party hostess too, plus I love your fam pics too! love it all!!! Thanks for sharing some of my items yesterday xoxo😊☀💛
Jun 17Reply
jelainley
@benectar Finally!! I've seen your gorgeous family on IG, but it's worth repeating - you have an adorable family and you are beautiful! Excited to follow your blog 💕😘
Jun 17Reply
benectar
@cath_stylist it's always great to hear from my first PM buyer & friend!!! Thank you so much for the kind words and support 😘😘
Jun 17Reply
benectar
@jelainley thanks so much, Jenn!! 😘It's so weird to share with the "world" about my life, I am learning to take a few steps at a time! You are beautiful & kind! I am glad to have "met" you on here and now we're friends! I will keep improving the blog - excited 😁😁
Jun 17Reply
randilyn
loveeeee, did you check your PO box yet!? 😍😬
Jun 17Reply
benectar
@randilyn not yet!!! Hubby will check for me tonite - he has the PO box key 😁 can't wait!! 👯🎀
Jun 17Reply
randilyn
awww, yayyyy!! 📱📮📦📬
Jun 18Reply
benectar
@randilyn it's here!!! Along with the jcrew catalog of course 😂 my boy is having a melt-down so I will try it tmwr!!! Thank you again
+ the pink note, love it 💞😘
Jun 18Reply
randilyn
haha only fitting you got them together! glad it made across the country safely, I almost shipped myself with it. 📦😜 ps I almost warned you about my 12 yr old child note! I was going to send it in a card but didnt have time. 😔
Jun 18Reply
benectar
@randilyn so glad I got the personal pink note instead of a card, seriously made me smile 😁😁😁
Jun 18Reply
julieho2004
You are very pretty! Love your family photos!
Jun 18Reply
benectar
@julieho2004 great to hear from you - lady! Thanks so much for the compliment, making me blush ☺. Check out my blog if you have time! Good nite 😘
Jun 18Reply
julieho2004
Just check out blog! Super cute! Will be following :) goodnight dearest
Jun 18Reply
deeworks
What is being sold for $9,999?? The family??? Let's Go Ya'll!!!!!™
Jun 28Reply
mymainelookbook
Gorgeous! Beautiful family☺
Jun 28Reply
methodclothe
Your kids are too cute! Gorgeous family!
Jul 07Reply
benectar
@vacationgirl4 @lkmilks thank you so much!!
Jul 07Reply
benectar
@methodclothe thank you, mama!! Kiddos are the best!
Jul 07Reply
bbebbero
just wanted to say hi! it's been so long. hope you are well...! and you still haven't shared your new venture! :)
Jul 11Reply
benectar
@jennaychang hey lady!! Always great to hear from you! I think you are referring to my blog? I just launched it recently - still a work in progress 😁
Jul 11Reply
benectar
@riekke welcome back!! Yes - I love the top 😍
Jul 12Reply
sherarace
Love ur cover shot!!!!
Jul 13Reply
msmara18
You're gorgeous! And your family is beautiful!!
Jul 13Reply
benectar
@sherarace thanks!!
Jul 13Reply
benectar
@msmara18 thanks so much 😘. Hope you have been well!
Jul 13Reply
sunandsand2013
@benectar Hi Sharon! Your family is adorable! All those blessings!
Jul 13Reply
msmara18
Not bad :) my stupid molar cracked! Have to get a root canal and then a crown and a root lengthening! Ugh! But the kiddos are doing well
Jul 13Reply
benectar
@msmara18 that sounds painful 😥. Best of luck with the root canal!! Enjoy the summer with the kiddos 😄
Jul 13Reply
benectar
@sunandsand2013 thank you so much Helen!
Jul 13Reply
msmara18
I will! You do the same!
Jul 13Reply
ms_wang24
@benectar Your solo pix at posh came out much better than mine lol love :)
Jul 16Reply
benectar
@ms_wang24 oh - your cupcake group one is SO awesome! I love, love that one!
Jul 17Reply
ms_wang24
@benectar ☺
Jul 17Reply
gordomom
😍😍😍what a lovely family!!
Jul 23Reply
benectar
@gordomom 😘😘
Jul 23Reply
bostonshopper
@benectar I just saw this new listing and I love love! What a fantastic family you have. Your honeymoon trip is one on our bucket list. We're dying to do the trek from Kathmandu to Everest Base camp. We want to hike Kilimanjaro in Africa too. Its so nice to meet someone who shares my love for fashion and the outdoors! I think thats a hard combo to come by these days. Are you on twitter/pinterest?
