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Welcome to the contrarian closet of poshmark. I am an eccentric, eclectic, moody mom of 3 boys & 2 large, shedding dogs. I use a "certain" substance bc of the effect it has on the amygdala. I apply this same TMI transparency in listings to enable buyers to make the most educated decision possible when buying i.e. do I really want to buy from Dr.DoLittle/MaryJane/Susanna Kaysen over here?
I operate my closet in a manner opposite to most. I don't "do" offers/discount bundles. I offer 20% off 2 listings (not 1) IF you buy it now in a bundle. This is my max disc. regardless of the # of listings you purchase. There is a 5lb limit. I price fairly for each listing based on brand, condition, availability, etc. I loathe haggling. Some listings are priced over the original price bc they are HTF, PM takes 20%, & the time I spend on photos justifies a few dollars. Pricing fluctuates bc I compare prices. I no longer search kids' clothing on pm for well-known reasons. It is your right as a buyer to detest my pricing which is exactly why PM has a vast array of sellers. *If* you decide to purchase you can to do so without my interference as I prefer to attend to other endeavors.
Lastly, please do not angrily buy/hold a grudge over pricing or you want anything else than the listing you are considering purchasing (i.e. expectation of shares/extra discounts in the future). I run my closet differently bc of the unrealistic/unrelenting demands placed on me 24/7. Thank you for understanding.
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beloved_one
Welcome to this great group of people where sharing is always appreciated! I am a Posh Ambassador, so if you have any questions, please let me know. Feel free to stop by my closet, leave me a comment, follow me, and invite me to the shopping parties. Happy buying/selling to you my friend!
Sep 14Reply
andrea_friedman
Thank you! I am new to this & just trying to figure out the basics
Sep 16Reply
andrea_friedman
@beloved_one is there a way I can find out what people are looking for within certain brands
Sep 24Reply
andrea_friedman
I have been buying boys' clothes for 15+ years and I have so much I do not know what to list
Sep 24Reply
zardiva1
@andrea_friedman
1) “😘” to all the animal sweeties in your pics, haha! 😀
2) 😆 @ “It’s not oxygen lol”!
Dec 31Reply
andrea_friedman
@zardiva1 LOL. I wouldn't put it there if it didn't happen! I know Im a smart-ass but if I wanted to deal with that kind of high school drama I wouldn't have busted my ass so I could finish hs in 3 years...bc I couldnt take that superficiality & the warped priorities. I'm sure you really needed that explanation. lol
Jan 01Reply
zardiva1
@andrea_friedman 3️⃣ years⁉️😲 That’s fantastic! 👍😃👏🙌👌🤘🥇🏆
Jan 04Reply
andrea_friedman
@zardiva1 haha. I had enough credits, it actually wasnt that difficult. Plus, I like to read & write & find it enjoyable to do so for hours.
Jan 23Reply
zardiva1
@andrea_friedman Yup, I love to read too, since I was a toddler, haha 👍😀😘📘📗📕📚📖
Jan 27Reply
andrea_friedman
@zardiva1 I couldnt read until I was 7-8 years old. That is pretty incredible!!!
Jan 27Reply
zardiva1
@andrea_friedman Awww, thanks! 😃🥰 I think I remember my mother saying that she read to me since I was a baby and I just picked it up, I guess 🙂
Jan 28Reply
andrea_friedman
@zardiva1 that is impressive!!! What kind of stuff do you like to read?
Jan 29Reply
zardiva1
@andrea_friedman Well, I haven’t read actual 📚 in awhile, because I haven’t gotten around to going to the library lately, like I used to, but back when I was going, I read a variety of books. As a kid & teen, I’d🚶♀️to the library some Saturdays & some summer days, pull various 📚 off the shelves that I thought looked interesting, and sit @ a table and read. What I didn’t finish, I’d check out right before closing, load ‘em in my 🎒and go 🏡 🙂
Jan 30Reply
andrea_friedman
@zardiva1 that is awesome. I discovered I do not have the attention span for a novel, per say, bc I could look up a word & get sidetracked with something else...lol. Im old though, when I was in elementary school we had the card catalog lol.
