bfshopalot @raelyneruff I liked 2 things you had that aren't for sale. I did however buy a lace blazer and I looked up the designer and her clothes sell for 200 and up. I got it for 19? I think. I've been lucky with my purchases. I only had 1 that didn't fit (but kept) but I didn't read the size or I wouldn't have gotten it but I loved the lace on it and took it off and sewed it onto another sweater I have that I hardly wear but will now because the lace made all the difference.

Apr 29Reply

raelyneruff @bfshopalot it’s good to do your research before you buy. Sometimes people ask why something is priced the way it is and it just depends on the market and the designer. But I always give bundle deals and great prices to return buyers. Who was the designer on your lace jacket?

Apr 29Reply

bfshopalot @raelyneruff Cynthia Rowley. I also bought a black sweater with 3 rhinestone clusters for $9. I wasn't sure it would fit but it's perfect. That brand was H&M. I'm a sucker for bling and different.

Apr 29Reply

bfshopalot @raelyneruff It all depends on the item. I have to decide how will I wear this?

Apr 29Reply

raelyneruff @bfshopalot you did great!

Apr 29Reply

bfshopalot @raelyneruff I've been very pleased. You just happen to be one of my favorite sellers. This is what you get for being so gracious.

Apr 29Reply

raelyneruff @bfshopalot I’m honored. I think we’re new friends❤️

Apr 29Reply

bfshopalot @raelyneruff I think so too.

Apr 29Reply

bfshopalot @raelyneruff BUT I don't try to take advantage of my friends. You have a business to run and I know this. When I taught Special Education life skills if I didn't like one of my aides I gave her an evaluation on her performance. Not my personal feelings. Some had perfect scores but were horrible to me.

Apr 29Reply

raelyneruff @bfshopalot ah, but I treat my friends very well.❤️

Apr 29Reply

bfshopalot @raelyneruff Yes you do.

Apr 29Reply

mylovejewelry Hey there, I hope you have fun on Poshmark. There is some gorgeous jewelry in my closet. I think they are super matched with your clothes and you will be the focus no matter where you are if you wear them. Or they are very nice gifts to your mum, sister, wife, or girlfriend. So please feel free to check out my closet. Thank you and all my best wishes to you.

May 10Reply

bfshopalot @mylovejewelry I will take a look. Thank you.

May 10Reply

tutuwig Hi, it is a so nice place since you are here. Hope you get lots of fun here. I am selling the wigs. Thanks.

May 14Reply

bfshopalot @tutuwig Thank you.

May 14Reply

nevadadeb This Betty is one great lady!! Super sweet,great buyer and rater and downright A+++ posher!!💗

May 17Reply

bfshopalot @nevadadeb You are so sweet. Thank you.

May 17Reply

bfshopalot Dear Sellers, Please add the sizes to your clothing. A small for one store may be and extra small in another store. When I keep asking for sizes I don't get responses which then means I probably won't buy it. Thank you!

May 17Reply

beautifynails Hello there. So nice to meet you here. I love the beautiful and cute nail art. I hope you love too. Hope you have fun here. All the best.

May 18Reply

bfshopalot @beautifynails Thank you

May 18Reply

golfdiva192 Hi Betty. thanks for checking out my closet and finding something you like. I can take 10% off the pretty blazer,, enjoy this memorial day weekend !

May 27Reply

bfshopalot @golfdiva192 You have a good weekend as well.

May 27Reply

pennydawson42 Hello and Welcome to Poshmark. Hope you enjoy it as much as we all do. Have a great day and Happy Poshing 🤗

Jun 08Reply

bfshopalot @pennydawson42 Thank you.

Jun 08Reply

bfshopalot @raelyneruff Can someone actually block you from turning down an offer. I was going to offer on something I turned down but I can't even like or message the seller. I find it weird and sorta dumb since it hasn't been sold and I'm willing to buy it. Also why would someone do that?

Jun 10Reply

raelyneruff @bfshopalot yes, sellers can block anyone they want. I have blocked people who are rude but I don’t know why someone would’ve blocked you. I’m sorry you’ve had that experience,❤️

Jun 10Reply

raelyneruff Did you offer a low price? Sometimes people block buyers who offer ‘lowball’ prices.

Jun 10Reply

bfshopalot @raelyneruff I was't rude at all. I just hit decline and then decided to buy it so she would have made a little more than her offer. I just don't get it because it's not sold and she's losing a sale. I had an argument with someone else but it was a miscommunication on my part and we both were adults and resolved it.

Jun 10Reply

raelyneruff @bfshopalot what’s her name? Do you want me to try to communicate with her for you?

Jun 10Reply

bfshopalot @raelyneruff No. She made an offer and I declined so when I changed my mind I had planned on going up a little because I declined.

Jun 10Reply

bfshopalot @raelyneruff No. I'm going to let it go. I try not to be one of those people who low ball and when someone declines me and counter offers me I usually take their offer. I think if she's that upset because all I did was decline it I would rather not work with her. Everyone else has been great. I kept doing counter offers on a sweater and sent her a message and said I wasn't opposed to her I was trying to decide. I ended up paying her the offer she gave me and explained she wasn't going to go down

Jun 10Reply

bfshopalot @raelyneruff So we had a chat and I ended up buying it at what she said. She was very nice about it too.