Also, when did you go to the Posh headquarters? Or is that where the first photo was taken?
Jul 24Reply
benectar
@bostonshopper thanks, Holly!! My hubby is the one who loves hardcore outdoorsy things, I am more of a leisure & cultural traveler 😁. Tibet was def a trip of a lifetime, I am sooooo glad we did that b4 kids. You will love it! I went to the PMHQ a few weeks ago for their Bay Area get-together, super fun! I am on Instragram also under benectar! I have twitter & Pinterest accts but I haven't done much there... What is your handle?
Jul 24Reply
17thandirving
How did I miss this before?! 💗💗💗this. Your family is just the cutest.
Jul 27Reply
benectar
@17thandirving thank you 😘😘. Really appreciate all the shares too!
Jul 27Reply
phoebescloset11
What a beautiful family. I can't wait to read your blog! ❤
Jul 30Reply
benectar
@phoebescloset11 thanks so much! You're a sweetheart 😘😘
Jul 30Reply
hrs1112
@benectar Just stopped by to check out your closet again!! I have gotten TONS of compliments on my Anthro peplum top so thank you! 😊 I'm sure it won't be long until I buy again 👯
Aug 10Reply
eila
Adorable! ❤
Aug 14Reply
benectar
@cdfielding hi hi! It was really good but also tiring with the 2 kiddos 😁. How have you been?? Busy with work or the new house or summer fun?
Aug 17Reply
benectar
@cdfielding oh no - living in the office does not sound fun 😥. At least it's only another month or two, hang in there! I am relearning how to time-manage with work, it's not easy... I keep reminding myself that some women work full time & have 3 kids - so I need to make it happen! 😁
Aug 18Reply
enigma
Oh! I want a big P collage!! Jelly ..yep!!
Aug 23Reply
benectar
@enigma where are you in CA? You should visit the PMHQ the next time you're in the Bay Area!!
Aug 23Reply
anna13morgan
@benectar are you going to poshfest hun?? I'd love to meet you! 😍 Your closet is amazing!! 💋💋😱👏👏👏
Aug 28Reply
benectar
@anna13morgan you are so sweet, thank you 😘. I am still undecided on Poshfest, it's challenging with 2 little kiddos 😔. So happy that you will be going - it sounds like an amazing event!
Aug 28Reply
anna13morgan
@benectar oh I totally understand!! Well I hope you can find a way to make it down 😘 it's going to be a partay!!! 🎉🎉🎉
Aug 28Reply
benectar
@choirgirlsf you're so sweet, thank you! It's always nice to meet a fellow new mom!! You look great too!
Sep 02Reply
madison179
Really nice to read about you! You've inspired me to do the same in my closet! It means a lot to see who you are buying from. : ) you have a beautiful family!
Sep 07Reply
benectar
@madison179 you're so sweet, Ann!! Hope you're doing well. I see that you're on the SU program now, so super happy that you're getting recognized 😘😘
Sep 07Reply
madison179
@benectar thanks! I'm so excited for poshfest and to put faces with everyone's posh names!!! I loved seeing your bio too. It truly inspired me to put up one. I'll be working on it over the weekend. And, your closet is as lovely as ever!!
Sep 07Reply
benectar
@cultiverre thanks so much, you're so sweet!! Hope you are enjoying Poshmark so far! xo
Sep 13Reply
salenalu
I came over to see if the zara pants were still here and found this. Your little ones are sooo cute!!! 😍😍😍There is no better job than being a mom. I had to go to college, have a career in financial planning and then quit a year later to find that out. 🙈
Oct 27Reply
benectar
@salenalu yes - kids are the best!! It's wonderful to meet other moms on here!
Oct 27Reply
ohmelisap
Your so lovely and your family looks absolutely stunning so blessed my dear!!!😘👏🙋
Dec 11Reply
benectar
@ohmelisap thanks so much, that's very sweet of you and thank you for stopping by 😘😘
Dec 11Reply
wassermanalison
Beautiful family! (And closet - but too petite for me! Not fair!😁)
Dec 16Reply
benectar
@wassermanalison thanks so much! I do try to post a lot accessories and bags and shoes too =)
Dec 17Reply
kandles06
@benectar Beautiful family God Bless✨
Jan 09Reply
azizabahati
Beautiful family & lovely spirit! Continued success & happiness💛
Apr 03Reply
a2minella
Beautiful family and clothes. Nice to meet you!