Jan 30Reply
zardiva1
@andrea_friedman Hey, I always kept a dictionary 📕 on my nightstand for looking up words when I was reading, and would get sidetracked by noticing *other* words and reading the definitions to those words too, haha 😀
Jan 30Reply
andrea_friedman
@zardiva1 lol haha me too!!! I think that is super cool..bc saying "super cool" really makes you feel validated lolol. That is awesome though...I would get so sidetracked looking up words it was difficult for me to actually finish a book in a timely manner.
Jan 30Reply
zardiva1
@andrea_friedman LOL! 😃
Jan 30Reply
andrea_friedman
@zardiva1 do you feel "validated" ??? lolol
Jan 30Reply
zardiva1
@andrea_friedman Yup, hehe! 👍😁
Jan 31Reply
andrea_friedman
@zardiva1 but seriously look at people wanting validation from strangers on the internet...lol...I just want to make people laugh :P even if I have to poke fun of my ridiculousness to do it.
Jan 31Reply
zardiva1
@andrea_friedman Yup, I don’t get that either, haha 😏
Jan 31Reply
andrea_friedman
@zardiva1 like "oh look at me Im fabulous. Im perfect my life is perfect, be envious of me & my material things" as if they never fart or something. lolol
Jan 31Reply
zardiva1
@andrea_friedman 😂
Jan 31Reply
andrea_friedman
@zardiva1 and I keep sharing this bc I update & everyone can see I said the word "fart" lolol. That's my husband. My realm of expertise is of the belching variety. I own it, though. lol
Jan 31Reply
zardiva1
@andrea_friedman Oh, no 😯 haha 😄
Jan 31Reply
andrea_friedman
@zardiva1 I wonder how many people blocked me bc of this declaration...lol
Feb 03Reply
zardiva1
@andrea_friedman Hmmm… 🤔 (Haha 😄)
Feb 06Reply
andrea_friedman
@zardiva1 lol the one who offered me $125 for 39 listings is aggravated she stepped on the beehive & I stung back. She blocked me but that is only bc I figured out what was going on & exposed it. Im ok with that lol.
Feb 14Reply
zardiva1
@andrea_friedman Exactly👌 She sounds ridiculous 🙄
Feb 16Reply
andrea_friedman
@zardiva1 I can't concentrate bc I really like your cat lol.
Feb 23Reply
zardiva1
@andrea_friedman Thanks, haha 😄 but he’s an *angel* now 😔😢😭*😘🐈⬛*
Feb 27Reply
andrea_friedman
@zardiva1 aww I'm sorry. I had another collie who recently died of nasal carcinoma... so I get that sadness :( It is a great way to remember him though & it really is a great photo. Do you have any other furries?
Feb 27Reply
zardiva1
@andrea_friedman Thanks so much 🤗😘 No, I don’t have any other furries at the moment but I will eventually 🙂
Feb 28Reply
rhenaye1
OMG. Your honesty is hilarious! I love it! I also think your pics of family are great! Thanks for liking one of my items. Visit anytime. ❤️
Apr 09Reply
andrea_friedman
@rhenaye1 lol & for every one of you there are prob 10 who can't stand it. At least people know right away if they dont like me lol
Apr 09Reply
rhenaye1
@andrea_friedman I was feeling sorta yucky but you made me laugh. Keep being yourself and loving who you are. 😄
Apr 09Reply
andrea_friedman
@rhenaye1 you too my friend!!!
Apr 09Reply
poshmomlove
Thank you so much for sharing so many things in my closet!! I appreciate it!😊
Apr 16Reply
poshmomlove
@andrea_friedman Thank you so much for sharing my closet with others!! 😊
Apr 16Reply
andrea_friedman
@poshmomlove anytime...but Thank you for having a great closet & allowing me to share! :) You are very kind!
Apr 16Reply
poshmomlove
@andrea_friedman awww! Thank you again! Also a mom to 3 boys here 🤪 and 1 yellow lab lady who sheds a ton too!! God Speed to you Mama!! 😉😊
Apr 16Reply
mum2one
Your closet is amazing!! So much of your older Gymboree/Boden brought me down memory lane, as my son wore a lot of the same pieces when he was younger. Love it all, along with your descriptions and energy!
Apr 20Reply
julissazelaya
Welcome to Poshmark! I’m Lissa, and I invite you to check out my closet.❤️
I have a lot of beautifuls and cutes charms for your bracelets and necklaces.🍸 🌟
I am available If you have any questions feel free to ask me! ❤️ ❤️
Happy Poshing! 🌺🌺
Apr 21Reply
wickednavi
Good read. Feel this in my bones. Just trying to sell my daughter's stash and the resellers are total trash here. Mega lowballers, remove their about seller...auto rating to avoid a source trail 🤦♀️ dealing with that right now. Who cares. Its easy to track them. I find it pretty funny that they even use multiple accounts to get you to lower the offers.