Jun 10Reply

bfshopalot @raelyneruff Seriously....all I did was decline her offer but was willing to offer her more and she blocked me so I couldn't even tell her, like it or buy it.

Jun 10Reply

raelyneruff @bfshopalot You just have to look for similar items-sometimes you’ll find better prices anyway. You’re such a nice person, I can’t believe she thought you were anything else.

Jun 10Reply

raelyneruff Oh, good.

Jun 10Reply

bfshopalot @raelyneruff All I did was decline. BUT I wanted to make it up to her and she blocked me. It's so weird.

Jun 10Reply

bfshopalot @raelyneruff I try to have good communication with the sellers. Even the one I realized I misunderstood .....we chatted and apologized to each other and had a wonderful chat after that. Same with sweater seller. I wanted her to know what I was thinking and she told me she wasn't going to price down and I'm SOOOOOOO glad I bought it. It fits like it was made for me but even then we didn't argue. It was a nice chat.

Jun 10Reply

bfshopalot @raelyneruff OK it was @blessyourmemory and it was for a black velvet jacket. I wouldn't mind you talking to her.

Jun 10Reply

raelyneruff @bfshopalot no, I don’t need to communicate with her if you’ve worked everything out. I’m happy it’s all settled to your satisfaction. I won’t be adding jackets and sweaters until August so stay tuned.❤️

Jun 10Reply

bfshopalot @raelyneruff No I just worked it out with the other 2 but not her. I do check your closet and say AHHHHH I want that and then see it was sold! HA! BUT you don't have to intervene. I'm letting it go. I don't know her reason for blocking me and I will never know and that's ok but thank you for wanting to help out. You are a good friend.

Jun 10Reply

raelyneruff @bfshopalot lol-just don’t go to the bottom of the closet! That’s where the sold items are. Oh, and some of my winter items too. If you go down to the bottom, you’ll see a lucky brand black velvet jacket with blue embroidery. It’s pretty darn cool.

Jun 10Reply

bfshopalot @raelyneruff I'm on it.!!!!!! LOL

Jun 10Reply

bfshopalot @raelyneruff I did see that one earlier but it's too small. I loved it. Still do.

Jun 10Reply

raelyneruff @bfshopalot it’s tight on me too. Fits me like the pic. I like them to close.😂

Jun 10Reply

bfshopalot @raelyneruff Same.

Jun 10Reply

bfshopalot @raelyneruff On a whim I bought a zip lock bag of 50 necklaces for less than half of what she was asking. She said she didn't have time to list them so I really was curious and bought them. I was shocked at how pretty 99% of them were. What also surprised me is none of them were tangled. She was right some were worth $5-$25 or more.

Jun 14Reply

raelyneruff @bfshopalot wow! Lucky you!

Jun 14Reply

bfshopalot @raelyneruff I wasn't expecting there to be so many pretty ones.

Jun 14Reply

raelyneruff @bfshopalot did you offer $20 on a $50 price?

Jun 14Reply

raelyneruff These would be awesome gifts for my clothing buyers.

Jun 14Reply

bfshopalot @raelyneruff yes she accepted the 20. There is another person doing the same thing. I can't remember her name.

Jun 14Reply

bfshopalot @raelyneruff It showed it at the top of my purchase.

Jun 14Reply

bfshopalot @raelyneruff Here is one but there was another person.@poshlady4life

Jun 14Reply

bfshopalot @raelyneruff You can also write in jewelry lot and there are others.

Jun 14Reply

poshlady4life @bfshopalot thank you for mentioning me for the jewelry lot :) very kind of you. I love when fellow poshers help each other out! Mine sold but I will be listing another 5lb lot of jewelry today :). I will share some of your closet :)

Jun 14Reply

poshlady4life @bfshopalot sorry realized you don’t have anything in your closet it but I will pay it forward :)

Jun 14Reply

bfshopalot @poshlady4life My friend would be interested in that. I'll mention her name and let her know. I really like your treasures. Thank you.

Jun 14Reply

bfshopalot @raelyneruff She is going to do another bag read above. Super nice person and trustworthy.

Jun 14Reply

bfshopalot @raelyneruff @taryncat has some pearls in a bundle. Very pretty ones.

Jun 16Reply

raelyneruff @bfshopalot she has nice jewelry. I went on a buying spree yesterday though. Bought 3 dresses, a skirt 3 blouses and a pair of Prada boots. Think I’m at my limit.😂

Jun 16Reply

bfshopalot @raelyneruff I'm having to take a break as well.🤣

Jun 16Reply

kdr88 Welcome to Poshmark! I’m Kendra! As a celebration of you joining Poshmark I’m going to offer you 50% off any bundle in my closet! Just create a bundle and type in the comment section “NEW2POSH” and I’ll send the offer over! You have 24 hours to redeem this coupon!

Jun 18Reply

bfshopalot @kdr88 Thank you

Jun 18Reply

mckenziejruud hey there. I'm in some major need of closet space so I have posted a variety of sizes, brands, and styles and will continue to post more over the next few days all for $10 or under. So make sure to scroll all the way down. I ship same or next day depending on the time. if you have some time check it out and see if you can help me clear out my closet in anyway. 😊 Happy Poshing

5 days agoReply