Apr 03Reply
labellayou
Hi Sharon! How's thing going? Long time no chat, miss those old time a lot lol...hows kiddos?
Jul 10Reply
benectar
@labellayou I miss you! How's life being mama of 3?!?! I don't have much time for the app now that I work full time 😔. Still shop too much for my own good though!! 😂
Jul 10Reply
labellayou
Life with 3 kids is crazy but good lol....enjoying my times with this little one :) I know I don't see u much and I'm not on it as much as before neither, too many other things to take care now. U back to ur old job or hubby's? Who's taking care of ur kids?
Jul 10Reply
benectar
@labellayou well, you're VERY brave to have 3!! How are the older kiddos responding to the baby? I actually started a new job in Jan 😂😂. My parents help with the kids during the day, they are lifesavers.
Jul 11Reply
labellayou
They love her, especially my daughter she is obsessed with her 😂😂😂. New job?? That's sounds fun, that's why u have no time for this lol, new job always extra busy 😆. So ur mom is taking care of ur kid not ur inlaws? Lucky u!!!
Jul 11Reply
poppyandvine
beautiful closet!!!
Nov 01Reply
evasterbunny
Hi there! I am the person who purchased your Dolce Vita Haku booties! I wanted to let you know that I actually wanted them in black and I found them and purchased them. I'm going to try to see if I can sell the boots that I purchased from you since now I have them in black. Out of respect to You I wanted to make sureYou knew! I've priced them a little higher than when I bought them from you in order to see if I can make back all or most of what I paid. Thanks for your understanding😊
Feb 07Reply
benectar
@evasterbunny of course! I do that all the time too 😁. Glad you were able to find your black ones!
Feb 07Reply
evasterbunny
Aww thanks! I'm actually really tempted to keep them however if someone purchases them for the right price, I'll let them go!
Feb 07Reply
benectar
@evasterbunny hah, I do that too #girlproblems
Feb 07Reply
ses54
Your closet is gorgeous! ✔️🌺
Oct 04Reply
iamwarrior
Lovely closet 💝👗
Dec 20Reply
thatsclever
Great closet!! 🙈⭐️
Apr 19Reply
rafaelaguerra
❤️ your closet and family pics.
Jul 10Reply
isusmiley
What a cute family! Feel free to check out my closet. I have lots of boys clothes and posting more each week.
Sep 02Reply
kathymarco
Beautiful family!!
Oct 28Reply
kellygroves
Hi Sharon! Kelly from PMHQ :) I just sent you an email and wanted to ping you to see if you’ve had a chance to read it.
Jul 02Reply
leili24
Hi there, I have a closet clear out sale, feel free to check out my closet, 25% off bundle of 2 or more🌹check out jewlery and kids🌹
Jul 16Reply
helena90275
Hi Sharon, thank you for stopping by my closet. I will be heading out to USPS in the next 30 minutes and would love to include your package if we are able to reach a mutually acceptable price. No pressure, there always tomorrow if you want to hold off. BTW, you have a beautiful family and the cutest little ones 💕
Sep 11Reply
benectar
@helena90275 thank you! I will pass for now, will let you know if things change in the future 😄
Sep 11Reply
helena90275
@benectar no problem, have a great day!
Sep 11Reply
helena90275
@benectar if you are still interested, resubmit your last offer and I will accept 💕
Sep 12Reply
buttonstyle
Beautiful closet:)
Jan 03Reply
gordomom
Thank you for the shares, Sharon! Hope all is well! Happy new year! 🎉
Jan 03Reply
benectar
@gordomom happy New Year Michelle!! Wishing you peace, joy and good health for 2021 🎊🤞
Jan 04Reply
danamariecre8
Hi. I’m Dana. I’m a posh ambassador and I love meeting new people. If you ever need anything let me know and I’d be more than happy to answer any questions you may have💕Wishing you lots of sales and great success. Happy poshing!!❤️ Love your style! Check out my closet whenever you can. -xoxoxo
Apr 12Reply
gordomom
Hi Sharon - so nice to see you on my feed! Thank you for the shares! Hope all is well! 💝
Jan 21Reply
benectar
@gordomom thank YOU! Can you believe it’s been a decade of this app?!! Crazy, right? Happy new year and have a great 2023!
Jan 21Reply
gordomom
@benectar agreed! So crazy to think we have been on this long. I wish there was an easy way to find the OGs. I feel like we all get lost now.
Happy new year to you too! 🎉
Jan 21Reply
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