Definitely not a reseller myself but feels like I'm a minority around Boden 🤣🤣
Apr 24Reply
wickednavi
I don't drive, I am a house hobbit artist, thanks for the art likes. I know its not really the market but why not post stuff eh?
If you are interested in anything though let me know. Probably won't be a landslide discount for brands...but I am trying to price reasonable and then reseller F off on what I know they troll for.
Apr 24Reply
drifterthrift
Hi there, thanks for all the likes and shares! I’m happy to give a bundle offer if you decide to make a bundle. 🤗
Apr 29Reply
brooklyncat19
@andrea_friedman hi Andrea! Thanks for liking and sharing! Let me know if you’re interested in any offers or even a bundle offer. I like your story and all your pics, beautiful kiddos and pets pics! Have a great rest of the day! jenna 🌞🌸
Apr 30Reply
andrea_friedman
@abby2025 I get that. I know the difference between someone bundling all items & an offer or an automatic offer per listing. I am referring to those who send me multiple offers from one listing 2-5 (not a bundling offer) after they see something I like of theirs sells or flooding me when I log on.
May 13Reply
andrea_friedman
@abby2025 no no. You dont have to do any of that. I don't have an intention of buying. I think you have a great closet which is why I shared it. What I was saying was I understand when people send me bundling offers (bc they think Im going to buy & dont realize what Im doing) versus someone who sends me multiple offers on one listing in a contrived way bc they want me to "publicize" their things by relying on me to share the same listing. Does that make sense?
May 13Reply
andrea_friedman
@abby2025 I ran out of space. Im sorry if that is confusing. Im frustrated when the same sellers are bombarding me at strategic times (like before posh shows) to share the same listings. I totally understand if you are confused.
May 13Reply
candy258
Hi 🙋🏽♀️Happy Poshing‼️🛍
May 22Reply
comaas02
Thanks for all your likes and sharing! LMK if your interested in bundling any of them. Love all your pics of your dogs, gotta love our fur babies! ❤️
May 23Reply
andrea_friedman
@evencloset LOL! Being obnoxious is my way lol
May 25Reply
stilettosgirls
@andrea_friedman tried to message you on my bundle but it won’t let me message you! She did not respond BTW. Sorry crazy busy week! How are you?
May 27Reply
happyhippieposh
Thanks for all the shares!!!! Will be returning your kindness!!!
Jun 02Reply
ally_marc
@andrea_friedman I love this, lol thank you 🙏🏻👼🏻💝🛍
Jun 02Reply
jacobmeade84
Lol, i needed this, you're awesome 😁
Jun 10Reply
eyecandas
Absolute fabulous collection of MINI BODEN! LOVE it!
Jun 11Reply
rabbitink
Andrea,
Thank you SO MUCH for all of your likes and sharing my items… I truly appreciate you!! I hope you have a wonderful weekend!
💜💜 Laura
Jun 11Reply
jers65
Thanks for visiting my closet. I’m going to share yours. I really enjoyed reading your bio. Your boys and fur babies are adorable! I used to have a mixed collie best dog ever. 💕 💕
Jun 13Reply
andrea_friedman
@jers65 you are sweet! I love mixes! ❤️
Jun 13Reply
ohcourtneystfuu
I can relate to the A. D. D Meme 😂
Jun 18Reply
maximumfashion
Girl--- you crack me up. I love your intro to you (meet the posher) especially the part about needs wants and oxygen (it explains everything) smiles here - :)
I am eclectic which is polite way of saying helter skelter or loving everything. Keep on Poshing (as we would have said in 70s if Posh had been around). PS - raising boys can be a blast. I learned a lot from my two boys who now have almost grown up kids of their own. :)
Jun 23Reply
dmcgrath1313
@evencloset I dont get the “its not oxygen” quote… lol what does it mean i read all of this but im still lost …
Jun 23Reply
dmcgrath1313
@daloe Yes !!! Thank you .. its so disrespectful and I let them know too !!!
Jun 23Reply
dmcgrath1313
There are a bunch of people on this site that think they are Posh Kardashians and they are above you ,and god forbid you question anything .. its like how dare you !!! Id Loveeeeee to say who they are to see if anyone else has had them do this… and banished off the island … and because she has such a big following and I upset her I guess word got out, and now people I considered my posh friends no longer speak to me. Yet none of them blocked me because I put so much money in their pocket.
Jun 23Reply
rosofthread
@dmcgrath1313 seller is basically saying it’s not death and it’s not that important such as oxygen. Saying you’ll be okay 😂😂😂
Jun 23Reply
andrea_friedman
@dmcgrath1313 like high school! That's why I just say what I think. I can relate to disliking people in a different manner. Unbelievable how people get pissed bc I say directly "hey, don't harass me or I'll unlike your $hit" & people get all offended & block me if I ask a simple question. I'm not beholden to anyone here. I always answer questions unless I don't see them. NO ONE is bettee than anyone else here. I hate that superiority $hit.
Jun 23Reply
dmcgrath1313
@evencloset ahhhhhhh ok lol tu duhhhhh
Jun 23Reply
dmcgrath1313
@andrea_friedman i texted u … lol did u get it
Jun 23Reply
andrea_friedman
@dmcgrath1313 I dont see it yet but Im oblivious.
Jun 23Reply
andrea_friedman
@evencloset lol well Im going to start my own club of weirdos/dorks/misfits/nerds lol
Jun 23Reply
rosofthread
@andrea_friedman I’m in 😂😂😂😂
Jun 23Reply
andrea_friedman
@evencloset lol you're in lol
Jun 23Reply
winniedoit
Hi Andrea! Thank you so much for all the shares and likes ❤️💕🥰 I love your energy and bluntness!! All the things I feel too but can’t express. I didn’t know what to expect when I started a few months ago and have come across many buyers who likes to offer wayyyyy below asking. I absolutely loved what you wrote!! Wishing you tons of sales here!! Happy Poshing!! 😊
Jun 24Reply
hildeee
🙈😂right on👍!
Jul 15Reply
pyewacket13
Thanks for all the shares and likes, I read your about me page and was rolling on the floor laughing, so thanks also for the laughs, we need more people like you in the world!❤️
Jul 17Reply
sohappy804
@dmcgrath1313 i love this! so great. do you want me to send you an offer on all your likes?
Jul 19Reply
dmcgrath1313
@sohappy804 sure ill take a look
Jul 19Reply
killari2015
Well said!
Jul 23Reply
indigopuffin
@andrea_friedman I love you! You’re awesome!
Jul 25Reply
stufffroma2z
Hi! Thanks for the like on a few items I have listed. Prices are negotiable, and I can also do a bundle deal as well 😎
Jul 26Reply
etherealeyes
thanks for the admiration❣️
your life is beautifully active and fulfilled with joyous love! trail on trailblazer!!
Aug 04Reply
dodadee1
I LOVE your sense of humor & outlook on life!!! We need more wonderful, honest people like you!
😎💜💕 Donna
Aug 07Reply
azstylist65
hi there! I absolutely loved reading your "zaniness" as I call it LOL it's nice and refreshing to read someone else's profile and you can feel the bubbly nature of that person. you definitely are that! I'm wondering if you have a moment I do have some questions about some issues that are going on with my closet, sometimes I don't know the protocol from poshmark.
Aug 19Reply
azstylist65
This person will bundle from 10 to 20 items and ask for like 1/8 of the cost. I always counter but then she declines and you can sense that she's upset and irate. and waits a couple hours and redoes it again with different items. personally to me, the lowballing is disrespectful. I don't know what I should do, just try to ignore her?
oh, and thank you so much for sharing my ENTIRE closet LOL LOL!
Aug 19Reply
calltherain
Oh my gosh... you have encountered some tough ____on here. im still kind of new& drug kicking and protesting into it to help or daughter. i couldn't sell a gourmet meal to a starving person. and my daughter frequently tells me I'm giving it away. well...it is used clothing most time. i didn't realize people buy to resell. that is shitty if im not a wholesaler.
sheesh thanks for the educated education
Sep 01Reply
calltherain
u paint!! us too.
and we had a bassett...loved her so ooo much. your painting is spot on
ok ill shut up now
Sep 01Reply
andrea_friedman
@calltherain you dont have to shut up! I never do lol. Some of the stuff I see on here is pretty horrible & it gets to me
Sep 01Reply
katpower77
Lurve the pics! Especially the vaperiffic 4-0 😂
Sep 05Reply
daughteranddad
Thank you sooooooo much for the sharing of my closet (and liking some ;), we truly appreciate it!!
Sep 21Reply
andrea_friedman
@daughteranddad no problem!!! Great closet. Love the vintage sweaters! Thanks for letting me share!
Sep 21Reply
daughteranddad
@andrea_friedman My daughter and I just started this venture but we started kind of late because she went back to college. So most of this is just the “vintage” things of mine. 😂😂
Sep 21Reply
suestyer
Hi Andrea- thanks for making this space fun. We don’t often get a glimpse of the person behind the closet. Thanks for doing that. And thanks for sharing a lot of stuff in my closet. I only started sharing after I had been on PM for a while. I never buy based from a share, so I wonder if others do. Are we all sharing just because it’s the thing to do?
Oct 05Reply
theriverpo
This listing is cracking me up! I’m enjoying reading your listings so far and will come back to peruse more! I’m glad you’re not letting all the boring, can’t-take-a-joke folks get to you!
Oct 05Reply
shaktiskye
@andrea_friedman I adore you, whilst agreeing wholeheartedly! 🌞💥🌌
Oct 24Reply
ccheffro
@dmcgrath1313 that’s horrible, people need to support one another, help those that are new, this place drives me crazy. Love all the poshers responding to this!!!
Nov 10Reply
poshrae1
Looks like I found the party closet that tells it like it is😊
Nov 11Reply
andrea_friedman
@poshrae1 I had a lot more, but since my authenticity is a huge threat, all the basic ****** report everything. lol.
Nov 11Reply
poshrae1
@andrea_friedman I appreciate your honesty😊
Nov 11Reply
diamoninthrough
Thank you for sharing my closet!!
Nov 12Reply
melinferno
Thanks for sharing my closet.... Mel
Nov 29Reply
lilshrimp53
@zardiva1 🤣🤣@It's not Oxygen
Dec 01Reply
chelsea_place
We must be long lost relatives because we sound a lot alike! Happy Poshing!
Dec 01Reply
robi2trvl
@andrea_friedman
I finished h.s. in 3 years, too! L.O.L.
Dec 11Reply
calove10
Thank you for the shares !!
Jan 24Reply
vanyataycoon
Very unique &interesting perspective it your life nobody but you makes your world go around so I'm all for it this world needs more free spirits
Mar 01Reply
wicket999
Thanks again for Sharing ❣️❣️😊🙏
Mar 05Reply
cindymiller531
😂🤣😂🤣. Love your attitude and sense of humor!! If only we couldn't make the whole world just like you! Loved all of your pictures and hilarious words! I'm still laughing out loud... lol can't wait to look at your closet.🥰🥳🙈🙊🙉
Apr 04Reply
tangosandra
Thank you for all the likes. I really appreciate that! If there's anything you're interested let me know. Please put it in your bundle and we can have a discussion about about a better price. Have a wonderful day!
Apr 23Reply
voyager_style
Love this disclaimer!
May 04Reply
kaloratreasures
@voyager_style I wish more did! I got a couple of ladies ticked at me when they sent me extremely low offers like $10 on a $39 item that I paid more for. So they started flagging my items as replicas and Posh support won’t tell me any info. Just the removed item number (which I don’t know what it was attached to). Told me if I do it again I was gone. So I am removing my listings as I won’t let them make more money off me.
May 09Reply
thepreppypunker
OMG I love your candor…so refreshing. Lost my bipolar sister (also a posher @nice__rack) this year. Reading your MTP was like having a convo with my wacky, loving sister who always told it like it is. Also, I have a collie too, so yay! (BTW I found your closet when doing the Posh listing review. Some a-hole reported your dog listing as a replica…why are people sick jerks??) Anyhoo, thanks for the laughs.
Jun 02Reply
andrea_friedman
@thepreppypunker lol. I just saw this. People report my listings if because I'm a weird threat...lol
Jun 26Reply
thedarningyarn
hi 👋🏼you are amazing. as if you needed me to tell you that 🙃😘💥
Jul 10Reply
dorenratcliff
Hi, Beautiful children and dogs!! I loved reading Ayn Rand; you've reminded me to re-read, it's been years!😀
Jul 20Reply
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